This morning I saw my doctor. Last time I had seen my doctor she had mentioned about blood pressure medication and cholesterol medication and wanted me to think it over. My doctor has been aware for years of the fact that my wife and I have a statistically sexless marriage and she is aware – and approves – of my aneros use. Having reviewed things with me, she noted that the only downside to taking these medications would be a strong possibility of ED. A statistical sexless marriage is one thing less than 10 times per years. An absolute sexless marriage is something else. My wife and I had been averaging 2 to 4 times per year for many years now.
So I informed my doctor that recently my wife and I decided to discontinue sex altogether. I said it was my idea, my offer and my wife readily agreed. I told my doctor that my health was more important than getting hard, when quite frankly I had no use or need for an erection. My doctor told me that it might reduce my libido as well. I told her I was fine with that.
So now I have a couple prescriptions.
GGringo
@WetDream63 I have been married for 41 years to my wonderful lady and we are in my same boat as you and your wife; almost sex-less marriage (3 to 4 times per year) and I’ve come to accept my destiny and even embrace it.
I am however not giving up on my penile and prostate pleasures! Just before I began my journey with Aneros two and a half years ago, my libido was in the tank and I could hardly get an erection. You know the old saying; use it or lose it; well I had pretty well lost it. I had ED and I also had all the symptoms of BPH and prostatitis; up 3 to 5 times per night to pee and so on.
Soon after I began my journey, I saw much improvements in my ED department, my libido slowly came back and I worked hard at edging to get erections with very little or no efforts. Although my sexless marriage has not changed (never will), I take full advantage of what pleasures life offer our male species when we desire it.
I’m not in Super-O country yet but I’m certainly in the ‘yahoo fun department” and as a result, I thoroughly enjoy life to the fullest. I enjoy many MMOs per week along with three to four Aneros sessions and multiple a-less sessions every day! I can’t ask for more.
Finally, I don’t know your age but I’m 64 years old and I insist on living drug-free for as long as I possibly can. The side effects often are worst than the benefits of the drugs. As time progresses and if critical health issues forces me to reverse my direction then so be it but I hope it won’t be before I reach 95 or so.
Life is way too short to not take advantage so I hope some of my recepe will rub off on you.
BTW, my wife has absolutely no clue about my self-pleasure activities and I’m now able to perform when we do have sex a few times a year.
Good luck and good vibes to you. May you have good health!
Life is wonderful!
GGringo
Oh, I forgot; I also credit some of my self improvements to the good friends I met on this site. @BigGlansDC, @goldenboy, @SoWithoutAneros to name a few. They have all been an inspiration to me.
Bladerunner
That’s truly an inspiration, GGringo. My situation is similar to both yours and wet dreams. Living in a sexless marriage does not mean giving up on your marriage or sex. This forum has given me renewed hope in building your marriage while meeting your natural physical and sexual needs.
Bladerunner
That’s truly an inspiration, GGringo. My situation is similar to both yours and wet dreams. Living in a sexless marriage does not mean giving up on your marriage or sex. This forum has given me renewed hope in building your marriage while meeting your natural physical and sexual needs.
Bladerunner
That’s truly an inspiration, GGringo. My situation is similar to both yours and wet dreams. Living in a sexless marriage does not mean giving up on your marriage or sex. This forum has given me renewed hope in building your marriage while meeting your natural physical and sexual needs.
WetDream63
Thank you all for this. Although my marriage is sexless I do enjoy self-play which is primarily prostate stimulation. Love it and have enjoyed for years. Wife knows I’m into prostate stimulation and is quite happy to let me discreetly enjoy it.
I have been on the meds almost 2 weeks now. I’m feeling great so far. My high blood pressure symptoms are gone. I can get hard, but the erections vanish fast unless I keep working my penis, which I normally don’t as I prefer prostate play for self pleasure. My libido is reduced but not killed. I don’t feel pressured to engage in solo play – but I enjoy it if I decide to do it. I’m thinking about trying semen retention.