If this has been discussed before please accept my apologies. Have seen on the aneros reddit some people saying their sessions are much better a day after ejaculation. For the p-play veterans out there does this ring true in your experience? I tried this and there wasn't much difference one way or the other. Usually my best sessions are when I have a few days between them. Opinions ? Thx.
Yes it has been brought up, but only in passing.
It would be an interesting thought experiment to reverse engineer why this is happening.
Thinking about what chemical reactions happen in the body after ejaculation.
For me it's at least a day. Sometimes 7-10 days. Depends. I need to do more research. I'll be back...
@the_bishop what do you think about trying a relaxation massage with aneros in ?
Could be fun. Could be weird.
All totally random I think. I once had my best ever session 30 minute after ejaculation. As my mind wasn't focused on cumming or the penis. Was totally focused on the prostate and beyond.
My arousal levels and excitement are really high after 7 or 8 days of no ejaculation but have found, unfortunately that my aneros sessions actually don't usually go as well after this long. For me it seems like 2 or 3 days after works better. Maybe even the day after.
Theory I'm thinking of right now. For an older man with lower sex drive, going a longer time without ejaculation is better for aneros because you're more aroused. For a man with a higher sex drive though... I think it's almost too high. You're distracted. With a high sex drive, less days may be better. You're arousal is there, but you're also not so aroused that you can't relax in the session. You really want a good balance of arousal, and being relaxed.
Yeah, it is all about listening to your body. How aroused are you is major player in between sessions that include ejulation. I do a session just cause I am bored it usually is weak and takes a while. I will resort to a vibrating massager to help. If I do a session cause I am super turned on and my PC muscle contracts involuntarily cause I am turned on. Well I usually will have my first O in less than 2-3 mins. Tho I have started trying to edge to make my it even more intense. Just recently, I had a session with multiple frenulum Orgasms and a robot assisted stroking ejulation and I still felt a little kinky afterwards I took my dildo into the shower and had a pleasant Super O with it
I have experienced really inense orgasm by starting out using my HSV and Vice2. As the intensity and pleasure build, i use a hand vibrating massager starting on my perenium and gradually move to the frenulum until I reach a mind blowing orgasm where my Aneros is really moving and my cock explodes with ejaculation! Best of both worlds!