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Difficulty to get arous and starting with Aneros


Banana555
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Hi, it's pretty simple basically I couldn't find an honest way to feel arousal when being alone. P@rn and manual stimulation can't works (I can get ejection/orgasm watching it) -but- for example I can not produce precum since I truly don't get mentally excited by that. Basically P@rn is very boring for me, I can feel part of my brain likes it but my eyes close willing to sleep.
I don't have a girlfriend but I'm aware that for example when I had a relationship even by distance I was turned on in a way that makes the difference like night and day compared by watching people having fun on a video. 
So being single and willing to use Aneros I have this bottleneck of being not aroused and the sessions can be just mechanical. And I have read on this forum full of tutorials that arousal is a n important key.
I don't know if writing here makes sense and what I wish to obtain, maybe someone else have had this difficulty when starting with Aneros? 

Thx for your attention.


   
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rumel
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Posted by: @banana555
So being single and willing to use Aneros I have this bottleneck of being not aroused and the sessions can be just mechanical. And I have read on this forum full of tutorials that arousal is an important key.

Yes, arousal is an important key to getting into the Super-O zone. Please see the thread Are you "aroused"?. For some tips on increasing arousal please see the thread Aneros, Arousal & Abstinence/Semen Retention and & @divine_o 's thread Arousal building methods.

However, even in the absence of an aroused mental state, you can still enjoy the health benefits of prostate massage and the pleasurable sensations that it can bring. Such use may get you oriented to thinking more about your practice and that in and of itself may help stimulate arousal buildups. If arousal has been a problem for some time you might want to see if you are suffering from low testosterone levels or other hormonal deficiencies.

Good Vibes to You!


   
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Tbob
 Tbob
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I to am single therefore, I try to think of my sessions as love making, to myself. Know one knows better than you,where to touch yourself, caress yourself, pretend your hands are someone elses. Tell yourself outloud , how horny you are, and how good your caresses feel. Work yourself up. Tease yourself. Rape yourself. If porn doesn't do it, all you have left is your imagination, use it. I think almost every succesful A rider would agree that, the mental side of this, is the most important component.  Or  maybe you do have a hormone imbalance. 

 I would work on turning on ones self, takes a little practice, its worth it, and you'll learn how it can improve many non sexual parts of your life better.

 Everybody go make love to yourself right now. Weeee 


   
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StingRey
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I initially had similar arousal issues. 
Thinking back, I believe it was because I was introduced to this product as a medical device to ward off prostate problems. 
It took awhile for me to disconnect my sessions from the clinical mindset. 
This is why p0rn was key to anchoring my A-sessions to sexual pleasure. 


   
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