Difficulty to get arous and starting with Aneros

Posted by: @banana555

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So being single and willing to use Aneros I have this bottleneck of being not aroused and the sessions can be just mechanical. And I have read on this forum full of tutorials that arousal is an important key.

Yes, arousal is an important key to getting into the Super-O zone. Please see the thread Are you "aroused"?. For some tips on increasing arousal please see the thread Aneros, Arousal & Abstinence/Semen Retention and & @divine_o 's thread Arousal building methods.

However, even in the absence of an aroused mental state, you can still enjoy the health benefits of prostate massage and the pleasurable sensations that it can bring. Such use may get you oriented to thinking more about your practice and that in and of itself may help stimulate arousal buildups. If arousal has been a problem for some time you might want to see if you are suffering from low testosterone levels or other hormonal deficiencies.

Good Vibes to You!

I to am single therefore, I try to think of my sessions as love making, to myself. Know one knows better than you,where to touch yourself, caress yourself, pretend your hands are someone elses. Tell yourself outloud , how horny you are, and how good your caresses feel. Work yourself up. Tease yourself. Rape yourself. If porn doesn't do it, all you have left is your imagination, use it. I think almost every succesful A rider would agree that, the mental side of this, is the most important component.  Or  maybe you do have a hormone imbalance. 

 I would work on turning on ones self, takes a little practice, its worth it, and you'll learn how it can improve many non sexual parts of your life better.

 Everybody go make love to yourself right now. Weeee 

I initially had similar arousal issues. 
Thinking back, I believe it was because I was introduced to this product as a medical device to ward off prostate problems. 
It took awhile for me to disconnect my sessions from the clinical mindset. 
This is why p0rn was key to anchoring my A-sessions to sexual pleasure.