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(@geist)
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Hi folks,

Last night I was able to enter into an orgasmic state by willing myself mentally. Now, I realise there are many members here who can probably do this, but this was something of a breakthrough for me. I'd played around with this kind of mental stimulation on occasion, but didn't get much out of it in the past. I knew there was definite potential there, however, and last night I managed to break down some barriers.

It was about 2 am or so and I was having trouble getting to sleep, so I started working up some sexy thoughts. After a bit of this, I began to 'challenge' myself, so to speak. I began telling myself that 'I wanted to have an orgasm', and 'why shouldn't I be able to have an orgasm?'. I guess this may be where being re-wired helps, because I could feel my pelvic area responding, slowly and gently throbbing with a pleasant feeling of mild fullness. Concentrating on these sensations I continued to push myself mentally, willing the orgasm on, moaning in my mind.

Progression and augmenting of the feelings came by what I can only describe (and not very well at that) as mental doors opening. My mind 'clicked' and I'd enter a new heightened state. This happened maybe twice before my heart started racing, my breathing became rapid, and I got body shakes. My eyes were closed the whole time and I began to see some quite beautiful patterns and colours.

The orgasm itself was centred around the penis. I could feel it throbbing similar to when ejaculation is taking pace, but there was also obvious throbbing of the perineum which if I'm not mistaken indicates the prostate was very much involved. I cycled erections a couple of times, but the feeling was consistent regardless of erection. I was involuntarily holding a light contraction (not sure of the name) the entire time, and gently pushing with the internal pulsing.

Although the bodily reaction was fairly intense, the orgasm was a mini-o, albeit a lengthy one -- at least 30-60 minutes (didn't really keep track of time). However, although an incredible experience, it wasn't in itself 'fulfilling', and once subsided I manually finished off to a wonderful ejaculation.

I believe this was not even close to being the potential peak of the experience. Hands-free ejaculation could definitely be possible, and maybe experimenting with contractions could lead to a super-o.

Anyway, aside from this very long post, I'd love to read about any similar experiences, different techniques, or any general thoughts on the subject.

Thanks all!


   
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Hi Geist!

This is a great post!

Congratulations on climbing "up" onto another orgasmic plane!

I believe that the re-wiring process is an ongoing one and I, for one. hope it never
stops changing and adapting to newer and higher levels of orgasmic consciousness!

Please keep us abreast of your practice and discoveries! (even small ones???)

Enjoy the Journey!

Later, Hlaser99


   
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I have all the aneros models and have been using them once per week for 7 months. About two months ago I woke up at 3 am (hormones are peak for men early in the morning) with a raging erection. I had been doing a very brief session 5 hours earlier with no super o. My prostate still felt full. I am a back sleeper so I rolled over and gently place the frenum of my penis (the cleft in the head) so that it gently touched he smooth sheets of the bed. I didn't push. I began to rythmically and very gently contract the deep muscles (so gently I was hardly squeezing). I was thinking really dirty thoughts. I could feel that buzzing and swelling of my prostate and soon my penis began to twitch. In two minutes the twitching of my penis went into automatic, and I lost the erection but the twitching was now reverberating between my prostate and my penis. It felt like an internal ping pong match. The feelings inside just continued to grow and soon I was in a full blown super o. It went on for 45 minutes ...when it was done I was sweating and exhausted.

Since then I have been able to work myself into this state in about ten minutes with gentle pressure on my frenum, anal contractions, nasty imagery and induced twitching of my penis. In 15 minutes I can be in a stste of extreme bliss. I have also started using an N Joy Phun Plug . . . a stainless steel prostate massager to get me workeed up ...i then remove it and go at it empty. The penile twitching seems to be the key ... it works with or without an erection. I never come but I will empty at least an eighth of a cup of pre cum. I can drench the bed. So much so that when I do this usually when I travel I take a satin pillowcase to lay on. I then take it home with me rather than drenching a hotel bed.

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All I can say is WOW!!!!! I have been curious about prostate massage and the orgasms that can be attained from it. I finally bought my self the SGX a month ago and after several disappointing attmepts I was finally able to achieve orgasm!!!!!!!

WOW!!! First my legs started to quiver and shake and then my butt cheeks clinched up so much that just the "bearing" down naturally pushed the Aneros inot my prostatte and then my uncontrolable breathing and the wonderful sensation that startting shooting through my entire body ion waves!!!!!!
OMG!!!!! Wonder what the real thing feels like!!!!!! Next thing I new I was having a complete and blissful "wet" orgasm to go along with my "dry orgasm that was moving throughout my body!!!!

How wonderful!!!!!! I never knew that it could be so wonderful!!!!!!!! I am getting ready for another sestion right now!!!!! I

I just had to let everyone know!!!!!!! 😀 8) 😉


   
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Imabeleiver,

As the Carney barker might have said “Yessiree, ladies and gentleman, there goes another satisfied customer, who’ll step up and be the next in line to take the ride of your life…”
Congratulations, on such quick success, may many more exciting rides come your way.


   
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Hey Geist.

What you describe is orgasm without stimulation and I am familiar with it for some time. I think this is one of the best orgasms you can have . You should feel unique about this experience =).

I found that body can have this kind of orgasm long time a go doing similar things arousing myself then trying to keep momentum going in to the orgasm. Eventually I came to set of things you need in order to have this type of O'.

When trying to have this type of orgasm it is important to understand that your body needs some kind of stimulation and it sort of needs to start off with something, when you try inducing it you are likely to get some small contractions or often some will to do contractions in different parts of your body. It is unwise to ignore them since they are leading to the pleasure. So monitor your body and respond to sensations at some point you will feel contractions gain power and no longer need your attention. Great way to lift you off the ground is to feel sexy about your own body this will most of the time get you going. You will eventually drift off in to pleasure, but remember that if you force it you loose it so be easy on yourself. Once you get familiar and can get going time you need to reach orgasmic state decreases and you can easily remain there for as long as you wish. Then you explore moving the pleasure around the body making it more intense, trying different positions.
I even tried walking witch is hard to do when you are orgasming. =)

Hope this helps.

While as I many times said like aneros and enjoy sensations it provides I discovered this type of orgasm well before I started using aneros, so even if you never used aneros it is in reach.


   
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First of all thank you hlaser! It's certainly an amazing and beautiful, ongoing journey.

Great post BoP. It certainly was unique, what with the seeing colours and all! I haven't tried to reproduce this experience since my initial post, as, at least in my case, I think it really requires me to be in a certain state of 'want', which is kind of hard to accurately describe.

But it's amazing to feel your body respond so strongly just from mental concentration, without the Aneros or any bodily stimulation.

I've also noticed that I can 'sense' my prostate. Without applying any tension or contraction I am able to control these deep internal movements to build up to very warm and glowing p-waves / mini-o's.

The only frustration I have is in trying to explain what I mean!


   
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Congratulations Geist!

That capacity to physically contact the prostate with mental desire/intention only is IMHO a key skill learned with the Aneros training wheels, and now, more and more, you can ride anywhere anytime, as you further other rewiring. Do you also experience any spontaneous Day-After Effects? Energy orgasms from mini-Os on up just popping up for you unbidden? You may find they will happen too!

Do you think you can extend the same skill to your perineum, anus, testicles? Relax into it and you never know. The great thing is that you've arrived at the central point for takeoff! And it works!

all the best on this step, and your next steps along the way

artform


   
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Thanks artform! Indeed I owe it all to the Aneros. It has absolutely been the best purchase I have ever made.

I am finding now that I can hone in on and sense certain areas of activity. I think I have a way to go before I truly am able to isolate them and achieve orgasm from just specific points, but I'm absolutely loving the journey!

Spontaneous day-after effects are on a daily basis really. No orgasms out of the blue, but I feel like I could get into a state of bliss in almost an instant. If I sit still I can sense all the internal sensations going on and conjure pre-orgasmic states very easily. It's like I've become attuned to the deep internal movements of that whole area involving the prostate, perineum, balls and so on. Wonderful.

I have to say that my goal now has become to experience a true hands-free ejaculation just from mental concentration. I'm very confident that I can eventually achieve this, and really looking forward to all the further self-discovery that will come along the way.


   
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