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(@blather)
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Hello, all: I've been playing with my prostate on and off for several years, and have an issue that I have not seen addressed yet. I find a lot of toys and a few other prostate things like electro-stim really feel great, but as things build, they almost always end with my ejaculating, but not experiencing much of an orgasm--certainly not a big O.

This happens whether I'm stroking myself or not. It tends to happen fairly quickly (10-15 min), too.

Anyone else encounter this issue? Any suggestions?


   
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Welcome, man! It happened to me a few times but it's really not the norm... are you really aroused when it happens or it's more of a mechanical thing where it always happen easily after that much time without that much buildup? Might need to ramp up slower OR faster, need more info to answer this.

Like you know, when you can cum with a semi-hard penis and barely feel anything because you're masturbating out of boredom? Not saying this is the case, trying to make some parallels. Or you're very physically aroused and the mental feelings don't have time to build and you cum and it's just done and not that good? 

10-15 minutes is pretty fast, if you can solve the pleasure angle, you'll make for lost time pretty quickly! 


   
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Posted by: @blather

Ejaculation but no orgasm? I find a lot of toys and a few other prostate things like electro-stim really feel great, but as things build, they almost always end with my ejaculating, but not experiencing much of an orgasm--certainly not a big O. Anyone else encounter this issue? Any suggestions?

Since it is possible to have an orgasm without an ejaculation, perhaps it is possible to have an ejaculation without an orgasm. This is certainly the case with an electro-induced ejaculatory response (used on breeding bulls regularly to collect semen). Orgasms in humans are really pretty complicated events, most of which actually takes place in the mind. Please see the thread What's an Orgasm?.

In my life I have had a few ejaculatory orgasms which were underwhelming and non-intense. Upon reflection these were probably the result of a more mechanistic masturbatory session lacking sufficient arousal much like what fellow member @Zentai mentioned above. You may have fallen into the trap of lacking sufficient arousal. May I suggest you read the threads Are you "aroused"?, Aneros, Arousal & Abstinence/Semen Retention, 21 day challenge post and @divine_o 's recent thread Arousal building methods

Good Vibes to You!

 

 


   
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Thanks, gents! I'll try your suggestions soon.


   
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Yes I do kegels  all the time. When you can do it properly,  you can fill your urethra with semen and can do a reverse kegel it will flow out of your cock. I can do it completely safe. After I haven't lost the want to have sex feeling. I can just drain my balls with out orgasm. Now this takes a lot of practice.


   
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Ive had this and it happens when there is a larger device in there as it stops the neccessary contractions and prostate needing breatihng room. Larger devices cause it to be unable and im amazed peopel so readily promote larger devices here, its getting beyond a joke for those wanting to learn how to have prostate O's. Years its been going on, years!


   
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I have experienced several ejaculations without orgasm. It is usually when I am when I have had 2-3 ruined orgasms just before, and I decide to "go all the way".  The ruined orgasms feel incredible (with their dribbling half ejaculation), and strangely enough the final ejaculation feels just relieving, but not orgasmic.

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I think everyone's suggestions should be taken with a grain of salt. Nothing works for everyone a certain things work for very few. I just read a generalization the other day in the Best of Bee-line thread that I somewhat disagree with, because in that particular case personally I have had the opposite experience--but maybe I'm the only one. I think every opinion and experience is valid, because it gives people ideas of new things to try.  And without trying things, we can't find out what works for each of us as unique individuals.


   
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