Almost--Not Quite

PlatoHIMSELF,

From your description I would surmise you are experiencing a Super-O with multiple prostate based dry-O's. If you are expecting these orgasms to be ejaculatory in nature (similar to what we men first associate with the term "orgasm") then you may be waiting forever. While some men do in fact experience an ejaculation from their sessions, this generally brings on the refractory period and terminates the Super-O. I would encourage you to read What exactly is a Super-O? by veteran member 'Buster'. The disappointment stems from expecting one thing and receiving something else, this is probably more common than you might think. Once you understand this basic distinction in the nature of the orgasm, I think you will really begin to appreciate the richness of what you ARE experiencing and it will intensify for you as you let go of the old ejaculatory orgasm paradigm.

I agree totally with what rumel says,once you ejaculate you'll lose the super o.One thing you could try,which always intensifies my orgasms to a point where I think I can't take any more is to very lightly play with my nipples.For me this is like an orgasm amplifier and sends me into complete ecstasy.
Give it a go,it may work for you or may not,we are all wired differently,but trying new things is all part of the wonderful journey.
Best of luck.

Thank you for your replies!

I skimmed the thread you (rumel) linked to and something from Jim Morrison came to my mind: "Orgasm is the death of sex."
Quite obviously he was refering to ejaculatory orgasm.

Either way, I am very interested in having an ejaculatory orgasm hands-free with the aneros. How do I do that?
Also, does someone know how to "milk" using the Aneros? I would really like to do that.

Thanks,

PlatoHIMSELF

PlatoHIMSELF,

I haven't had a HFEO myself but then I haven't really tried for one either. Some members have reported spontaneous HFEO's in the normal course of their Aneros practice, frequently to their own chagrin as it impedes their path to the Super-O. There is a short description of a technique discussed in this section of the Aneros Learning Center if you are interested in pursuing that path.

'Milking' your prostate of seminal fluids can be learned. You can read a short paragraph about Prostate Milking in the “Your Body” chapter of the Aneros WIKI. You can read a longer treatise on prostate milking technique and issues from Lady Lubyanka. There is also a well written blog by Andr. titled HOW TO MILK A BULL which gives step by step descriptions of the process.

Hello, Plato, (himself,even) and welcome to the Forum. Here you will find a great deal of sagacity and frank information about both the Aneros and also about yourself. Assuming you want to learn, of course.

For some, Aneros is about hands free orgasms. This is just fine, because we all want your Aneros experience to be exactly what you want.

Fortunately, for the majority of us here, hands free ejaculatory orgasm (hfeo) is NOT what Aneros is about. It's about much, much more. However, without a different mind-set, it's probably not going to be what you're looking for. You're looking for the quick release, the instant and momentary pleasure of ejaculation, and while that's fine, as I said, where most of us will differ with you, is that we're seeking multiple male (non-ejaculatory) orgasms or MMOs.

Imagine the sensation of orgasm, delicious as it is, going on for an extended period of time....over and over and over....leaving you exhausted and breathless. Nice, eh? Well, that's what MMOs are all about. And, as rumel alluded earlier in this thread, ejaculatory orgasm gets in the way of this development (we call it "rewiring") and can actually slow down ones progress toward the much more exciting and fulfilling MMO.

I suggest you go here (that's the link) and do some reading about the whole psyche of Aneros. It may change your mind, may not, but this I will ask of you. Don't cut yourself off from the most amazing experience of your life. By this I mean, reconsider your desire for HFEOs and open yourself to a much broader experience...one that can enrich your life and the lives of your partner(s).

Again, welcome to Aneros Forum. You may be surprised what you learn here.

Cockadoodle

PlatoHIMSELF just for clarification, by contractions, do you mean pelvic contractions?

My problem is that I seem to be able to experience great pleasure, get to a point that feels like before an orgasm, but I don't experience contractions and "that feeling of satisfaction". I don't think this is a dry orgasm... maybe I just need more time/experience.

Plato;

Sounds like you're very close to having either a wet or dry O. As others have said, a wet one will end the session and that's been OK for me when it happens. However, I prefer the Dry O, since within a minute I can have another, and another. After 3 or 4 of those I feel relieved and satisfied. Try a few different positions to see if any help put you over the edge into either type of O. Even something as small as a change of lube type might do it.

Cheers,

Dave

PlatoHIMSELF,

Although I have had limited experience with HFO's, when they have occurred for me it was only at moments fueled by extreme arousal. It took considerable effort on my part to make this happen as I'm pretty thoroughly wired for the alternative (non-ejaculatory) pathway at this point. Anything that you can do to pump up the volume will help in this regard. Nipple play (as was suggested), tickling your testicles, porn, visualization, or thrusting. In short anything that you can employ to ramp up arousal. Hypnotherapy is another angle as well. There are a number of sessions that are out there designed to promote a traditional (ejaculatory) orgasm. Check out Nikki Fatale.

If you are so inclined you can cheat this just a bit by using a scrotal stretch . While this avoids direct penile stimulation there is indirect pressure that is brought to bear on the glans of the penis. Very often this is enough push one over top.

BF Mayfield

Korkelz: I don't know exactly, it's basically both anal and pelvic (i think) completely contracted (pulled up/in) like when trying to hold it in from pissing your pants. But contrated ALL THE WAY.

I took the advice given (not to be looking for something specific and it worked. Also I googled sexy trance music and I think that may have helped (used noise cancelling headphones).

Thanks for the rest of the advice, it really helps.

rumel: I wanted to know more on milking using the Aneros, the wiki didn't say "how" and the blog discussed general milking; but thanks.

I'm pretty sexual anyway (I'm Scorpio BTW) and always try different things. Even if I am having superOs or will eventually I still wana try wet Os and dryOs etc. I do it all.

And Mr. B Mayfield, I consider the "scrotal stretch" just another form of good old masturbation. In fact, I have gotten off in the past without any penal contact just stretching the ballsac and the surrounding skin. Like I said I'm sexual, I'll try anything that sounds sexual.

(Could someone make a poll or a thread where Aneros users can name their Zodiac. I have a strong feeling there's a big percentage of fellow Scorpions in here.)

Agreed on the scrotal stretch..... not the real thing. Check out some of this other stuff though. If you can get your arousal sufficiently ramped up it should put you over the top.

BF Mayfield

p.s. Did I mention abstinence ? Building up some sexual tension by putting some time between your ejaculations can help as well.