First sessions

Welcome Kaly! Aneros devices are centered on the prostate and prostate stimulation is probably a very new and different thing for you. When you have your next session keep in mind:

insert, relax, enjoy - don't tense, don't bear down - the more you relax your mind and body, the better this will work. You may get erect, stay soft, or alternate between soft and erect. Any of these are good. Erection is not necessary. Ideally you should have hours to devote to a session - if not, just set your expectations accordingly. If all you have are say 45 minutes, go for it, but realize you will likely just feel good, relax, maybe release some pre-cum.

It is not wham-bam-thank you mam. It is not bear down to get somewhere. Lay on your back on your bed, aneros in you, your hands well away from your penis, relax fantasize, imagine that little plastic device gently stroking your gland, enjoy the gentle waves ...

My mistake was that I absolutely wanted to be hard, thank you for your advice.

If you are going to do a long session as @chastityisland suggested, be sure you are using a lube that will last as long without drying-out. You may need to re-apply lube. Also, just ignore your penis during a session. I know this seems contradictory, but necessary.

My first session was not good at all, I think I contracted too hard, I felt nothing apart from a "tingling" at a place where I was not sure at that moment was my prostate. ...The second time I had a much better experience, no pain (but no pleasure either).... Third session no progress, but I read on a post that I can take months for some people to feel something...So even without any prostate pleasure, this is a huge improvement for me

I, too, Welcome you to our little community. As @chastityisland noted, prostate based orgasms are qualitatively different from penile based orgasms, as such, you need to make a paradigm shift in thinking to obtain them. Your initial responses to the Aneros journey are actually quite typical, so, take heart in knowing things will get better with more practice and patience. You may find these two threads - Identifying Obstacles to Progress & Identifying Facilitators to Progress helpful as you begin this potentially life altering journey.
There is NO one formulaic path leading to prostate based orgasms, each man has to find the right combination of techniques to open the door to dry-O's and Super-O's, be adventurous, open minded and experimental in your quest.

P.S. I sent you an introductory message with some additional hints and tips to get you started here. Click on your 'Messages' button in the Forums to retrieve it. Please take the time to follow the links provided in that PM.
Good Vibes to You !

@chastityisland I have a question for you. You told @Kaly that if he didn't have too much time to devote to a session, he may expect to release some precum only. My sessions lately are under an hour. Are you suggesting that by lengthening my session length, I may expect more and different kinds of fluid? So my "prostate milking" sessions could really be "precum milking" sessions?

Not really. I was just pointing out that when time is short, especially for a beginner, expectations need to be modest. Thus, expect some nice feelings, some precum but nothing WOW-WOW-WOW. With more experience, that can change.

For example, I can do an effective prostate milking in 10 to 15 minutes. But, that is very hands on, sliding an njoy pure wand into me and working it. Lots of fluid, definitely not just pre-cum.

From reading your blog, I know you are a seasoned milker.

In my experience, giving the aneros hours and hours makes exquisite non-ejaculatory multiple orgasms more likely. But, first you need to find your own technique.

@chastityisland how often do you use your NJOY Pure Wand? What works best for you; large or small ball side?

I'm thinking of buying one.

I am a new user but not new to this kind of stimulation. In the past I had the feeling there was something more beyond the usual penetration and penile stimulation, I but could never get "there". I kept my firs session to less than ten minutes with very gentle contractions. My second was a 10 minute session ending in penile stimulation in the usual fashion. My third and fourth have been 15 minutes with no touching my penis; both ended with a feeling of relaxation and peace and no interest (???!!!) or desire to masturbate. What am I becoming?This is going in a good direction. My advice is go easy, be patient; the payoff appears to be there.

"another" which device did you use? I am very interested in your 15 minute session ending in relaxation, peace and no interest or desire to masturbate.

GGringo - I use the small 1 inch ball inside me, and use the large 1.5 inch ball outside as the gearshift handle. The 1 inch ball is inserted about 2 to 4 inches inside me, with the curve and gentle pressure on the gearshift placing the small ball in behind my penis within the rectum. I move it until I find the prostate, then steady pressure plus some movement. If I slip it in a bit more I can target my seminal vesicles. The sessions is hands on in that my hand manipulates the gearshift, but of course I ignore my penis. A typical session lasts about 15 minutes, and I slowly release a rather sizable amount of thin watery milky white to clear fluid. A small batch will run out, then I exert some gentle pressure and a half minute later another small batch runs out. When the session is done I feel relaxed yet energized and at peace. My libido is quashed, yet I am capable of getting a good erection if need be.

@chastityisland thanks for the info, I appreciate it. It does sound like it would be a good addition to my collection.

BTW, when responding or addressing a member, I suggest to use a "@" in front of the name to activate it. It chimes the recipient's message box. Just a suggestion.

one thing I observed is when you contracted your muscles hard, those tingling or other sensations overwhelm the subtle sensation that the prostate sent out

Thank you for your answers.