You can call him Ray(Vega) ...or Raymond?

I’ve been using the Aneros for a little over a year now with great success. Of course it wasn’t always that way. The first 6-7 months were fraught with frustration as I attempted to apply everything I previously knew about orgasms to my encounters with the Aneros. In short it wasn’t until I threw all of that stuff out the window and started approaching the Aneros as a unique experience that things really changed for me. Over the last year I’ve been an avid follower of this forum, although I’ve rarely had the time to post my own comments. During this time I’ve always been impressed with the attitude of openness, spirit of exploration and general air of respect and civility that I’ve seen here. Although I haven’t always agreed with a thread author or a respondent for that matter, most times I feel I’m still able to draw something of value from what I read.

To this day I’m always amused when someone writes in after only a handful of sessions with the Aneros saying that they didn’t get any results and therefore that the Aneros doesn’t work. Don’t’ get me wrong, I’m not getting delight from their difficulty, after all, I was that guy! It’s just that we as men have always had it so easy when it comes to having orgasms, so I think that many guys get resentful when they feel sexually challenged in some way. Again this response is not unusual, it seems to be more or less a natural response to something that we do not understand or cannot connect with. What’s great about this forum is that there are some users who do care, and seek to elevate everybody’s experience to a higher level. Unfortunately however, it seems there are others that have other things in mind.

If you’ve been checking out the forum recently you have seen a flood of comments from the user Ray Vega who by the looks of it is now going by the user name Raymond. On the surface he appears to be a dissatisfied user. But I don’t think he deserves that much credit. Frankly, judging from his comments I’m not sure that he is an Aneros owner/user at all. Why? For one, when numerous users have responded to his comments, trying to offer him useful suggestions and such, there is never any response whatsoever outside of more blanket denunciations of the device, which is always capped off with some vulgarity. He really doesn’t have a clue! Virtually everything the guy has to say is scathing. Eternally skeptical he has even had the audacity to label any and all that have positive comments to post as phonies! Furthermore when it was suggested to him that he could return the Aneros for a refund, he sidestepped that one with a half-baked statement declaring that he wouldn't want the manufacturer to repackage the device for resale ?!!! Really!

Friends we have here one of two things; 1) some pathetic guy (not a user) in search of some place to inflict himself upon or 2) a user who is so angry with his level of failure that he seeks to make everybody else’s life a misery. I’m sure you all have seen this type before, you know the one at the restaurant who orders something that he hates, but refuses to send it back so that he may have the pleasure of reviling it and the restaurant for the entire evening.

Don't get me wrong, there is a place in this forum for dissention as well. It's healthy, it's what keeps it honest. Negative comments, skepticism, and having one's doubts is one thing....Ray Vega is another.

I for one will be bypassing his comments altogether and would suggest to others that they not waste their time in responding to this guy. He is not interested in a serious discussion as the others who have joined this forum,… he is the phoney!

Brnistr