What to concentrate on during p-waves to start orgaam?

Try focusing upon your awakening prostate from which your p-waves originate. Also try focusing upon other areas of your body which feel pleasurable during and after sessions.

You may want to stimulate the various erogenous zones of you body. Many guys find that their nipples and navel are hardwired to the prostate. Explore touching and tweaking lightly your nipples and their aureoles. Stimulate your beasts, chest, abs, and pubes. See what happens. Exult in the pleasure they elicit. You will find that such stimulation will "energize" your prostate and even your whole groin.

Also as you have Aneros sessions, experiment with deep, slow, rhythmic breathing. Do the same thing outside of sessions.

Explore the "verge of dry o's happening." Focus on that "verge" or "edge" in yourself. You may find that as you do this, it may remind you of "edging" which experienced masturbators do in staving off orgasm and ejaculation, but then cumming BIG eventually.

Good luck!

Are you concentrating too much on the fantasy?? When I first started I found that a sexual fantasy pushed me over the edge, but recently it's done nothing but take my concentration away from the orgasm building. What is working for me at the moment is really concentrating on the point of pleasure in the prostate, and feeling energy drawn in through my anus and up to the prostate as I breathe in. Next week it will be something else I'm sure. I keep learning new things and new techniques as I read them on here. Breath of fire has given me some success recently, and so has manual pressure on the P spot.

As you say over-thinking is a big killer, you just have to go with it and not get too disappointed.

One thing that is totally elusive is the 'key' to always being able to slip over into an orgasm it varies from day to day for me at least. As you can tell I'm still a beginner and experimenting and certainly don't succeed every time still.

On this topic, the wiki is maddeningly unhelpful, but for understandable reasons. It dodges specific advice because it's a very personal process. That said, I'll share what got me going.


I realized that the constant "fizz" I felt inside was the aneros sliding along my internal surfaces. My anus felt the ridges at the stem of the MGX moving, and I figured out the MGX was gliding in and out. The motion was completely involuntary, and I'd have never noticed it if I wasn't being perfectly still for many minutes at a time.


It moved an imperceptibly small distance, perhaps a few millimeters, over a very long period, perhaps forty seconds. It made a very slow glide out, paused a moment, a very slow glide in, paused a moment, started another slow glide out, then ZING!...I got a small burst of sensation. This repeated relentlessly. The burst was minutely amplified on each stroke, and turned into my waves.


Getting back to the question asked, I focused on the aneros's in-out motion my body was causing. I knew each stroke would bring a little ZING, but also knew I could do nothing to accelerate its arrival. It was, at the same time, a calming reassurance and a vicious tease. It gave my mind a definite thing to examine instead of wandering, and kept my arousal up by giving it something to anticipate.

Had a another session last night and "prepped" by looking at some porn and pictures of hot women beforehand. After I inserted the aneros I just closed my eyes and concentrated on the feelings in the prostate and ass. I was on my back knees bent with a towel underneath my back. Nothing happened. I turned on my side with a one leg bent and one straight. After about 15 minutes I started to get p-waves. They got stronger and stronger as I went on. It felt like electricity and tingling going through my body, and it would come and go. I used the do nothing approach. The longer I did this the longer the p-waves lasted. It seemed to go 5 minutes before subsiding for a few then starting back up. No orgasm feeling yet although like I said in the earlier post if feels like it could come on at any minute but it doesnt happen. Unfortunately after 2 hrs I shut the session down as I had to get some sleep for work. Can't wait to see if progesses more to a full orgasm. I'm guessing when it does happen it will be strong very strong.....

Had a another session last night and "prepped" by looking at some porn and pictures of hot women beforehand. After I inserted the aneros I just closed my eyes and concentrated on the feelings in the prostate and ass. I was on my back knees bent with a towel underneath my back. Nothing happened. I turned on my side with a one leg bent and one straight. After about 15 minutes I started to get p-waves. They got stronger and stronger as I went on. It felt like electricity and tingling going through my body, and it would come and go. I used the do nothing approach. The longer I did this the longer the p-waves lasted. It seemed to go 5 minutes before subsiding for a few then starting back up. No orgasm feeling yet although like I said in the earlier post if feels like it could come on at any minute but it doesnt happen. Unfortunately after 2 hrs I shut the session down as I had to get some sleep for work. Can't wait to see if progesses more to a full orgasm. I'm guessing when it does happen it will be strong very strong.....

and what if it doesn't progress at all? what if you have reached the limit at this point? i was at your stage once and thought the exact same things.

Well that would be mighty disappointing if it never progressed from here. Hopefully it does. The arousal gets very high and I'm trying different techniques such as masturbation abstinence, varying session length, and different type contractions, do nothing, etc to get results. I have come a long way in 7 months. At first I felt nothing at all, now I'm getting electric pwaves. We will see where the journey takes me. There is no reason to think at this point that the progress will stop. I seem to have plateaus when it comes to progress.

You are so close and by the sound of it and on the right track. It takes so much relaxation to fine tune these very weak p-waves into larger waves but they will eventually lead you to a super O. Good luck.

@inhope stop being so negative, he's doing fine and will succeed without any doubt.

Thanks for the encouragement guys. I can wait to post when the first dry o/super o happens.

@aneros_user113188 I really feel for anyone struggling with this and this forum is a wonderful place for getting some 'emotional' support if I'm allowed to say that, which is actually what is required. This whole thing is a really emotional experience just because it is can be so good, and so frustrating in many different ways. Please try to stay positive, go at your own pace, expect the unexpected, and view it as a continuous learning experience about yourself. I would hate to sound like some sort of expert on this I really am not but, as I said, having been at a real low myself when it just wasn't working I can feel for you. I will send you some positive vibes. Good luck.

@inhope stop being so negative, he's doing fine and will succeed without any doubt.

in the spirit of honesty: a user once said these exact words to me in the past. Someone wise. I wish i had listened, because the expectation was set so high that the only way i could go was down. Hope you understand.

Thanks for the encouragement guys. I can wait to post when the first dry o/super o happens.

i hope you get there, but don't put that pressure of expectation on yourself, just want you to be grounded and not end up a frustrated mess like me!

@aneros_user113188 --- Are your typical sessions about 2 hours? How often? Also, being well rested before a session seems to give better results!

TG

Inhope - I fully expect to get there. I know it may take a while, but eventually it will happen. Trying not to out too many expectations on myself.

Theme_gasm - my sessions usually run 1 1/2 - 2 hrs. I have been doing a lot of my sessions at night as its really the only time I have. Tired by that point in the day but for now that's the best I can do.

It's good to keep a positive outlook and belief, I'm sure it will help as you progress. For me though it placed too much expectation and it slowed my progress. All I am saying remain positive, of course, but don't overlook where you are now.