My doctor decided to take me off the meds as my BP and Cholesterol did not test out any lower. Funny thing is, now off the meds my BP is averaging a little lower and my cholesterol is testing lower too :) But then I've been getting quite a bit more exercise. Wife and I have decided to continue with the sexless marriage, at least until she is totally done with her perimenopause phase - which has...

This morning I saw my doctor. Last time I had seen my doctor she had mentioned about blood pressure medication and cholesterol medication and wanted me to think it over. My doctor has been aware for years of the fact that my wife and I have a statistically sexless marriage and she is aware - and approves - of my aneros use. Having reviewed things with me, she noted that the only downside to taking these medications...

Last night my wife and I talked - I reminded her we last made love in March and here it is late October. She reminded me of her perimenopause into menopause phase that she has been stuck in for the last 5 or 6 years, and that it could last another five years, maybe more. She said to be honest she has no interest in sex other than private masturbation. I told her from my perspective the...

My wife and I have been in a statistically sexless marriage since about a year after we married. In other words, less than 10 times a year. The novelty of say sex on a week, or twice a month wore off. And then from say 8 times per year with the start of year two we have gone down to 2 to 4 times per year during the last 10+ years. At first I was so...