Pegging

Pegging is not inherently submissive, but as a man you are receptive, open, vulnerable and not in charge of running the show. Trading roles can be an amazing intimacy builder.

I like the way your wife thinks - I offer the same trade, with the added condition that the toy I use on him is the same size as what he offers.

We have a toy that is the same size and tonight is the night that i get what i give and to be honest i actually look forward to sitting on top and rockin my world.

Best of luck to you and your wife, Philip.

Riding on top, cowboy position is the best way to start out since it gives plenty of control. And, gives your wife an easy reach. 8->

Cheers,

Dave

Hah! Hit the save comment button and there was nothing in the box...which just goes to show you that you can indeed say nothing and it will post...as nothing!

Curious if anyone here has ever tried any of the Vixskin products? Supposedly they feature a life-like soft silicone exterior with a more rigid inner core. Suitable for pegging?. Looking at the Raquel

BF Mayfield

Hey, Brian.

Maybe there's a reason that Raquel dildo is out of stock. 🙂

Cheers,

Dave

:-c

I thought it was discontinued.

No, it's not discontinued, although it seems that various online sellers are out of stock on it. It's available from the manufacturer Vixen and several online sellers still have it.

BF Mayfield

p.s. @Dave, question is, is it out of stock because it's a hot item or is there a problem with it. Most reviews are very good.

Ok so decided that more exposure to the aneros for my wife may help sway her to do this with me. Wish me luck

Good luck, that's how it happened for me.

I can't get enough pegging from my wife not sure if i have an overload of estrogen , not gay by any means i paint my toenails and shave everything except chest and when she pegs me it is overwhelming feminine feeling but it sure feels awesome.

Thanks Progra, sounds like it def a good strategy

cj;

Aneros sex with my wife was the key to her getting over anal-phobia. Next step was pegging, and I'm happier for it. Good luck, man.

Cheers,

Dave

Good luck cj187! Remember to present it as something fun to do with you, as a bonus she gets to participate in...not like it's a disease. Confidence!

Thanks Ruby, sure it will work out. Any other tips?

@cj187 - I have heard many men echo what Dave said - normal intercourse with the aneros or a butt plug will show her how intense your orgasms are with anal stimulation.

Most women get very intrigued and interested in something that brings that much pleasure to their partner. That's the first step.

And if you have not already found it, I wrote an article:
http://peggingparadise.com/blog/2011/06/convincing-her-to-try-it /">"Convincing her to try it".

And, go slowly.

I think. I have introduced the Aneros to love making. Good results. She loves the new nipple sensitivity. I then introduced a "Bob" plug that has a ring on it that she can manipulate. Good results - I think. I'm still stuck to the ceiling. I'll let you know more when I can get back down. We'll play with that for awhile and see if there's more.

Xileh

cj;

One more important thing about getting your wife's buy-in: You'll need to make her night first. By that I mean she has to be so overwhelmed with the pleasure you give her in whatever her favorite sex act is, she will feel some sense that fair play requires returning the favor.

Cheers,

Dave

Thanks everyone, certainly food for thought. That's very fortuitous, her favourite one, happens to be one of my fave ones too.

That article is great Ruby, thank you, well the whole site is actually.


Living the dream Xileh, happy for you.

Gotta say, I'm living the dream just as it is. I feel very fortunate and blessed for the person I get to share my life with. I will do anything for her.

Getting a littler older, and some side effects from medications, has taught me to be able to give her pleasure, and enjoy it for her alone. I think Aneros has also helped me tune into that.

Ruby, thank you for sharing. You contribute a great deal to many communities on the Internet. I hope that you feel appreciated, you are a special person.

Xileh

Thank you kindly, gentlemen! I am happy to be here, and even happier to hear about men stuck to ceilings and congenially discussing the pleasures of their asses! Gotta love this place.

Btw - found another tumblr you all might like:
http://peggingwithasmile.tumblr.com/

@BF Mayfield - just saw your question about the Vixskin products from 2/12.

Yes. A lover had the Vixskin Outlaw and he loved it. Nice texture - softer and more lifelike with a firm inner core. Sterilizable, non-toxic. One of the two skin-like materials that are made right (meaning non-toxic, sterilizable and nice feel) - the other is the Tantus O2 line.

Thought I'd check in and say what a wonderful shared session I had last night. Mrs CJ loved the effect the Helix had on me, and her curiosity is certainly piqued.

Piquéd curiousity is a lovely place to be... 😛

@Ruby Ryder - Love the tumblr you found! Thank you for posting it here. Amazing how the smile makes it look way more fun and attractive. 🙂

Thanks for the info Ruby, much appreciated!

BF Mayfield

Yes it certainly is, and I'm still enthralled by how hot it was too

Tumblr wow Thanks it has some very arousing pics

Has anybody tried the EVI with their strap-on for her pleasure? Let me know how it went. Please.

W.

Speaking of the EVI, is there a Wicki or Forum for our gals who use them yet? My wife tried hers once, and was not impressed at all, because she didn't know what to do with it other than insert it.