Where are you on your quest for pleasure Rewireing "Milestone list"

I have a similar question: does rewiring end, or is it an ongoing process?

FWIW, I don't think I followed the Milestones very well at all!

I'm sure that even after just over three years into my journey, I certainly haven't experienced the final couple of milestones yet and I have clearly missed several of the steps along the way. Maybe I have yet to experience some or all of those just to add spice and variety to my Aneros journey.

Dingus: from my experience, the answer is a resounding YES! I can't help feeling that if it had been 'no', that would remove some of the joy of the whole thing!

Pommie

@ Pommie Did you read the top bit it says basically some people miss bits. 🙂

braveneworld,Yes I did. I was simply emphasising the point but adding that maybe one can pick some of them later.

If I were to relate to the list, I'd say I'm at: "Very significant pleasure during sessions".
The next one up is "Moaning during sessions" and I don't do that, not unless I'm trying it out intentionally to heat things up. Or if I were to skip that, I could be at "Surprise attack of very serious pleasure", but the very serious pleasure in my case only lasts around 1 second, so I don't know if I could call it an attack.
It's pretty amazing to know that level of intensity exists though, even if I can't sustain it. :/

After 2 years, I am pretty sure I am up to the "Aneros moving in long strokes (auto-f***), creating intense pleasure" milestone - although there are a few along the route that don't much apply to me - in particular the "rock hard erection" one occurs only occasionally and for no apparent reason that I can replicate, or indeed have any desire to do so. As others have commented, I often feel as though it is hard, but when I look I see it is still quite flaccid. I may well be further along on that list than I am currently able to perceive. I quite often only know that I have reached a milestone, some time after I actually did, and it is only looking backwards in a period of reflection that I am able to see what was actually happening.

Clenchy - I habitually moan in sex, or whilst wanking - and so that was one of the earliest and most readily identifiable milestones for me. With me, the moaning is all about letting go, and expressing how you feel vocally. In sex, this is a valuable audible clue to your partner that they are doing something you very much like. I have to make sure all the windows and doors are shut though, or else the neighbours might think I'd had a terrible accident or something. lol My dry orgasms currently last 3 to 5 seconds, but are frequently repeated, one often flowing into the next. I suspect that yours are the beginnings of dry orgasms, based in my experience so far. I also get quite a few dry orgasms anerosless these days - with nipple stimulation, and infrequent ejaculations (but lots of touching wanking or non-ejaculatory sex to build arousal) being the key.


The list is superb as an occasional reference, so long as you realise that it is a list of cumulatively observed milestones from many people, and not a list that can be applied to any one person. Being too obsessed with reaching the next milestone, could be negative however, because you start to develop expectations about this. It is better to just enjoy the moment, and afterwards reflect on how it went, rather than to think - right - what's on the list for this week?


Good luck guys - and savour all these fruits that come from the interaction of the aneros, your body and your mind.

Don't know what happened there - 2 posts for the price of one. Spontaneous replication - a miracle of the internet!