Wife's help

Originally Posted By: gell
How did you get your wife to help you with the Aneros? Mine likes what happens, but is still reluctant to help

WOW!!! I guess I'm pretty lucky. I showed the ad and information to my G/F and she asked me to order it! I think she's looking forward to it as much as I an. I'll let y'all know how things go after the maiden voyage!!! LOL

Originally Posted By: gell
How did you get your wife to help you with the Aneros? Mine likes what happens, but is still reluctant to help

I think you could start by showing her this site and then talking about what you would like her to do and why. Be sure to give her good feedback when she does something you enjoy. Try asking her to lube and insert the Aneros and to gently milk your cock as you perform the contractions or give you a blow job (mine won't) with it in you anus. Again, giving her positive feedback (moans, noises and sexy comments) will let her know how much you appreciate what she is doing. Anothe rgood site for information and comments by real people is www.joanelloyd.com.

You could also introduce her to anal stimulation if you haven't already. You might have to go about it slowly and use plenty of really good lube (Probe or Maximus). My wife was very hesitant about anal play, but I eased her into it by gently touching her anus while giving her oral sex. I then progressed to lubing it and GENTLY inserting my middle finger in her anus while my index finger was in her pussy and I was licking her. She was surprised to find out that she actually enjoys anal stimulation to the point that she now asks for it while I go down on her.

An amazing side benefit of this anal play was that I found out that as she climaxed from the oral sex, her pussy spasmed , but her anus relaxed! This led to inserting other, larger sex toys and eventually to actual full penetration anal intercourse. My very favorite sex now is anal sex with the Aneros in my anus with her reaching back and massaging my balls while I slowly thrust into her anus until I explode.

We had tried many anal sex many times in the past, but until I found out how her anus relaxed during her orgasms, we were never sucsessful. She is still surprised that she can accept my whole cock in her anus and that she even enjoys the different feelings it produces for her. Good luck and let us know how she reacts. Maybe get her to post here. Knowledge helps everyone.