Why isn't this common knowledge?

all I can say is: awesome. thanks for sharing your experience

Nice story. It was really a great read. 😀

It's a bit depressing how secretive we are when it comes to stuff like this. But the reasons are clear. That perceived stigma--the one that tells us that guys shouldn't stick things up their butts because that's gay and being gay is bad--is quite strong at this point in time. It's kind of the ultimate taboo for guys sexually. Even scat porn seems to have more "mainstream" acceptance with guys than prostate massage (at least, from my perspective.) I'm hoping that as our society progresses more in its outlooks on sexuality, then perhaps we can share our outlooks on anal pleasure more freely without fear of losing respect or having it be shied away from.

In the meantime, it seems like people are more likely to be receptive to this kind of thing if you approach them one-on-one. In theory, it's important to seem sane and not like some brainwashed cult member when it comes to the Aneros, while still communicating the massive potential the device purportedly has. (I say purportedly because I myself haven't experienced a super-O, but I'm confident it will come eventually... get it? Come? Ahahahahah--yeah. You get the point.) Some people are more ready for it than others. We have to be brave and be smart in order to spread the wealth!

Great thread... I agree with you Shadow. If more people knew about this, I believe, there would be less wars, less crime, etc :)... My viewpoint is that these things emerge mainly from sexual frustration of individuals (and there is evidence in history if you examine it)... So Aneros for every man! 🙂

What a great story. It sounds like you've really mastered the aneros. I'm gonna have to try the two chair technique. I've always had difficulty getting into a relaxing position that doesn't interfere with the movement of the device. Usually just laying on the back is the most comfortable, but sometimes I doze off and that doesn't work. I got the progasm as my first one too. At least it's not as big as some of those huge dildos, but the shape can make it a little tricky to insert. But the locking feeling is really cool. I've had it fall out a couple of times too and have heard others say the same. Not sure what it is about the progasm that does that, because it seems like that doesn't happen as much with the other models. I'm also wondering if the thickness slows its gliding down. Someone on these forums said that the more experienced they got the smaller model they used - the opposite of most anal toys.

Anyway, I think people don't talk about it so much because of the stigma you mentioned, but also, especially here in the U.S. our puritan background still has power over us. Even though sex seems to be everywhere these days, people still seem to have this ingrained guilt about enjoying extreme pleasure without shame or embarrassment. Even sexually adventurous people sometimes feel like they can't share what is a natural and good experience without being judged as a perv. It's odd that the most pleasurable and common activity that pretty much everyone does, one of the few things besides eating and sleeping that we all like to do, no matter how different we are otherwise, is like this big secret that's only really talked about as a joke or even worse, as something negative. I think things are changing though thanks to the internet. I've started casually mentioning it to a small number of people who seem open-minded enough and who might be interested. It almost feels selfish not to share something so incredible.

To respond to my original post.

It's been 8 months since I made that first post, this is my second ever post. I am now engaged to the girlfriend/fiance. My super orgasms have continued unabated for these 8 months, and I'd say they have just gotten stronger and stronger. My prostate is horny pretty much all the time, I am always in a state of pleasure from my prostate, at all times. Even with the Aneros NOT in, If I focus on my prostate for a moment or two, I can start to give myself mini-orgasms. I can do this at will anytime I want.

The other day I experienced an hour long super-orgasm that just left me mentally and physically exhausted. I use the Aneros every night when my fiance is bartending for about an hour and a half, and I use it until she gets home, then we have sex. So about three or four nights a week I have uninterrupted pure pleasure for about two hours. I'm the happiest man on Earth, this thing is just absolutely the most incredibly awesome purchase I've ever made in my life.

I purchased a smaller Aneros and it was a total upgrade. It slides better and works much better. I don't use the Progasm anymore, it's not nearly as good for me. Anyway, just wanted to let everyone know that 8 months on, It's only gotten better and better. I'm going to use it in a little while.

Shadow,

YAY!!!!!!!!!!!

So fantastic. I'm in complete agreement with you. I too have become quite orgasmic with and without my Helix or Eupho. And sex with my wife is crazy great. Keep up exploring.

Brian

With reference to the stigma, I think we'll eventually get over it. Getting past traditional taboos are part of progress and it seems to happen inevitably.

I understand the question though as I too feel like I want to talk about it but can't quite yet.

I can totally relate Shadow. I was very angry at the world after finding all of this out. It made me feel like a great secret was kept from me. It is a wonderful thing that all men should at least try!

I wasn't going to order one and have a big gay box come in the mail

Ha! That's so funny. You're a good writer. Glad you had a great experience! I agree, a great product! Does the job.

I too want to share especially with an older brother who is having ed and bph issues but can't quite open my mouth to him yet. There are great threads on explaining it to our partners what about our siblings, parents (yeah he is 90 but HE has NO ed issues!) and even our sons?

Shadow,

Great posts! That's awesome what you are experiencing! Thank you for sharing. I haven't learned to super-O yet even after five years of use. But I'm getting there slow and steady. And the pleasure sure is something else even without having some sort of dry-O or beyond.

LOL@ass-horny Only because I now totally understand this concept! LOL

You can spread the word if you want like I tried doing and watch all the name calling/accusations begin. The truth is our society is f***ed in the head when it comes towards anything sexual. You either end up being accused of sexual harassment or it's something we only talk about in private behind closed doors. This has been the notion in the USA for a long time. It's time I move to Europe 😛 :D. J/K Honestly, just enjoy the pleasure that you can have and realize you got a BIG SECRET that I'm sure every guy wished they knew about. It is a shame for sure that this is not more common knowledge.
>:)

Hello, ArcticWolves.

Of course most men don't know about Aneros and that includes gay men. You have put your finger on the reason: Sex isn't discussed much in polite company, which makes spreading the word a real challenge. Somewhere in this forum there's a thread containing ideas on how to do it. A practical start is to tell a few close friends or relatives about the health benefits and point them to the HIH website. If they pick up a massager for health reasons, they'll figure out the pleasure side of it for themselves.

Best Regards,

Dave

Guys,

It is our privilege to be the avant garde group for the advancement of male sexuality, it would behoove us all to take advantage of any and all opportunities of "Ideas for Spreading the Word..." . If you have an idea, why don't you add it to this thread and then implement any of those ideas you are capable of doing?
Good Vibes to You !

This "word spreading" idea has been haunting me for ages. I have lots of friends.. and three sons, all of whom I would love to explain the Aneros to. I can't. I fantisze going to the pub and and at some appropriate time make some comment about the Aneros. Something like "Well lads I'm off. Must get back for an Aneros session!" "A what?" "An Aneros session. Surely you know what that is. Don't tell me you've never heard of the great sex it creates!" "Actually I have it here. Look!" And I take it out and put it on the table. They say "What the f**k is that for?" I say "Well you lube your ass up and slide that in and lie down and..." Chorus; "You are revolting, disgusting filthy degrading repulsive and you can take that THING with you and never come back. Yuck!" Oh well I tried!!!!Real shame though as I know many of them would really secretly love to try it.
:-))

^ Who knows? Maybe they already know. 🙂 Wouldn't that be a hoot? LOL

I am enjoying this new found pleasure so much , how to tell the wife ? She loves me to stimulate her anally when she is in the zone (which I now have found in me !) but its a one way thing. By her reckoning its my pleasure not hers but her arousal says otherwise
=;
This website has made me (49 hetro and married 27 years) have the confidence to go into a shop (models itself on the open minded women) , and discuss with an attractive mid thirties assistant the advantages of prostate massage with extras . I still mumbled a bit though as I was always going to buy a Progasm not a vibrator lol !!
I feel like telling everyone !! Not as easy as it sounds , I don't want it to be a dirty secret , I am enjoying the inner me and I can honestly say I feel no need to have totally unsatisfying crap wanks anymore . I will savor my
manual pleasure and look forward to it not as a cock wrenching disappointment addiction . Happy days all
Cheers Webbo

02 18 2014 at present - Thanx shadow for being real. You're doing what will be a BIG part of change - Sex Positivity is paramount in tearing down or stomping the stigma .
By NOT giving narrow minded mouth words any head_space. There will little or NO face time , ignorance will diminish & knowledge will STOP the noise ! Your lie share start around or was posted in March 2011 & it's nearly March 2014. No doubt there's as many ANEROS users that are experiencing similar interludes as you've courageously shared . Power of example does an ANEROS user good .

Hi Shadow,

That was a good post. I need to try out that chair thing. 😀


I would argue that today's focus in the media is very much in female pleasure. Just think about all those everyday articles about "how to give your woman better orgasms" etc. Now there's of course nothing wrong with that, but I noticed that many times the male orgasm was ignored as "less complicated, that just occurs, so no need to give it too much consideration", often also underlining that women can have multiple orgasms and men can't. I even once encountered a sex book, which seemingly argued that men's sexuality is inferior to women's and therefore, men's purpose sexually should be to serve women. Basically no article ever talks about male prostate orgasms or that men can enjoy minutes of pleasure, and different types of orgasms.


I had my first super O last year. That opened a new world to me.


When it comes to male ejaculatory orgasm, it's the only orgasm that creates life. My girlfriend said to me that she is jealous of men, who can have mind-blowing orgasms unlike women. She's multiorgasmic, so it's a strong statement from her, and I have seen her moan and her heavens open. But we're all different and wonder whether others have something that we don't.


I can't think of any woman that I've had enjoy an electrifying full body orgasm that lasts for many minutes (but many men never experience this as they don't know about it or despise the idea of stimulating their anus). I've had super O's in normal sex with my partner, which was ultimately great. Yet again not lately, but I think it's because I haven't used my Aneros in a while (I always use Aneros solo, not with my partner). I think I got "lazy" when I was having super O's without Aneros, so I didn't use it, I also got pretty busy with work. I believe that Aneros keeps the body sensitive, which is one of the keys to Super O's. Need to get back to Aneros use again and get my super O's back, although it's good to just lay back and enjoy normal ones too. I guess Rumel said it in here, that it's the choice that we have, that makes us rich.

@Electrified --- Awesome statement on our experiences with MMO's! I feel so fortunate to have learned how to use my Aneros successfully! Just incredible!

TG

@shadow how do you use the device now? do you contract or just let it do its thing. I'm 4 years of trying here and need to try something new!

Whats your routine of using the device and what positions do you adopt etc?

I hear aneros mentioned on a variety of sex positive podcasts. And this forum gets high praise, when mentioned. I too had little success developing any interest taking with select family & friends. I covered the basics, then waited for any return to the topic, including my BPH issues....nope. Generally sex positive discussions aren't happening, so I'll suggest those podcasts and let them do the work. Thank you to Dan Savage, Ruby Ryder, Sex Nerd Sandra, life on the swingset, Tristan Taormino, for leading the charge, and for pointing their listeners to many great resources including us. I'm always on the hunt for new podcasts, any suggestions?

I kind of feel like Neo in the Matrix. Always looking for something, we dont know what it is, but something we always knew was there LOL. Unfortunately noone can be told of the aneros, they must find it on their own. =))

I kind of feel like Neo in the Matrix. Always looking for something, we dont know what it is, but something we always knew was there LOL. Unfortunately noone can be told of the aneros, they must find it on their own. =))

Which pill do you take?

TG

Well said, ineverknew! I agree with you 110%!

I take the red pill. (OK. It's erythromycin, but it is red.)