Preferred Anal Stimulation

I am awaiting the delivery of my first Aneros (MGX), but ( 😉 - forgive the pun) prefer rimming. The feel of a moist tongue exploring your anus is incredible!

I really want to be pegged but my wife refuses to use sex toys. She likes to give me analingus and to finger me so I have to say that anal fingering is my favorite. It's my favorite anal stimulation because it is a shared experience. I am being fucked. But when I have a long session alone with my sex toys, teasing my prostate and slowly opening and relaxing my anus until it can take a fairly large dildo, that's when I feel most physically fulfilled.

I like the Aneros for long sessions of pleasure where the heights are sometimes elusive but unquestionably intense. Sometimes I use a slim dildo to reach a little deeper. Sometimes I use a large dildo just because I'm craving the "sledgehammer" approach. Just depends on what mood I'm in but honestly, it's all good!

I am not being judgmental. I love the feel of rimming. At least I did until I found out that it is scientifically proven that the germs present in the anal tract should not make contact with the mouth. Such contact can and does cause cases of Hepatitis C for which there is no cure. When I made that discovery, I ordered a dental dam (recommended by scientists), but found that the dam blocked all sensation for me. So I stopped doing it. My wife and I did it to each other up until then.

I think it is important that the science on this is known. I encourage everyone to look into this for themselves, don't take my word for it.

I just don't believe in the "roll the dice" approach to health living. Taking unnecessary chances with health is always a roll of the proverbial dice, or a form of Russian Roulette.

Please don't accuse me of intolerance. I am not intolerant. If people know they are taking risks, and they choose to do so, that is their informed choice. Ignorance is not bliss. It is stupid.

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@RayMitchell, (edit) Regarding AneRico's second reference above to a professional one night stand. Quoting from the MD's reply: "Fourth, neither HIV nor hepatitis C or B are transmitted by oral sex (fellatio, cunnilingus, analingus -giving or receiving). There are no credible reports of these infections being transmitted through this sort of contact, thus this is not a concern an no testing for these agents is required."
The above may not be quite accurate but:-
I think that if it is the same partner that is involved for many years, and neither have strayed, then that would put the risk at vanishing point, as there would have been multiple other ways the transmission could have taken place over that time. One offs will always carry a greater risk.
The reality is that life is a risk.

I’ve been fingered by a female but, I’ve never been pegged by one. I "love" the Aneros stimulation but, ideally for Anal Sex; I prefer the full feel of another male body contact, in sensual bonding.

If it is the same partner that has been involved for many years, and neither of them has strayed, then it would put the risk at vanishing point, as there would have been various other ways that the transmission might have taken place throughout that period. penalty kick online

I voted for fingering but only because I love it as foreplay. In fact, my lover always starts by blowing gently on my anus, which I love. Then he rubs a dry calloused finger around and over my anus (he’s a skilled manual worker). It leaves me spreading my butt cheeks with my hands pulling them as far apart as I can to really expose the puckered pink one! He suck’s his fingers and then plunges one in and works it vigorously but without pulling it out when he does withdraw it , it’s only so his middle finger can join it. Soon after he begins longer slower thrusts, moving quickly to the point they’re completely out but instantly all the way back in. 

Then I get quite a ‘vicious’ rimming. He loves my A! For a time he switches between rimming and fingering until I get his cock before it’s dildo time. 

These sessions last all afternoon and sometimes evening too. We don’t live together or very close so we like to make the most of our time together. He goes after breakfast the next day. After I’ve tidied up and chilled for a while it’s Aneros time. Hours of completely selfish fun! 

There is one other thing my anus loves occasionally, though I wouldn’t recommend it unless you’re a long standing anal lover. Even then, you’d really have to be into a rougher scene. Sometimes after a long, rough fingering I beg him to punish my anus. We have a thin belt and a small flogger for these times. If you’re determined to try this take  great care. A warm anal glow is one thing but do not break the skin. 

Happy times guys.