What is your session atmosphere?

I said music on, infact I have been using the hypnaerosession the past 2 weeks 🙂

Naked, on bed, Hypnaerosession playing, nobody home, all cleaned up "down there," daytime, shades up, (screw 'em... privacy of my own home, and all that...), eagerly anticipating what may follow. Problem: standard fantasizing leads to thigh/butt/belly muscle tension and pelvic grinding, as in leading to a standard O (habit?); relax/breathe/mushin (no-mind) is pleasant, but leads nowhere, at least so far. Sitting on the fence at the moment, alternating.

Quiet with soft music. cell phone off.. clean sheets, soft towels. warmed lube. warmed aneros. taking some time before to clean up... enjoying the "foreplay" of the prep. It all works.. and then just letting it happen. I always take my time. after all, you want it to last so take your time..

Quiet with soft music. cell phone off.. clean sheets, soft towels. warmed lube. warmed aneros. taking some time before to clean up... enjoying the "foreplay" of the prep. It all works.. and then just letting it happen. I always take my time. after all, you want it to last so take your time..

well put steve the foreplay of the prep and even the anticipation is erotic and arousing just knowing a session lies ahead causes my genitals to respond along with my mind and i often moisten up before my penis has a chance to fully expand and erect ...

good sex of any kind is in my experience always heightened by anticipation ... we have a bidet and when i hear my wife's footsteps upstairs followed by the unique subtle sound of the bidet's plumbing - so different from the sink/lavatory or shower - my dick and its appendages respond and my libido rises

... wanting it to last is why we are all on this quest which i find an expansion of tantric sex and tantric edging and masturbation

it will be a few hours before i get laid tonight and an hour or two more before my progasm teases its way through my sphincter and into my anus and rectum butt my whole being is in the process of being ready for it

just signing in to aneros.com causes some sort of internal and external twitching as well!

- rip

- no one home
- hypnaerosession
- naked
- weed
- lights off
- eyes closed
- in bed

The atmosphere I aim for is somewhat solemn and ritualistic.
Eyes closed, Lights out: I take great care to prevent external impulses. I close the door to the room, roll down the blinds. During the session I even wear a blindfold to promote passivity and mental visualisation.
Music on: Phone on airplane mode, its music player on Hypnaerosession with earbuds. 'nuff said 🙂
No one else home: A given.
Shower first: If I feel like it, sometimes.
More than one Aneros: Rarely (First Progasm, then Eupho was a winner though, I'd recommend it!)
On the bed: Always
Naked: Part of the ritual, I strip completely, then lay out my complete collection on the bed, make my choice, then store the rest again. I apply (pre)lube, insert the tool of choice and slip into a special set of pajamas. I lie down and start the CD...

The atmosphere I aim for is somewhat solemn and ritualistic.
Eyes closed, Lights out: I take great care to prevent external impulses. I close the door to the room, roll down the blinds. During the session I even wear a blindfold to promote passivity and mental visualisation.
Music on: Phone on airplane mode, its music player on Hypnaerosession with earbuds. 'nuff said 🙂
No one else home: A given.
Shower first: If I feel like it, sometimes.
More than one Aneros: Rarely (First Progasm, then Eupho was a winner though, I'd recommend it!)
On the bed: Always
Naked: Part of the ritual, I strip completely, then lay out my complete collection on the bed, make my choice, then store the rest again. I apply (pre)lube, insert the tool of choice and slip into a special set of pajamas. I lie down and start the CD...

pareidolia - agree that the scene should promote passivity and mental visualization butt i choose not to fight the daylight if it's daytime nor do i wear blindfolds although i do want to try it as it well may serve two contrary functions both of which appeal to me ==> (a) instead of visually watching the response of my body parts - nipples chest/respirations abdomen pelvis penis balls and scrotum - i can concentrate on the sensations of my arousal and response ...

p.s. what's up with yer signature?

pareidolia - agree that the scene should promote passivity and mental visualization butt i choose not to fight the daylight if it's daytime nor do i wear blindfolds although i do want to try it as it well may serve two contrary functions both of which appeal to me ==> (a) instead of visually watching the response of my body parts - nipples chest/respirations abdomen pelvis penis balls and scrotum - i can concentrate on the sensations of my arousal and response ... and (b) if i shift my focus from my sensory nervous system to my mental/spiritual response i may well achieve a higher/deeper meditative state possibly faster or more "intense" - the latter not a real good choice of words

I have almost all of my sessions late in the evening, then there is no daylight to fight :rolleyes: I think it's all about making a point to myself (and my subconscious?) to be passive and to let go. Normally my mind is always churning, even the appearance of my bedroom can be distracting for me.

... i'm a progasm guy myself and have just the one - how old a dude are you? - assume yer a brit? ("visualiSation")

Good choice 😛 I pick the Progasm most of the time. Think of me as a spoiled brat, I have a tendency to build complete collections, and fortunately I can somewhat afford that.
I am 22 years old, and not British, but geographically close *wink* *wink*

why do you wear pajamas?

In my early days I discovered I could get cold easily, but I got tangled in the sheets. Wearing pajamas didn't distract me as much. It became a part of the ritual then.

... and do you ever leak from yer ass anything butt lube?

I have not had any serious problem with leaking. I only use K-Y...

don't mean to grill you butt i'm a disciple here not a mentor yet LOL

I like a good grill when there's no meat involved 🙂 It doesn't matter to me, we all have our stories to tell.

i just turned 50 married with kids new to anything anal before the past 6 months and i've been meditating and also experiencing prolonged and multiple orgasms and edging for years - butt aneros has opened a whole new world
... hope you don't mind the PM
p.s. what's up with yer signature?

Yes, it has certainly opened a new world. I wouldn't be as healthy (mentally and physically) as I am now without the rediscovery (this year) of the discovery (2007).
If you have sent me a PM something must have gone wrong, I have received nothing.
Think of my signature as a magical spell. It is the Y combinator in the language Scheme with a function to print "LOVE " applied to it. When evaluated, it will repeat printing "LOVE " eternally through anonymous recursion 🙂

Cheers...

Yes, it has certainly opened a new world. I wouldn't be as healthy (mentally and physically) as I am now without the rediscovery (this year) of the discovery (2007).
If you have sent me a PM something must have gone wrong, I have received nothing.
Think of my signature as a magical spell. It is the Y combinator in the language Scheme with a function to print "LOVE " applied to it. When evaluated, it will repeat printing "LOVE " eternally through anonymous recursion 🙂

Cheers...

no doubt meditative prowess is definitely a key to a healthy mind ...

- rip (hope i'm not offending)

Early morning delivers the best sessions --- much more alert and rested. Of late, I've been priming the pump with some gentle external prostate massage, nip stim and firm holding of scrotum and testicles all at once. Favorate model remains the eupho but will also use peridise, mgx and helix. Slow insertion while in fetal position on side. As a Christian guy, each session is a silent praise session! Recently shaved perineum, scrotum and penis which has added amazing sensations and superior external contact. When aneros is a part of lovemaking with my wife, the atmosphere is electrified on both our parts ---- causing the secretions to flow abundantly!

STARR,

Great stuff to hear. I understand the praise thing. I'm a Christian too and look upon this journey as a HUGE blessing from God. He has made us in a wonderful way - it is fantastic to discover all the "wonder."

I too shave (all over, including the areas you mentioned) and I also love the sensations, especially when a breeze flows through the room. AND, sex with my wife has become astounding!

Continue enjoying all the great stuff coming your way.

Brian

I like to wear my Helix Syn with a Cocksox thong (which keeps slight pressure and prevents it from coming out) to cocktail and dinner parties. Often the wife's are "plain vanilla" and I want to enjoy myself rather than get bored. Clinching activates the device which strokes my prostate and causes a thrill that makes me smile. The rest of the guests never suspect a thing. I only wish they did and I could discuss it with some of the wife's and g/f.

Lights on or off it depends, sometimes I play binaural beats, I have my eyes open and closed but closed mostly, naked yes, it doesn't matter but it's better if there's no one home, always shower first, I've rarely use more than one aneros and almost always on the bed.

Almost always when I'm home alone. Get naked and usuallly do an anal cleanse first. After a few minutes waiting for things to stablize, apply a prelube of either cocoa butter or olive oil. Then spread out a towel over a pillow and get comfortable on my back or side. Start out with either the Tempo or EuphoSyn lubed with Astroglide or K-Y Jelly and slowly insert to the max and relax. When twinges begin, will do slow breathing along with kagels. No darkness or music needed - just quiet and relaxation and focus on the anal cavity - let the fun begin!

Naked, with a winter beanie on my head (Minnesota boy)
Typically I am clean 'down there' as I usually shower at the gym after an afternoon workout. I'm not concerned about any internal 'residue' to deal with
Laying next to my sleeping wife or, if she snores like a Sasquatch, alone in the guest bed downstairs
On my back, legs spread, feet close or touching
Lube with Maximus by BodyWise (awesome butt lube)
Insert Helix SYN, Eupho Trident if I want a gentle lover. If I want an aggressive F*** I use the Maximus Trident or Progasm Jr
Sometimes Binaural beats, sometimes utter silence
Lights off
Eyes usually closed, but they can be open during great dry orgasms
Slowly contract for a few minutes until P waves and prostate pleasure begins, then I will usually back off and see how my body wants to respond
To intensify the dry orgasms or lead the pleasure into my penis I will lightly circle my nipples with my fingers until the end of the session.

Most of my sessions are usually in the morning in the couple hours before sunrise. In the summertime, I am mostly naked. During the winter months, I have to wear an Under Armour cold gear shirt with a hoodie over it and a woolen cap to keep warm. I am naked from the waist down. During weekdays I have those sessions a couple hours before apartment staff arrive. All my sessions are down in complete silence.

However I may have an occasional session in the noon hour or one in the early evening or at night when staff have left for the day.

Saturdays are the best days for sessions. Hardly staff around. Apartment building mostly quiet that day.

Early morning or late at night with the lights out, on the bed, with soft soothing new wave music playing.