any other married/bi/straight guys have "virtual" male-male sex?

I do sometimes feel as if I'm a woman getting fucked by a man. The odd thing is that I'm straight and have no attraction towards men. But, I'm most certainly interested in the T-Girl experience. So, when I imagine getting fucked, the man has no face. Just a blur. Weird, huh? I only see a face when it's a woman doing the deed, with "her" penis.

I wouldn't call what I experience, "virtual sex" though. i think it could evolve into that, but for now it's fantasy, to get my arousal building. Maybe a little weed might help. I haven't smoked in decades though. I've been thinking about it though.

@Darwin I'm not married, straight, or bi, but it sounds like you really want to get fucked by a guy. What more do you need to know?

I know exactly what you are talking about!! Whenever you team the aneros with mj it is undescribable. It causes me to envision the same things you have described. The mj makes my anus and rectum contract instantly and it's pretty overwhelming at times.

@spinx wrote:@Darwin I'm not married, straight, or bi, but it sounds like you really want to get fucked by a guy. What more do you need to know?

@spinx, you're right!

But the great thing is... I am getting fucked by guys, in the privacy of my own home, just me, the aneros and the hallucinatory state induced by the aneros/weed combo. No violating of my marriage, alienation from my family, risk of STDs, emotional baggage, or dealing with yuckiness of anonymous sex. Nor the inevitable disappointment of the distance between what I want to be experiencing in sex, and what actually transpires with a real person. It would be a miracle if real sex lived up to what I am experiencing.

Sure it would be exciting to do it for real, but, that's not going to happen, and what is happening is fantastic.

darwin

I've been prone to flights of fancy and the occasional near sleep hallucination but nothing ever goes as far as what you're describing, sounds interesting.

@darwin Sounds like you've got it under control. I'm gay and when I first came out (pre AIDs) I had a lot of anal sex on the receiving end. I had a pretty face and a nice little butt, and that's what most of the guys I hooked up with wanted to do. I had no objections; it felt great. Luckily, I didn't get sick, and sharply limited my exposure to anonymous sex ( quitting drinking helped enormously, as well). I have some pleasant memories, but I wouldn't necessarily suggest it to anyone today. Enjoy your fantasies. Sounds like they are doing the job!

@spinx wrote:@darwin Sounds like you've got it under control. I'm gay and when I first came out (pre AIDs) I had a lot of anal sex on the receiving end. I had a pretty face and a nice little butt, and that's what most of the guys I hooked up with wanted to do. I had no objections; it felt great. Luckily, I didn't get sick, and sharply limited my exposure to anonymous sex ( quitting drinking helped enormously, as well). I have some pleasant memories, but I wouldn't necessarily suggest it to anyone today. Enjoy your fantasies. Sounds like they are doing the job!

one of the enduring mysteries, often cited here on the forum, is that in almost no gay porn --at least none i have seen-- does the bottom have dry, aneros-style orgasms.

occasionally on this forum, rarely, a gay guy says he has had them from fucking, but that is usually after re-wiring.

i would love to see a video --amateur, to ensure no faking-- of a guy having dry orgasms from receptive sex.

that is the amazing thing about my virtual experiences, i am orgasming against the guy, in all kinds of different ways. my orgasming fuels his excitement, in an increasing cycle. (just like in hetero sex with a woman who can have multiple orgasms)

darwin

@darwin I'm just the same although I probably don't fantasise about it as often as you or for as long, but I certainly agree that imagining being fucked can take the experience up a notch or two, and if the real thing was ever that good I might just regret being in a heterosexual relationship.Married and bi myself, although my wife knows about my fantasies making it reality is something I can't do either.

@spinx wrote:@darwin Sounds like you've got it under control. I'm gay and when I first came out (pre AIDs) I had a lot of anal sex on the receiving end. I had a pretty face and a nice little butt, and that's what most of the guys I hooked up with wanted to do. I had no objections; it felt great. Luckily, I didn't get sick, and sharply limited my exposure to anonymous sex ( quitting drinking helped enormously, as well). I have some pleasant memories, but I wouldn't necessarily suggest it to anyone today. Enjoy your fantasies. Sounds like they are doing the job!

one of the enduring mysteries, often cited here on the forum, is that in almost no gay porn --at least none i have seen-- does the bottom have dry, aneros-style orgasms.

occasionally on this forum, rarely, a gay guy says he has had them from fucking, but that is usually after re-wiring.

i would love to see a video --amateur, to ensure no faking-- of a guy having dry orgasms from receptive sex.

that is the amazing thing about my virtual experiences, i am orgasming against the guy, in all kinds of different ways. my orgasming fuels his excitement, in an increasing cycle. (just like in hetero sex with a woman who can have multiple orgasms)

darwin

Ive not seen one as you describe but i have seen one where a guy was pegged and the orgasms he experiences were earth shattering. Never seen anything like it before or since. Its been removed from the internet but i still have the video somewhere. The guy is getting pegged by a pool table. Amazing

Hey, Darwin.

My fantasy fucks are similar to what you described, but usually feature my wife and her strap-on double dildo. And yes, I do have dry Os while being fucked, both in my imagination, using Aneros Vice or Eupho, and during pegging. The idea of a guy doing it to me isn't attractive, though a pre-op transsexual has popped into my mind on a few occasions.

Cheers,

Dave

Try this one Darwin. http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=1170922082

@Bunk,

that is the best man-man video i have seen. it is the consummation of what i have hoped/imagined male-male fucking could be, though previously saw no evidence of. thank you so much for finding it. (and how did you find it?)

two things i am wondering about:

1) can any gay guy out there describe what it is actually like to be fucked so hard? obviously it is driving this guy crazy, but i'd worry it might hurt, or that sensitive tissue in there might suffer.

2) it seems like when the bottom has his dry orgasms, the top pulls out. i wonder why. in my imaginings, coming against the dick inside me is a key ingredient.

darwin

@darwin Once the top is totally inside and the bottom is used to him, it generally doesn't hurt to be fucked that hard because the penis is rubbing against the anal canal (and thereby the prostate) but isn't encountering any direct blockage. Sensitive tissue inside the anal canal is always a potential problem in anal intercourse but if the top knows what he's doing and isn't out to do damage, it rarely hurts the bottom. That hard pumping feels good but a slow steady fuck is way better, picking up intensity and a little speed as the top reaches ejaculation.

@darwin Never had an aneros style dry o as a bottom, but it felt really good in a similar way, plus it's a turn- on to experience the pleasure from the top. Hope this helps

I have experiences like this with my Vix Skin Maverick dildo. Ever so often I get the urge to be fucked, and I find it a soulful, deeply satisfying experience. During these sessions I bring myself to orgasm with nipple play. Like some of the previous comments, I am not attracted to men, but I love feeling that large dildl sliding back and forth in my anus!

@darwin - Know exactly how you feel. Married hetero male. Just love women and their beauty fires me up! Butt when session gets going, I open up to ALL pleasure and exploring. Also, love Progasm and how it fills me so much, just can't help butt wonder about other things that could give me that full feeling too. Blogged about it before: Opening Up

When chatting Varmint is open to anything to make session better and have had lots of 'virtual' MM sex where tried anything and everything. One fetish thing for me is I always fantasize my wife is their watching me give in to my true sexual desires. Surprised some chatters when mentions "my wife is watching us...." Some get her involved, most get excited she's watching her butt slut get down.

One fascinating area to explore is taking 'virtual' world capabilities to full extent. Laws of physics don't apply, so who's to say can't drive someone deeper into you by going deeper into them... feelings of bodies and pleasure merging... 69 and backdoor at same time.... Pussy and ass at same time... Virtual world's pleasure is endless!

Yup, spontaneous when it happened on it's own. Seems as though this was a temporary thing in my Journey to date. At about the 7 month point Helix was giving me my first "suck-in" feelings. When that happened I'd roll over on my stomach, spread eagle and give my bod to the virtual "Dom" inside me.

After two or three months my dry orgasms became more intense, the auto fucking less extreme and my journey branched onto a different path without the fantasy of a Virtual Partner. First Super-O followed shortly thereafter.

I now sometimes do what I call my "roughhouse" sessions. Some involve physical kinks; others, mental fantasy. A small percentage are set up for a M-On-M type of anal experience. Sometimes Pro, Vice or Maximus are the tools of choice. Usually though it's a long flexible toy that can be rigged to an elastic band or belt.

Probably not as forceful as the real thing butt, fun.