Prostate Reunion for an Early Explorer

Hello All,

I am a newbie with this group and am so grateful to have found Y’all. I want to share with you who I am, my journey to be here and where I am right now as part of a testimonial to Aneros products I am a cis 75 year old with a long history of prostate play but am new to Aneros. My experience with prostate play began in about 1961 as a curious sexually clueless boy with a chemistry set. With a glass funnel the idea popped into my head one day to experiment with putting water in my rectum, I don’t think I knew what an enema was. Anyway, after a time or two I realized that the pressure of this water in my rectum felt fabulous and if I concentrated on these feelings the pleasure built resulting is clear emissions but no erection. Even later came erections and eventually ejaculations. Sound like a familiar path? While this may not have been everyone’s introduction to masturbation, it was mine. It was only after I began having ejaculations that I realized that rubbing my penis was a more direct and less messy way to go. So it was with joy that I found this site after listening to Forrest Andrews. Had I known then what I know now! That was then, now is 64 years later.

As a 75-year-old man, orgasms have always been very important to me whether through masturbation or sex with women. But several factors have made sexual intercourse less and less available to me. These factors include ED and a partner who is not really interested in sex. She wants to please me but finds intercourse uncomfortable. This has engendered in me anxiety not wanting to feel like I am forcing myself on her, causing her discomfort and this anxiety has exacerbated my ED. As she is still game to please, my plan was to work on stronger erections through kegel exercises, talk with her to work on my anxiety, and see what else could be done in addition to medications to improve erections. These investigations led to Aneros, which given my childhood experience with prostate play intrigued me. I started doing kegel and reverse kegel exercises in November 2023 using an APP called Stamena. Thus, in December 2023, I ordered the Eupho trident device to assist with stronger erections and to use in intercourse as this was one of the pros for it realizing that it was described as a device for experienced users I accepted the tradeoffs.

When it arrived, I made the decision to be transparent with my wife about my interest in using the device for stronger erections during intercourse. Incidentally, it was also the first time I described to another person about my childhood experience with prostate play using enemas. What a relief that was. My wife doesn’t want anything to do with the device or have it involved during intercourse. She is OK with my using it as long I am hygienic with it.

I began my sessions last week and have now had 4 of them basically every other day. The first session lasted about 30 minutes and was very pleasurable with familiar sensations. There were involuntaries with anal contractions when I used nipple stimulation. Incidentally, when I was young nipple stimulation was arousing but also very painful while now its just great. Insertion was painless and easy. After the session my anal contractions with the kegel exercises was entirely different and was very pleasurable. These feelings lasted for about 14 hours.

The second session lasted about 45 minutes and was very pleasurable with gentle anal contractions. My whole body during the session was filled with pleasure that had a certain sweet quality. I noticed that the device fell out if I didn’t keep my internal and external anal muscles contracted. Again, anal contractions after the session were very pleasurable for about 14 hours. Having trouble integrating breathing into the session.

As I was afraid that I had gotten too advanced a model, I ordered an MGX Syn Trident which was one more recommended for beginners. It arrived in time for the 3^rd session and I found it not nearly as nimble as the Eupho. It was harder to maneuver and though pleasurable it was less so than the Eupho. First Love? Again for about 14 hours anal contractions were very pleasurable and my perineum was very pleasurably stimulated. I have noticed that I have begun to be able to isolate my various PC muscles at least when they aren’t fatigued.

This brings me to my 4^th session again with the Eupho. It was more pleasurable than any session yet, lasting about 75 minutes ending when I gave up exhausted from the pleasurable feelings (my pleasurable anal contractions that are occurring as I write this 24 hours later testify to that). There was wave upon wave of pleasurable rhythmic contractions that I would happen and would go on for an extended period before tapering off. I could then hold a bit stronger contraction that was intensely pleasurable before moving into more rhythmic ones. This session also included leaking though no erection This went on for over an hour with my whole-body tingling and being bathed in sweet pleasure. I was finally exhausted and had to send the session. In none of the sessions have I become erect but that has not diminished the experience one iota.

My 5^th session has continued to build on previous one and this one the day after the 4^th was the best yet without serious pleasure, tingling throughout my body, continuing rhythmic contractions that seemed involuntary, I just let them go and then what might have been a p-wave??. Lots of strong pleasurable feelings. The glossary is my friend. Not sure how tell between mini-os and dry orgasms not that it makes any difference.

I am finishing this my introductory post after having taken a 4-day hiatus from the device. Even being away from it the connection between my anus, my prostate and my perineum has sensitized me so that anal contractions set up the very pleasurable sensations where ever I am.

What a journey so far! Just as curious now as I was at 13.