Thanks 872 for reposting the link to BigOluver's Poll here!!
BTW, my long since deceased Edwardian maternal grandmother was as adamant as you, or more so, about the "[ the perfectly good meaning of the word being destroyed]" and used very similar language!
Personally, I like the first nations language: Two Spirited. And because all of this can be a complicated as our discussion here suggests, or more so, I also accept Queer since I have been described as atypical and a dilemma in many facets of life and being... 😀 😀
all the very best deep personal peace and grace in coming to the self-understanding and joie de vivre ..........potentially available through fully awakening our prostates
..........to open the way for full spectrum orgasmic energies, full life vitality,
..........and unlimited spiritual journeys that truly fully open us all
Art/artform
as we rewire
we are all reconnected
So...... here I am 3 plus years into prostate orgasm practice. Prior to this latest turn in my sexual journey I would have responded to this poll as straight - heterosexual. Now after experiencing anal pleasure, prostate orgasm, multiple orgasm, dry orgasm and having realized the immense erotic power of my thoughts and the linkage of those thoughts to my body and my sex organs ..... I am rewired.
What does it mean to me to be rewired? It means that I have cast off an outmoded narrow view of my sexuality and replaced it with something much deeper, richer and emminently more powerful. I am now a sensual man. I am attuned to the exquisite elegance and torid sexuality of a beautiful woman's body. But it also means that I am equally attuned to the uniquely masculine sensuality of an erect cock and the unmistakably powerful passion of a man.
I have enveloped myself in layer upon layer of erotic pleasure and sensual rapture alone. I have kissed and licked my lady's nether lips and experienced the sweet rapture of deep penetration between her thighs more times than I can count. But I have yet to experience the passion of a man. I hope to someday soon.
So what does that make me? Hetero - curious? Straight - ambivalent? Repressed gay? I think none of the above. I am a sensual man experiencing a sensual world and all it has to offer.
Bigguy
Ling, @lingaman , this is a wonderful eloquent précis of your astounding journey to that point in late 2011!! Your new blog and posts here: http://www.aneros.com/blogs/linghamans-blog-on-aneros/ are carrying on your thoughtful powerful expression of your journey now, in ways that many here can relate to, and are encouraged by virtue of your generous sharing.
I believe that this journey is best when we each can evolve into, and celebrate with gratitude, becoming deeply open sensualists!!!
And from there, further develop into wide-ranging thoughtful artful eroticists!!!
Soon then, we gradually feel our ecstasies and actions and gratitude all flowing with deep multitudinous energies connections...
...as we exercise our natural and aesthetic, intuitive, gentle intention, through love...
...in tune with the music of the spheres and the whole universe/multiverse...
...as our eros and our whole being become our natural work of art ~~~~~~~~~~ mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Ling, and all, please join in with your thoughts and experiences of all sorts here in response to these Polls and all the ideas bubbling up here!!!
artform
as we rewire
we are all reconnected
I chose not to vote because I am asexual, which is not an option on the poll. Just thought I'd throw in a vote for the (seemingly) few of us here.
I chose not to vote because I am asexual, which is not an option on the poll. Just thought I'd throw in a vote for the (seemingly) few of us here.
@Cearul8 I actually thought of people like you when i created the revamped poll... Please vote here :
http://www.aneros.com/forum/discussion/15811/sex-and-sexual-orientation-poll-revamped/p1