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I have been using the Aneros Helix classic and the Eupho Syn having had some pleasurable sensations trying every possition, the 'do nothing' technique, exercising my muscles, etc. I've had sessions once a month, once a week, thrice a week, staying relaxed listening to music, focusing on the sensations. I've done everything, and read a lot for four years and I still haven't reached the super o. I feel really discouraged and I don't know what else to do. I have hope that it'll happen someday.
I was wondering if anyone else has gone through this?
I'm about to quit trying.
Big hugs and thanks for reading,

Pablo


   
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Think we’’ve all been there Pablo! Do not be discouraged but enjoy whatever pleasure you experience! Have been at it over three years and have had a lot of ups and downs but lately all have been ups! Experiment with different positions and learn to totally relax as well as controlled breathing and inner muscle (sphincter) control. One day it will click for you and pleasure like you’’ve never felt before will come your way! Get on chat and share experiences with others and gain encouragement! Read the basics on this website as well! Keep at it my friend ad take a break occasionally!


   
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Thank you for your message, it cheered me up a bit. I really wish I knew if I'm missing something.


   
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I feel really discouraged and I don't know what else to do.

While you may think you've tried everything perhaps there may be some more options you haven't tried yet. I suggest you read the thread Identifying Facilitators to Progress. Your Aneros journey is very much a mental exercise and maintaining a positive attitude is essential (please see @rook 's thread Whole Body/Whole Mind - the mental side & @SteelColdiron 's thread Aneros: The Essential Mind State for a little insight.)

I was wondering if anyone else has gone through this?

This may be of some consolation, @darwin (one of the co-authors of the Aneros WIKI) practiced for more than three and a half years before he had his breakthrough Super-O. The fact that you are having pleasurable sensations from use is definitely a positive indicator that you are capable of more. If you can "Just Let Go !" and adopt The Tao of Aneros all of your Anerosessions can become positive experiences even if they are not Super-O's.
Good Vibes to You !


   
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I have been using the Aneros Helix classic and the Eupho Syn having had some pleasurable sensations trying every possition, the 'do nothing' technique, exercising my muscles, etc. I've had sessions once a month, once a week, thrice a week, staying relaxed listening to music, focusing on the sensations. I've done everything, and read a lot for four years and I still haven't reached the super o. I feel really discouraged and I don't know what else to do. I have hope that it'll happen someday.
I was wondering if anyone else has gone through this?
I'm about to quit trying.
Big hugs and thanks for reading,

Pablo

took 6 years to get a super O,but now that I had one ,its a lot easier, to have some deep O's makes my legs quiver and up and in ,so keep on riding it, it can come pardon the pun{:O)

 


   
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Classification is full of pitfalls, what someone classifies as a Super O may just be a strong P wave to  others.  I have had some amazing rides over my 20 years + of using Aneros devices.  Some days I declare yes that was a Super O only to find another day it feels even better. 

Daily your mind and body responds to many external stimulus resulting in a varying baseline.  On days when you are feeling low your Aneros experience may also be low.   

I have come to the conclusion it is best just to accept and enjoy whatever sensation that comes along.  Since following this my session just get better. 


   
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@chestnut well said.  You almost descibed by situation to a T!  I now just sit back and enjoy whatever sensation I get at the moment.  To me, any of these sensations,  however big or small, are all sensations I had never experienced before prostate play (started in Jan 2016).

Life is wonderful.


   
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Posted by: @pytiflix

I have been using the Aneros Helix classic and the Eupho Syn having had some pleasurable sensations trying every possition (...)
I'm about to quit trying.
Big hugs and thanks for reading,

Pablo

How pleasurable exactly ? I didn't have a super-O, but most of my sessions are so pleasurable I don't care. I started getting much better and consistent results since I switched from Helix Classic (on my back) to Progasm Ice (doggy). For the record, I'm super tall (203cm or nearly 6'8''). I found that re-lubing mid-session and switching model mid-session are generally counterproductive. Lubing well is important but not SUPER important if you use silicone with non-Syn model.


   
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@oldfart What would you attribute your success to, after six years? I've been at it for about the same length of time, and have yet to experience a full blown Super O, though came close a couple times. Thanks

 


   
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@bladerunner I started reading more about how others were working with the device , I started out with a Mxg and only had a anal orgasm ,but I acutely squirted it out of my ass,when in the middle of it ,so I changed to a helex syn trident, and after a couple of hours ,I got reading other articles  and while sitting up ,grinding on it I started have convulsions,and shaking ,my mind and the helix ,combined to push me over the edge.  I ordered me a progasm and it was the right height, hit my P spot ,just right ,that is what really makes my progress ,so much better its the fit ,plus I have became aware of what the device is doing to me,and my mind ,thinking all the kinky thoughts takes me there,when I start shaking ,I let go and it happens,  i hope that helps 

 


   
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@oldfartVery much so. Thanks!

 


   
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