Nearly every time after we are intimate she ask if I am "still using those toys" (referring to aneros).
And when I ask her why she asks, she replies "I dunno, just asking".
I can't figgure out why she asks.
Thoughts?
My wife asks the same sometimes after sex or a handjob, asks if I still masturbate.. of course Ido does she think sex or an orgasm once a week is enough? Not even close. . Of Course I Still masturbate
My wife wants to know so she can say "well done". We are older so sometimes it is easier for us to enjoy ourselves if we can't sleep or just feel like it! We use iCal and either enter Rabbits or Pandas. Then talk about it. It is her feeling that for our health and wholeness sake (lively longevity) it is important to keep the sexual energy flowing and the base chakra and second chakra energised, and the kundalini rush over the back and head from time to time if possible. It a bit annoying as now a days she actually orgasms more than me.i
PS We still have intimacy 🙂
Come to think about it it took time to get to this point. When couples marry or partner, they each bring with them the (hidden) sexual practices or lack thereof. Then when they discover that the other is different they throw a wobbly. Not sure about now a days but in the past girls were actively discouraged through ignorance and fear to deny their sexuality, boys were treated similarly but the testosterone flush was too strong to deny. The upbringing, ignorance, fear, disapproval have devastating flow on effects.
We had this mismatch for a while, my wife thinking she was unattractive, but always available and me just wanting to an easy release from time to time. She came to understand that I was different because that what makes males! I am glad because, as above, she orgasms more than me and I have understanding and encourage her. It would have been great if in the early days she encouraged me to masturbate and cheered from the sidelines, it would have really helped be get over my hangups!
My wife tells me to go "play" when she's not feeling sexy or feeling a little ill; she demands I have regular, mostly daily orgasms/ejaculations because she knows it helps me stay healthy and mentally stable. She also wants me to use my prostate toys and even asks if I'll put one in when we're going to have sex. It makes me bigger and harder and she gets off hard on seeing me cum super hard when I TO with a toy in me. I get her off no problem, she's a natural 20+ orgasms a night girl, so to return the favor, she says I need to get off as hard as she does
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