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Take your time. For some, it can take years to get anything at all.
At least you can feel it on your prostate - I can't even feel that much. Keep trying 🙂

Thanks for the encouragement - ive thought it through and decided to buy a larger toy so gone for the progasm ice, when ive been strapon fucked ive really felt intense sensations in and on the prostate, the dongs they use are huge in comparison to the helix, which is about the size of a finger, so my thinking is if i have the right size to fill me, along with the correct anatomical shape but without the hard thrusting the girls like to do i might get the sensations im looking for, remember im new to this aneros, but really not new to having things up there or impacting on my prostate.
ill see what happens next week when it arrives, for not a great deal of money it might be a netter option, or of course accompany my helix once ive mastered this elusive big O

I think that thinking "bigger = better" might be shooting yourself in the foot.

Many aneros users find that smaller = moves more = has better effect.

Aneros use is not really like dildo use: it's not about hitting it hard and fast like a dildo.
It seems to be about hitting the prostate in such a way that you dont really feel it but at the same time your brain detects it and assigns it as pleasure.
At least, that's what it seems like to me.

Good luck with the Progasm and let us know how you find it 🙂

Thanks Lonewolf - i get that theory completely, but i've had some direct experience during my strap on sessions of almost hitting the O, i had on Tuesday 2 hours of it and was shaking like a rag doll at at a couple of points, the problem was that the intensity built up and up and i couldn't stay with it, she'd adjust the angle and all of sudden there was no pressure or intensity just a pure sort of rushing feeling, but she'd move slightly and it would go, i know she was hitting something as i was leaking fluid copiously without any sort of erection, and had this mad shivering effect running up and down my body. A couple of times i asked her to stop and leave the tip on my prostate and just clenched and unclenched for a bit, which felt nice.

I think the problem with a strap on is its not anatomically shaped to wrap up and around the prostate like the Aneros do, its designed and shaped to go in and out as smoothly as possible, and just rubs on one point of the prostate fairly hard back and forth, its not a painful feeling but it's an intense pushing feeling, they say to work through and let it build, but for a beginner thats trying to understand and cope with that its difficult.

I think (ok its only a theory at this point) that this might be the key, something on the prostate you can actively feel and use your own breathing, relaxation and muscles to gently move and stimulate it till it feels right for you, then keep that point of contact and let it gently build up.
With the my Helix it did touch home a couple of times, so saying nothing happened wasn't exactly true to be honest, i did get some feeling laying on my front and sort of snaking my hips up and down to form a sort of ripple effect down my body, and thinking back the addition of porn just created frustration, i got turned on but the desire and want for more took over and i gave in to conventional stimulation.

So my thinking is, something slightly bigger which the Progasm is, will create more pressure on the prostate that i can move about slightly and create sensation...... I've read that everyone's journey is different and its all trial and error and i could be wrong about it all, but what the hell, if i could pay a grand out now and have a switch which enables me full body orgasms i would gladly pay it, so a 40 quid toy that might or might not be the key isn't a huge investment 😉