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12/05/2022 11:09 pm
This post is mainly for me to kind of voice some of my disappointment and frustration. Since I dont really expect people here to be able to help me, I gotta go through this myself and maybe its just time and there is nothing I can do differently or better than I am already doing and it gets better with more time put into the practice.
I am not chasing orgasms at this point, I just would like to feel pleasure. Does not need to become a super orgasm, just to have a certain baseline of pleasure to my sessions that is more satisfying than what I have now. I dont really get a lot of pleasure, maybe some twinkle here or there but its like a flash and it does not build. I dont know how to get the pleasure to build or even if I can do something differently to build it. I certainly can not produce it on command nor do I know why it sometimes happens.
I do kegels mainly when I am having a session, squeezing the pc muscle, relaxing it, squeezing again. The sphincter also but now I am trying to get more control over the pc and to differentiate it from the sphincter. Although it feels that there are not just two muscles there, there are a bunch of them but I dont have individual control over them that much but when they do move I do recognize there are multiple ones that can move independently. I also do the mindgasm practices, I try the do nothing approach in the strictest sense of literally not squeezing the muscles at all and actively keeping them relaxed. That one is a total dud, fall asleep every time I try that one and feel literally nothing from it. I go a few days without ejaculation to help me, that has helped a little but still the sessions are less than desirable as far as pleasure goes. I know I should not have any expectations or think anything, but I do. My mind has thoughts and I do want to feel pleasure, to say I dont would be lying to myself. But neither am I dwelling on it while I am having a session, I try to give my full attention to the feelings in my prostate during a session, I am not thinking "this sucks" or "this is not pleasurable enough". Its mostly afterwards that I feel discouraged. I am complaining here because its the only thing I know how to do regarding this thing. Maybe writing this out helps me get rid of some of the frustration. Love you for reading.
I can get involuntary muscle spasm happening, but there is no pleasure with them. The muscles are going on and I can even shift and control it a bit by how strong I squeeze and how I squeeze. But there is no pleasure there. Maybe a minimal pleasure here or there but nothing that has any real extension in time that I could keep my attention with. Or alternatively there is such a small spark of pleasure that I am not even sure if it is pleasure or if its just imagination, regardless, that does not build either even if I keep my attention on it. There is no consistency to how or why pleasure happens.
I am just getting into nipple play so the effectiveness of that is still pending. Thank you for reading, I wish you good and fun sessions.
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12/05/2022 11:15 pm
Also I tip my hat to the people who have the motivation and will to continue for longer times with minimal results, like a year or few without getting to a point where they get somewhat consistently satisfying and pleasurable sessions.
12/06/2022 3:02 am
Welcome to the forum
Well you can thank God your not one of those guys who sticks a aneros up there ass and straight away starts having super o's. lol F in hate those guys. Really only jealous.
you like most of us kind of have to do your time. All I can tell you is you have to trust that although you don't feel much, your body an mind are learning a new language, and eventually it will translate that into pleasure you understand. Beleave me its happening. Read around this forum you never know what trick or tip might help you to move a little faster. Its also encouraging cause theres alot of people in the same boat, no matter where you are on this journey.
12/06/2022 7:14 am
Did you try masturbating to ejaculation with the Aneros inserted ? Then right at the point of orgasm, focus on your prostate and the toy's movement. This should at the very least give a baseline feeling you can then build on.
12/06/2022 7:34 am
Since I dont really expect people here to be able to help me, I gotta go through this myself and maybe its just time and there is nothing I can do differently or better than I am already doing and it gets better with more time put into the practice.
Jesus fucking Christ,the first thing to do is get the negative attitude in check. You are going to struggle a long time unless you can come up with an open,explorative and positive outlook.
I myself didn’t feel anything for the first month. It’s actually quite normal.
I am not chasing orgasms at this point, I just would like to feel pleasure. Does not need to become a super orgasm, just to have a certain baseline of pleasure to my sessions that is more satisfying than what I have now. I dont really get a lot of pleasure, maybe some twinkle here or there but its like a flash and it does not build. I dont know how to get the pleasure to build or even if I can do something differently to build it. I certainly can not produce it on command nor do I know why it sometimes happens.
Pleasure will come with patience. We call it the journey for a reason and for most guys,it’s a long road.
I do kegels mainly when I am having a session, squeezing the pc muscle, relaxing it, squeezing again. The sphincter also but now I am trying to get more control over the pc and to differentiate it from the sphincter. Although it feels that there are not just two muscles there, there are a bunch of them but I dont have individual control over them that much but when they do move I do recognize there are multiple ones that can move independently
Dont do kegels during a session. Train kegels outside sessions. You squeeze and relax,this is a mistake. Yes you want to flex,but you shouldn’t let them relax all the way to zero. Practice holding tension in your pelvic floor. Lift it a little,it’s ok to feel the sphincter and pc tighten. Visualise gently sucking air down your urethra and up through your anus. Hold this tension and flex from this point,on any relax,don’t drop below the tension point. Play around with the tension and flex strengths,but don’t squint and furrow your brow in concentration. You don’t need to flex super hard,no need to give yourself a hernia. Keep your mind free to concentrate on arousal such as erotic fantasy,or whatever it is you do. Play with nipples and any other erogenous zones,but don’t overdo it.
I also do the mindgasm practices, I try the do nothing approach in the strictest sense of literally not squeezing the muscles at all and actively keeping them relaxed. That one is a total dud, fall asleep every time I try that one and feel literally nothing from it.
Have you asked them what you’re doing wrong? The do nothing approach doesn’t suit everyone to be fair.
Love you for reading.
Whats not to love? 🙂
I can get involuntary muscle spasm happening, but there is no pleasure with them. The muscles are going on and I can even shift and control it a bit by how strong I squeeze and how I squeeze. But there is no pleasure there. Maybe a minimal pleasure here or there but nothing that has any real extension in time that I could keep my attention with. Or alternatively there is such a small spark of pleasure that I am not even sure if it is pleasure or if its just imagination, regardless, that does not build either even if I keep my attention on it. There is no consistency to how or why pleasure happens
Involuntary spasms are good,it’s good you can generate them. You need to add arousal to them for pleasure to come. You just need to settle down and practice,and it will come. What do you do for arousal? Watch porn? Erotic fantasy? The little sparks are real,enjoy them. This is how it all begins. Work and the tension + contractions I mentioned earlier and report back.
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12/06/2022 10:43 am
Jesus fucking Christ,the first thing to do is get the negative attitude in check. You are going to struggle a long time unless you can come up with an open,explorative and positive outlook.
I thought that thing you quoted was a positive thing. I specifically wrote it because earlier when asking questions from people I got replies like " what do you expect us to be able to do about it, you gotta practice and learn it yourself.
Pleasure will come with patience. We call it the journey for a reason and for most guys, it’s a long road.
Yeah I know. Although it seems tilted towards the opposite direction if one reads comments or posts. There seem to be more posts and comments from people who have had success rather early on than from people like me. Maybe people like me just dont post that often about their experience and its much nicer posting about success than not but even most of the success stories I read are like within the few first tries.
Dont do kegels during a session. Train kegels outside sessions.
Oh I dont literally do kegels, I just meant that I practice using the muscles during the sessions, I dont totally relax the muscles and then tighten, I play around with them.
Yes you want to flex,but you shouldn’t let them relax all the way to zero. Practice holding tension in your pelvic floor.
Yeah I dont relax completely, I always have some level of tension held.
Have you asked them what you’re doing wrong? The do nothing approach doesn’t suit everyone to be fair.
Yes but I have not gotten other replies than to stick with it. Well, I have gotten suggestions and different practices or things to try and I am trying those but I dont know what I am doing wrong or even if I am doing anything wrong as such and its just a matter of slow progess and at some point it starts to work.
What do you do for arousal? Watch porn? Erotic fantasy?
I used to watch to porn or fantasize but I stopped all of that now and am trying not doing that. It did not work for me so I am trying not imagining or watching anything and just feeling and doing movements. Porn or fantasy works with penis masturbation but I have not had it work so far with aneros. I also have a difficult time like creating arousal. I dont really get aroused. If I feel arousal its hard to sustain, its just a short bump and then goes away and trying to manufacture it with fantasy is very distracting since it takes my attention away from what is happening in my ass and also it does not build up. Its like trying to fill a bucket with holes with a teaspoon. This could be an issue for me, the arousal part. But I have just never felt arousal like other people seem to feel it. I never felt "horny" as a teenager for example.
Work and the tension + contractions I mentioned earlier and report back.
I think that is already what I have been doing, minus the arousal part which I stopped trying to manufacture recently.
12/06/2022 10:56 am
I feel your frustration. I am about 2 months in too and feeling discouraged.
I went from nothing to a pretty good #3 session..and I haven't made much progress since. I really think the excitement and novelty is what got me my initial arousal. Now I am just spinning my tires. I am honestly wondering if they are hitting the right spot..or just near enough to give me a little bit of pleasure.
My newest attempts have been a puff of cannibus..but I can't even seem to get that right. I have yet to feel anything..and my mind wanders just as much. I wonder if I should watch tv during sessions. My mind jumping around terrible thoughts doesn't help...so if I can concentrate on other things..maybe that will help...
Anyways..I won't give up. My 2 Aneros toys cost me wayyy too much to just give up. I have also ordered a cheap knockoff of the Pure Metal Wand. At least that should help me figure out where I get the feelings.
Good to have another 2 month newb posting!
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12/06/2022 11:05 am
I have done that also but I am trying to differentiate the prostate from penile orgasms. I have managed to have orgasms by only anal play without touching my penis at all but even those I feel are still penile orgasms and I ejaculate and they dont feel that different from normal penile orgasms.
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12/06/2022 11:12 am
I feel your frustration. I am about 2 months in too and feeling discouraged.
I went from nothing to a pretty good #3 session..and I haven't made much progress since. I really think the excitement and novelty is what got me my initial arousal. Now I am just spinning my tires. I am honestly wondering if they are hitting the right spot..or just near enough to give me a little bit of pleasure.
My newest attempts have been a puff of cannibus..but I can't even seem to get that right. I have yet to feel anything..and my mind wanders just as much. I wonder if I should watch tv during sessions. My mind jumping around terrible thoughts doesn't help...so if I can concentrate on other things..maybe that will help...
Anyways..I won't give up. My 2 Aneros toys cost me wayyy too much to just give up. I have also ordered a cheap knockoff of the Pure Metal Wand. At least that should help me figure out where I get the feelings.
Good to have another 2 month newb posting!
I have recently started semen retention since I feel like a big part of this for me might be that I am not rewired so I am abstaining from having ejaculatory orgasms to create more fuel for the aneros sessions.
12/06/2022 11:23 am
Have you asked them what you’re doing wrong? The do nothing approach doesn’t suit everyone to be fair.
Yes but I have not gotten other replies than to stick with it. Well, I have gotten suggestions and different practices or things to try and I am trying those but I dont know what I am doing wrong or even if I am doing anything wrong as such and its just a matter of slow progess and at some point it starts to work.
For many of us, do-nothing is a huge dead end. I wasted a year having continuous duds because of do-nothing mind contamination, which becomes very hard to shake off. It's fascinating how do-nothing gets very high billing often becoming the gold standard at the expense of active methods.
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12/06/2022 11:34 am
Have you asked them what you’re doing wrong? The do nothing approach doesn’t suit everyone to be fair.
Yes but I have not gotten other replies than to stick with it. Well, I have gotten suggestions and different practices or things to try and I am trying those but I dont know what I am doing wrong or even if I am doing anything wrong as such and its just a matter of slow progess and at some point it starts to work.
For many of us, do-nothing is a huge dead end. I wasted a year having continuous duds because of do-nothing mind contamination, which becomes very hard to shake off. It's fascinating how do-nothing gets very high billing often becoming the gold standard at the expense of active methods.
I realize that my phrasing might have been misleading, mindgasm and the do nothing are two different things. Mindgasm is more on the active side and has exercises and techniques that are muscle related. The do nothing is just something many people have recommended to me and like you said it has been a dead end for me. I dont feel anything if I dont do anything, and I will fall asleep.
12/06/2022 11:37 am
If you’re anchoring tension and flexing out contractions,you’re not really doing do nothing.
12/06/2022 11:41 am
I used to watch to porn or fantasize but I stopped all of that now and am trying not doing that. It did not work for me so I am trying not imagining or watching anything and just feeling and doing movements. Porn or fantasy works with penis masturbation but I have not had it work so far with aneros. I also have a difficult time like creating arousal. I dont really get aroused
If you aren’t aroused,and can’t get aroused,that’s gonna be a bit of a problem. Why can’t you get aroused? Are you single? In a relationship? Do you ever have sex? Masturbate?
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12/06/2022 12:05 pm
I used to watch to porn or fantasize but I stopped all of that now and am trying not doing that. It did not work for me so I am trying not imagining or watching anything and just feeling and doing movements. Porn or fantasy works with penis masturbation but I have not had it work so far with aneros. I also have a difficult time like creating arousal. I dont really get aroused
If you aren’t aroused,and can’t get aroused,that’s gonna be a bit of a problem. Why can’t you get aroused? Are you single? In a relationship? Do you ever have sex? Masturbate?
I need pleasurable sensations to keep the arousal up, otherwise it does not stay. I dont know why, this is how I have always been. I am single currently but had a girlfriend not too long ago and we had sex regularly. I used to masturbate every day pretty much but now I have cut it off for a few days at a time to focus on aneros sessions.
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12/06/2022 12:08 pm
If you’re anchoring tension and flexing out contractions,you’re not really doing do nothing.
I think the confusion might have come because of my phrasing when I mentioned that I do mindgasm and have also tried the do nothing in the same sentence. These two are two different things, mindgasm uses tensions and muscle control and that is what I practice in my sessions, but apart from that I have also tried the do nothing thing a few times and it did not work for me.
12/06/2022 1:36 pm
I need pleasurable sensations to keep the arousal up, otherwise it does not stay. I dont know why, this is how I have always been. I am single currently but had a girlfriend not too long ago and we had sex regularly. I used to masturbate every day pretty much but now I have cut it off for a few days at a time to focus on aneros sessions
Right,so we know you can experience pleasure. Look,you can’t really just lie there and think super-o will manifest out of nowhere. Aneros is a sex toy,arousal is a key element of sex. You need to work on arousal. I personally, fantasise. I’m always thinking of titties. It may be beneficial to learn to love yourself a bit.
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12/06/2022 1:42 pm
I need pleasurable sensations to keep the arousal up, otherwise it does not stay. I dont know why, this is how I have always been. I am single currently but had a girlfriend not too long ago and we had sex regularly. I used to masturbate every day pretty much but now I have cut it off for a few days at a time to focus on aneros sessions
Right,so we know you can experience pleasure. Look,you can’t really just lie there and think super-o will manifest out of nowhere. Aneros is a sex toy,arousal is a key element of sex. You need to work on arousal. I personally, fantasise. I’m always thinking of titties. It may be beneficial to learn to love yourself a bit.
I have tried the fantasizing thing and it did not work for me so far so I am now trying just focusing on the sensations and movements and seeing if that works better. When I asked about fantasizing from the mindgasm people they said its not necessary, that the pleasurable sensations dont require fantasizing, only doing the movements and practicing and honing attention to whatever feelings arise. I used to watch porn, listen to erotic audio or fantasizing while doing aneros sessions but now I am trying something that one person suggested to me which is putting on some relaxing music that helps with keeping the mind focused so I have been using white noise audio and I got some pleasure with doing that last session so I am going to continue with that to see is it works better for me.
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12/06/2022 1:48 pm
That said I am in a phase where I am experimenting with different things so if I find fantasizing works better then I will be doing that. Whatever works.
12/06/2022 1:54 pm
Fair enough. Sure,I can Generate pleasure without,but I have developed triggers,the right imagery at the right moment to spike the arousal up into orgasm. I still like my mind to wander through sexual thoughts though. If you must cast aside anything sexual,at least don’t search for feeling too hard,your mind needs to relax and empty of noise.
12/06/2022 2:54 pm
I also have a difficult time like creating arousal. I dont really get aroused. If I feel arousal its hard to sustain, its just a short bump and then goes away and trying to manufacture it with fantasy is very distracting since it takes my attention away from what is happening in my ass and also it does not build up. ... This could be an issue for me, the arousal part. But I have just never felt arousal like other people seem to feel it. I never felt "horny" as a teenager for example.
I need pleasurable sensations to keep the arousal up, otherwise it does not stay. I don't know why, this is how I have always been.
All the techniques you've tried so far are going to be useless unless you are adequately aroused. Arousal is really crucial to achieving success with Aneros massagers. But in addition to arousal being essential your mental perceptions of What's an Orgasm? are also at play here. It seems to me you are dealing with a number of issues but it obvious that inadequate arousal is at the core of your lack of success. So the question is how do you increase arousal?
You say that arousal has been a problem since you were a teenager, this would lead me to ask if you have been tested for low testosterone? If you have some hormonal imbalances then all this effort you are expending is going to be for naught. Get yourself tested to rule out any physiological problems interfering with your ability to get aroused.
If you are OK on the physical side of this issue then you may need to address the psychological side. Please read the following threads for help with this aspect -> Are you "aroused"? & Aneros, Arousal & Abstinence/Semen Retention, 21 day challenge post & @divine_o 's thread Arousal building methods.
Good Vibes to You!
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12/06/2022 3:17 pm
You should think about picking one method and sstay with it for awhile. Get at least 10- 15 sessions in of 1 method then transition to another. Unlike others I use my sessions to generate arousal. If that can't happen for you, heres another approach. This takes a little mind power and imagination. Divide yourself into 2 people, the giver and receiver, cause you are both. And Aneros kinda demands that. Pretend you want to have sex with yourself, except your other half is a tease, what would you do to get in his pants as it were? How do you turn this person on. What ever works for you works for him. Heres a few suggestions. Use a mirror and whisper sweet nothings, or tell him I'm gonna aneros the fuck out of you. Maybe cook a dinner for yourself, and seduce yourself over dinner. Side Note: I had a girlfreind I would start seducing on Tuesday, by the time Saturday came around on more than one occasion, when it came time to do it she had her first O before I even got her clothes off. Really only you know how to turn yourself on. Hard to get frustrated with yourself. I guess what I'm sayin is, make love to yourself. I like to compliment my asshole. lol
12/06/2022 3:18 pm
I have recently started semen retention since I feel like a big part of this for me might be that I am not rewired so I am abstaining from having ejaculatory orgasms to create more fuel for the aneros sessions.
I did withold my ejaculations and penis stimulation for most of November as I did the Mindgasm No Nut. I am certain it helped but MAN I needed to release! I did have a few weaker moments where I caved in and "let loose". IN the end I welcomed December and have been masturbating/having sex, although I am masturbating less to help my Aneros journey.
I have trouble with fantasy and arousal also when having sessions. I try, although its a bit distracting when my fantasies do not match the feelings I am having at my prostate. The only thing that seems plausible is that I'm getting fingered by someone....but nothing has pushed me over the edge.
this would lead me to ask if you have been tested for low testosterone?
My boyfriend has low testosterone and takes medicine for it. It's fairly common so don't feel hesitant to get checked out.
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12/06/2022 3:44 pm
The beauty is one can cum at anytime. I feel I'm goona live awhile so go ahead and jack off. Just seperate from your aneros session. As someone said the other day I love to cum. Can't beat yourself up.
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12/06/2022 4:45 pm
I also have a difficult time like creating arousal. I dont really get aroused. If I feel arousal its hard to sustain, its just a short bump and then goes away and trying to manufacture it with fantasy is very distracting since it takes my attention away from what is happening in my ass and also it does not build up. ... This could be an issue for me, the arousal part. But I have just never felt arousal like other people seem to feel it. I never felt "horny" as a teenager for example.
I need pleasurable sensations to keep the arousal up, otherwise it does not stay. I don't know why, this is how I have always been.
All the techniques you've tried so far are going to be useless unless you are adequately aroused. Arousal is really crucial to achieving success with Aneros massagers. But in addition to arousal being essential your mental perceptions of What's an Orgasm? are also at play here. It seems to me you are dealing with a number of issues but it obvious that inadequate arousal is at the core of your lack of success. So the question is how do you increase arousal?
You say that arousal has been a problem since you were a teenager, this would lead me to ask if you have been tested for low testosterone? If you have some hormonal imbalances then all this effort you are expending is going to be for naught. Get yourself tested to rule out any physiological problems interfering with your ability to get aroused.
If you are OK on the physical side of this issue then you may need to address the psychological side. Please read the following threads for help with this aspect -> Are you "aroused"? & Aneros, Arousal & Abstinence/Semen Retention, 21 day challenge post & @divine_o 's thread Arousal building methods.
Mindgasm program does not say you need to be aroused for it to work or that you need to fantasize to create arousal. The exercises should create pleasure which is itself arousing.
Its not that arousal has been a problem since I have been a teenager. I just never have gotten "horny" like others have. I still would masturbate all the time, so its not like I have no sex drive, its just that the arousal is very much tied to the act of penis pleasure. Without penile pleasure the arousal does not last. I have not been tested for low testosterone and dont think I have that since my sex drive is much more active than most people, I just cant self create and sustain arousal without penis stimulation also happening.
Also I find splitting my attention into two parts being very distracting. I can not focus on my prostate and anus if I am trying to imagine something with my mind at the same time.
12/06/2022 4:58 pm
Did you read the links I posted? What is your definition of arousal? I am using the definition of "horny" = sexual arousal. It seems to me there may be a case of cognitive dissonance or at the very least semantic misinterpretation occurring here.Its not that arousal has been a problem since I have been a teenager. I just never have gotten "horny" like others have.
Good Vibes to You!
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12/06/2022 5:06 pm
Did you read the links I posted? What is your definition of arousal? I am using the definition of "horny" = sexual arousal. It seems to me there may be a case of cognitive dissonance or at the very least semantic misinterpretation occurring here.Its not that arousal has been a problem since I have been a teenager. I just never have gotten "horny" like others have.
Yes I read them, some of them I had read before. I would say arousal is being horny also. I dont get horny outside of actually stimulating my dick. If I dont have that stimulation I am not really horny, or the horniness is not something I can sustain. So it is linked to pleasure, if I can supply pleasure, then the arousal is self sustaining. So I would say pleasure and arousal are almost the same thing to me.
I have had an experience when I went two months without ejaculation where I got a full body experience of arousal at the end of it when I was having a conversation with a woman and it felt very pleasurable, my groin and belly was on fire with almost orgasmic pleasure and it rose to my chest and heart and my dick was rock hard and felt like I could bust any second. But outside of that experience, I dont experience arousal that lasts with no pleasure to stoke it.
12/06/2022 7:59 pm
Hello
A survivor here!
Lift your head . Do you know how long it took me to have consistent sessions? 1 year and half.
I make some comments here on the forum in an attempt to reciprocate a little of the knowledge I gained here. People who post about Super Os and hits have been right where you are now. The path does not exist it is built (traveled) .
How many uncertainties did I have? How many attempts and variations of Kegels have I done? Countless! Today I don't do any Kegels (Every body is different so the answer might be too) .
A quiz for you :.
1. How long have you been using aneros?
2. How is your lubrication?
3. Does your lubricant not cause reactions?
4. Is the lubricant too thick or watery or ideal?
5. What aneros do you use?
6. Can you do a session with peace of mind?
7. How many sessions per week?
8 . Even though it's difficult, do you leave a space of 1 or 2 days between sessions?
9 . How long do the sessions last?
Even if you don't realize it (don't be aware) your body/brain is learning something during the session. It's never a pointless session.
We'll talk in the future (with you having intense orgasms) and we'll want to know what you were doing now and why it wasn't working.
For you to have an idea that the aneros acts unconsciously, my erections today are different from the erections (pre aneros), just remembering that I don't do Kegels and I do 3 sessions a week.
What has changed ? Answer: I don't know
(Note quarterly progress and you'll see where you started and what you've accomplished during that time. Do this in the months to come.)
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12/06/2022 8:41 pm
Hello
A survivor here!
Lift your head . Do you know how long it took me to have consistent sessions? 1 year and half.
I make some comments here on the forum in an attempt to reciprocate a little of the knowledge I gained here. People who post about Super Os and hits have been right where you are now. The path does not exist it is built (traveled) .
How many uncertainties did I have? How many attempts and variations of Kegels have I done? Countless! Today I don't do any Kegels (Every body is different so the answer might be too) .
A quiz for you :.
1. How long have you been using aneros?
2. How is your lubrication?
3. Does your lubricant not cause reactions?
4. Is the lubricant too thick or watery or ideal?
5. What aneros do you use?
6. Can you do a session with peace of mind?
7. How many sessions per week?
8 . Even though it's difficult, do you leave a space of 1 or 2 days between sessions?
9 . How long do the sessions last?
Even if you don't realize it (don't be aware) your body/brain is learning something during the session. It's never a pointless session.
We'll talk in the future (with you having intense orgasms) and we'll want to know what you were doing now and why it wasn't working.
For you to have an idea that the aneros acts unconsciously, my erections today are different from the erections (pre aneros), just remembering that I don't do Kegels and I do 3 sessions a week.
What has changed ? Answer: I don't know
(Note quarterly progress and you'll see where you started and what you've accomplished during that time. Do this in the months to come.)
A quiz for you :.
1. How long have you been using aneros?
-Just a few months now, about 3.
2. How is your lubrication?
-Could be better. I only notice it at the end of longer sessions where I take the device out and the lube has pretty much completely dried up. But its not like I notice any difference in the feelings either way, near the end where it is dried or near the beginning when there is still lube.
3. Does your lubricant not cause reactions?
-Not that I am aware of.
4. Is the lubricant too thick or watery or ideal?
-I dont know honestly what would make it too thick or too watery or ideal.
5. What aneros do you use?
-mgx
6. Can you do a session with peace of mind?
-Depends what peace of mind means. I will at times have some unwanted thoughts here or there but I wont dwell on them so they are temporary and overall I can keep focused on the session.
7. How many sessions per week?
- It depends, sometimes I have one almost every day and sometimes I have multiple days in between.
8 . Even though it's difficult, do you leave a space of 1 or 2 days between sessions?
Not always, sometimes I do one every day.
9 . How long do the sessions last?
As a general estimate usually no less than 45 minutes to an hour, sometimes it can be longer and be nearing two hours.
12/08/2022 9:40 am
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Answers:
A quiz for you :.
1. How long have you been using aneros?
-Just a few months now, about 3.
* This is a short time compared to many comments from other users.
2. How is your lubrication?
-Could be better. I only notice it at the end of longer sessions where I take the device out and the lube has pretty much completely dried up. But its not like I notice any difference in the feelings either way, near the end where it is dried or near the beginning when there is still lube.
* Remember guarantee the best lubrication , micro spasms inside the anal canal and in the prostate or involuntary contractions depend on the aneros being free
3. Does your lubricant not cause reactions?
-Not that I am aware of.
* I've used lubrication that gives (slight burning) and that takes all the focus away from the subtle sensations. If your lubricant is comfortable for you then continue to use it.
4. Is the lubricant too thick or watery or ideal?
-I dont know honestly what would make it too thick or too watery or ideal.
* The lubricant needs to be comfortable for you. There are thick water-based lubricants that can impede mobility as it will dry out faster. That is, even if there are micro contractions, they may not be noticed because the lubricant is too thick and "absorbs" the movement. I have one this (thick) and my technique is to mix filtered water to dilute it a bit, or inject some filtered water into the anus before the session and apply the lube (thick) to the aneros.
5. What aneros do you use?
-mgx
* MGX is very beautiful and functional there is no mistake here. I don't have one but I would like to
6. Can you do a session with peace of mind?
-Depends what peace of mind means. I will at times have some unwanted thoughts here or there but I wont dwell on them so they are temporary and overall I can keep focused on the session.
* Peace of mind , but also an environment / schedule where there will be no discomfort . Try to secure this moment. Feel safe.
7. How many sessions per week?
- It depends, sometimes I have one almost every day and sometimes I have multiple days in between.
* I also did every day . Personally I would say to alternate the days between one session and another. This will allow time to build up excitement and "recover" from the last session. With experience you will have to discover the middle ground between excess and absence.
8 . Even though it's difficult, do you leave a space of 1 or 2 days between sessions?
Not always, sometimes I do one every day.
* Leave a break of 1 or 2 days between sessions. My best sessions are when I wait at least 2 days.
9 . How long do the sessions last?
As a general estimate usually no less than 45 minutes to an hour, sometimes it can be longer and be nearing two hours.
Duration is up to you . Read the wiki as many times as necessary and don't forget to report your progress.
Good luck.
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