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Posted by: @prostatenoob69

I do 3 sessions a week. One on sundays, one on tuesdays and one on thrusdays and I have a traditional penile orgasm only on that day just after the session. my sessions last about 1 to 1.5 hour.

That's fine I think and what I did for a long time (but I had more traditional Os). Until you get to Super-Os I don't think it's too much, once you're there you'll just have to see if you need to recalibrate. 

Posted by: @prostatenoob69

it was like a wave of heat and pleasure originating from my prostate to the rest of my body, but I had a penile orgasm without touching it at the same time so it ended there. 

That's great ! It's all (or a non-negligible part of it...) about separating orgasm form ejaculation, it could take some time for your body to "get it" but to me it would appear you're on the right path. 

Posted by: @prostatenoob69

I have ASD and I am wondering if it will make my journey different

It could help in some ways, and make things harder in other ways, depending on where you are on the spectrum. A different mind organization can unlock some interesting experiences, and if you are a more sensitive individual, with a rich inner life, this can help too. Getting stuck with over analysis is the main thing that could give you trouble in my opinion, but knowing this is already half the battle. ADHD (or a forever racing mind) is probably harder to deal with than ASD when trying for Aneros success. I'm sure you'll be perfectly fine and this should not be a huge concern to you at the beginning. 

Sessions 3xweek is a good sensible plan,though listen to your body,if it’s telling you it wants a session outside of your normal schedule,that’s also a great time to have one. 

Personally,I’d try not to have penile orgasms if you can help it. As @zentai already said,your learning separate orgasm from ejaculation. Ejaculation every session will slow down re-wiring in my opinion. It may also hamper arousal if you felt like having another session sooner. The pleasure emanating out from your pelvic floor was indeed a glimpse,not ejaculating at that point will let it grow. If it was completely autonomous,that’s ok,it was a hands free wet orgasm,sought after by many. So congrats for that.

ASD cross that bridge if and when you come to it. If you’ve had traditional orgasms in your life,then the equipment to have a super-o is there. There will come the time that it will become more of a mental game than a physical one. The mental side is likely the biggest hurdle for the biggest amount of guys,if you crack that,your in.

@prostatenoob69, I also welcome you to our little community.

Posted by: @prostatenoob69

I do 3 sessions a week.

I think spacing out your sessions is a good idea, however, I'd advise against trying to follow a rigid schedule. I tend to agree with @helghast 's suggestion to "... listen to your body,if it’s telling you it wants a session outside of your normal schedule,that’s also a great time to have one." Let your body's feelings, not your ego consciousness lead you forward.

Posted by: @prostatenoob69

I have a traditional penile orgasm only on that day just after the session.

I would advise against doing this for a couple of reasons. 1.) You would start to build an association between ejaculations and Aneros use which may 'cross wire' yourself. 2.) As @zentai mentioned "It's all (or a non-negligible part of it...) about separating orgasm form ejaculation,". Super-O's are non-ejaculatory (dry) orgasms and disassociating ejaculations from orgasms as quickly as you can will speed your progress. 3.) Toward that end, refraining from penile stimulation associated with Aneros use is also a good idea (please read @cockadoodle ’s thread Penis, NOT).

Posted by: @prostatenoob69

I have ASD and I am wondering if it will make my journey different and aslo I am 28 years old.

I don't know if your ASD condition will affect your journey or not (I suspect it won't) but you certainly have the energy of youth to your favor. I hope you have the maturity of patience to complement it.

Good Vibes to You!

Posted by: @helghast

If it was completely autonomous,that’s ok,it was a hands free wet orgasm,sought after by many. So congrats

my hands where not touching my penis but there was a towel on top of it to catch the ejaculation

Posted by: @rumel

I would advise against doing this for a couple of reasons. 1.) You would start to build an association between ejaculations and Aneros use which may 'cross wire' yourself. 2.) As @zentai mentioned "It's all (or a non-negligible part of it...) about separating orgasm form ejaculation,".

should I stop masturbating entirely? because if I stop, after 6 days there is some chances that I will have a wet dream and I will wet my bed.

Posted by: @helghast

Sessions 3xweek is a good sensible plan,though listen to your body,if it’s telling you it wants a session outside of your normal schedule,that’s also a great time to have one. 

I will try that but my free time is very limited and I live with my friends and when there is too much activity in the house its distracting me. 

@prostatenoob69

Posted by: @prostatenoob69

there was a towel on top of it to catch the ejaculation

Perhaps the friction from the towel helped facilitate the ejaculation.

Posted by: @prostatenoob69

should I stop masturbating entirely? because if I stop, after 6 days there is some chances that I will have a wet dream and I will wet my bed.

It isn’t a terrible idea. You can release once a week say? I would not masturbate on session days so as to help with the separation. A lot of guys would love to have regular wet dream,what’s the issue with leaking cum during the night? It’s not quite the same as nocturnal bed wetting. Have you a lock on your door for privacy? 

Posted by: @prostatenoob69

should I stop masturbating entirely?

IMHO, not entirely, but with certain caveats. Masturbating to amplify arousal, but not to the point ejaculating, may be helpful as high arousal levels combined with prostate massage is what will lead to prostate orgasms/Super-O's. The problem here is again a too close association of penile stimulation to developing the needed alternate neural paths to orgasm from prostate massage alone. I would advise that you only masturbate (traditional penile stimulation to ejaculation) on non-session days and start extending the length of time between those masturbation sessions to enhance your general arousal level.

Building arousal is a key component to entering the prostate orgasm zone and every time you ejaculate you dissipate your arousal as you go through the refractory period and essentially reset your hormonal base to sub-optimal values. Here are a few threads that might help you see the logic involved here -> Aneros, Arousal & Abstinence/Semen Retention 21 day challenge post. @divine_o 's thread Arousal building methods.

As far as wet dreams go, there is certainly no harm in experiencing them and they can be quite enjoyable, so, if they happen, just consider it a nice bonus orgasm on your orgasmic journey of Aneros learning. Just have a towel handy for cleanup if needed.

Good Vibes to You!

Posted by: @helghast

It isn’t a terrible idea. You can release once a week say? I would masturbate on session days so as to help with the separation. A lot of guys would love to have regular wet dream,what’s the issue with leaking cum during the night? It’s not quite the same as nocturnal bed wetting. Have you a lock on your door for privacy? 

I sleep naked and if I ejaculate while sleeping I will have dried cum all over me and my sheets, and I dont reallly like that. if I masturbate once a week it will greatly reduce the probability of that to happen. its more matter of me being distracted by sounds then privacy. my friends will never enter my room if the door is closed. I dont even have to lock it but I do it anyway. plus they know what I am doing so they dont want to see that 😉

@prostatenoob69

I meant to say not to jackoff/ejaculate on your session days to help the separation. 
It’s good that people know what’s what and give you your privacy,it’d be beneficial to learn to block out the noises that distract you. 
But maybe lay on a towel in case you ejaculate,the towel friction on top will stimulate your penis and keep it in the game imo.Sex with a partner will lead to wet sheets,it’s pretty normal,and you might be creating an obstacle out of something very trivial. That might be something that’s worth getting over.