Howdy guys!
Middle-aged man here that has been doing some anal solo play for decades. Among the experiences are several models of Aneros toys, but they never hit the spot for me. Well, they do hit the spot, but they do not work. I find all models "sharp" and unpleasant to use. Whenever they move it feels like a sharp pin being pushed into my p-spot and it's just not good. I haven't tried them all, but I did try the classic and 2 more models, among one of these a silicon model in the hope this would fix the sharpness but it didn't. What HAS worked the best is a p-spot silicon toy that is more volumous with a big, round tip. It's clearly larger overall than the Aneros toys I've tried.
While this DOES feel great and has gotten me to pleasure waves, I'm getting nowhere on the super-o. I guess an issue with this tool that did work is that it involves manual movement. Another issue is that I never found much pleasure in just going anal. I need to touch the penis to a certain extent to get going. Doesn't have to be downright stroking or anything, just moving it slightly is enough.
But I would like to reach that super-o. Any advice to give in this situation?
Take your time and enjoy the journey! Smooth silicone models should be the least irritating and give you the best results. Don’t worry about an achieving a super O. It will happen eventually. Use plenty of lube if you’re overly sensitive!
As I've read your post @starp, an old post came to my mind, which I can't find now, but the OP had BPH, and found all Aneros models with tabs uncomfortable. But when he bought the Tempo it fit him perfectly, no pain, sticking or whatsoever.
I have the both the Peridise and Tempo, they are not aiming forward like the other models, and I can confirm, that they are the most delicate toys of the whole Aneros line-up. I've had success with them reaching dry-o, even though they are not prostate massagers.
But if you don't want to buy a new toy right now, maybe try inserting on of your current ones backwards. I've read, some guys had occasionally success this way.
I'm someone that has been trying for near on a decade with no Super-O myself, but I will say that the journey is worth it and I've learned a lot about myself and pleasure over the last 9 years. I would also say that I'm someone that thought that chasing the next model was the way to overcome whatever wasn't working, but really I think that the Helix syn trident is all that most men need, myself included.