Womans question about flacid penis during aneros use

mad1,

You may wish to have HIM read the following threads for results often reported : http://aneros.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=2795 ,
http://aneros.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=2842 , http://aneros.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=2693 ,
http://aneros.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=1149 . There are many similar threads on his Forum and you could go and find them using the ‘Search’ function, but the bottom line is insertion and use of the Aneros massagers does lead many men into a flaccid state when no penile stimulation is provided. Thankfully this condition can usually be quickly reversed by the manual or oral intervention of a loving partner, as you have discovered yourself. This temporary deflation should in no way be interpreted as a decrease in his virility or masculinity, it is just a case of how some of us guys are "wired".

WHEW!!!!!! thanks for asking the question. i thought it was just me! new user, only been "experimenting" for about 2 weeks. anyways, goes both ways. sometimes i will go flaccid but then other times i will start to feel something moving against my leg and next thing i know i have a "woody" as hard as ash and a contraction that lasts for for 1-2 minutes. 57 now and haven't felt like that since 17!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! have the peridise which is very subtle but then sneaks up and WHAM!
had fun with the mgx and just received the progasm. these are some fantastic "toys". never really tried anything like this before. thinking of seeing an attorney and filing a lawsuit............i think these things are ADDICTING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! just kidding. anyways, thank-you ANEROS, seriously, for the great product. it truly is awesome!

Hello Mad1,

The only time I get erect when using either my Helix or Progasm is if my Wife is with me and we're getting busy 😀 If i'm having a solo session, I'm never erect. To be totally honest, my Penis likes to pretend it's a turtle and hide 😀 The one thing for your Husband to remember is that you do not need an erection for the Aneros to do it's magic. For me, an erection would just get in the way as I lay half on my side and half on my stomach.

Don't sweat it, there is nothing wrong with you. Just enjoy.

Nodak

😉

When I first started I would be fairly hard right at the start of a session, but as you really set your focus to the inside your penis is "forgotten". And it really should be. Your attention doesn't need to be there.

Moving into the future of sessions I no longer get hard at all. Exceptions to the rule are when I am intentionally trying to be fully aroused. I use audio files with nice easy music and lovely moaning sounds. Use those as a focus to ramp up the arousal may give me an erection, but when I put my focus towards my prostate and my Aneros the erection will deflate time and again.

Tell him not to sweat it. Unless there is manual stimulation by yourself, your loving partner, or a beautiful imagination - chances are likely the penis will be flaccid.

@drummel Opening message is more than half a decade old.

Regarding a flaccid penis during Aneros use and pegging; it stands to reason with all of the blood flow directed to the prostate, it is understandable that there would not be enough blood pressure to support an erection. The Pro-Dom I have played with says that is correct based on her experience, and frankly I trust her experience. She also said unless you manually stimulate the penis typically, not always the guy will be flaccid.

@Canacan,it's still relevant though, isn't it?

@drummel Opening message is more than half a decade old.

There are lots of posts older than that! Why does that matter?

@Canacan,it's still relevant though, isn't it?

@drummel Opening message is more than half a decade old.

There are lots of posts older than that! Why does that matter?

Well, of course... But I suspect the comment "tell him..." wont ever reach its recipient. I am not criticizing, just pointing Drummel to detail he justifiably missed due to akward bump from previous poster.

Cheers !

I have found it depends on which device. I have some Rocks Off toys that make me completely flaccid. Many times using my Progasm or Vice I become raging hard towards the end.

Sometimes I stay hard the whole time, and sometimes I don't. Whether I'm hard or not, I usually leak a lot of pre-cum throughout. And I find that my erections are harder with consistent use of Aneros (and/or other anal toys).

wow lucky man! I would so love to have a woman help during a session - soft touch, strokes, and warm voice. Jealous! (No hard on for most the session including no erection for frequent HFWO)

My penis is always flaccid during Aneros use, even when I focus on it. Do get some very pleasant sensations like a normal orgasm in the shaft but no erection or wet ejaculate.

It happens to me quite often, but I don't mind. For me it's more the other way around, I was more worried that my partner has a problem with it, but thankfully she is very understanding.

Glad you asked the question! When I first started I was worried when my penis was always hiding between my legs. Now I just focus on the pleasure in my ass and don't care what my penis is doing. Since I always go solo I don't care about my penis but if my wife was watching I might feel embarrassed. IMHO I might suggest just encourage him and go along with him on his sessions.
He is very luck to have a wife that encourages him and enjoys watching him pleasure his prostate.