Ejaculation before reaching Super-O

What position/s are you using? Is your penis in contact with anything?

Suggest stimulating other chakras (Heart with nipples, Dan Tien/Navel with Male Deer exercise etc.) to bring more of your body into play. As @Tuatra points out, keeping your penis clear of bedding is a must.

I always lie on my back with a pillow to raise myself up off the bed so the aneros' movement doesn't get impeded. My penis isn't touching anything.

Does the ejaculation feel like there's an orgasm happening with it at the same time? Either way I must admit I'm impressed and a bit jealous!!

I have the exact Same 'issue' as the topic starter; i get great pleasure from using the aneros (with

clenching as wel as the 'do nothing' approach), but it always leads to a handsfree wet orgasm. I've tried Different models but it does not Make a difference. I use the same position as the topic starter and do not Touch the bed with my penis. Lately i have been thinking that the thoughts i use to stay excited (these are usually ejaculation-related) might be of influence. Any suggestions are welcome !

@techpump: in my case, Yes, the ejaculation Comes along with an orgasm. (Wish i could ejaculate without having an orgasm ! 🙂 )

You want to keep the sexual energy contained to build it...... so relax deeply and focus on your breath.....leave the sexy mind movies for the beginning of the session to get your motor started but then switch to focusing on your breath

I'll try.. I did notice that as i approach orgasm, my muscles will start to contract and overall relaxation diminishes. In this stage, when i relax and think about something else than sex, the feeling of imminent orgasm will usually fade, unless i have passed a certain point of excitement. it's not the point of no return, as i can stay in this zone for up to a few minutes before ejaculating. And yet it is similar because once i'm in this zone, i know i will ejaculate soon. The feeling is not so strong as when you pass the point of no return; it's more like a distant feeling/tingle in the groin area which indicates the cum is on it's way. I can fight it for a while but in the end it always leads to ejaculation. Maybe the breathing techniques can help here to redirect the energy to different places inside the body instead of expelling it. Anyone else who recognises this 'zone'?