What Next?-gctid9064

A lot of members here say the Helix classic is a good all rounder. I'm definitely an advocate of this model. It's the only one I've ever used and it does the job for me.

Wow, 18 and an aneros user. You are probably the youngest here.

I bought a helix syn and love it. It took a couple months of use but I have begun to make significant progress in just the last two weeks. It seems once the changes started, they are rolling quickly. I often feel PWaves throughout the day. You need a device that massages your prostate, not necessarily one that will fill you up.

Good luck

@Ihido --- How tall are you? If you're around 5'6" the SGX was designed for that height. If you're taller, then any of the Aneros are ok to choose! After buying the Helix Syn, I got a Progasm because I wanted one that was larger, and likely more aggressive, to awaken my prostate and anal musculature...I wasn't disappointed and had my first Super O as a result! I was also having sessions as often as possible...every day if I could manage it! I even rode one of my Aneros when I went out during the day! The awakening of your prostate is a key component. As it becomes more awake, you can feel it reacting sooner and during the day you are likely to feel more sensitivity in that region! Congrats on starting your journey early in life...you'll be glad you did once things start coming alive for you! I don't prefer the Syn versions because I wanted my prostate and muscles to react to the Aneros...and that helped me to focus on relaxing because of how "not soft" it was...if that makes sense! Read the Wiki top to bottom if you haven't already, and reread it again! It's got all the ingredients to help you!

TG

@Ihido ... Just a shot in the dark : you seem a bit too young, too eager and too focused on the toy(s).

Refining the mindset is the key, not buying another device.

Buy more when you have sucess already.
There is no point in buying all the finest wines if you can't taste them.

Thanks everyone for the response.

@Mattp: Haha, yes I have gotten the feeling that I'm a little young. Though I believe I did see a post from someone my age a couple months ago.... I'll consider the Helix.

@Theme_Gasm: I'm 5'10", so no height issue for me! And yes I see what you mean by liking the hardness... Perhaps. I think I will get the progasm if they have it. It's nice to know someone did have a Super O from switching toys, as that's kind of what I'm after.

@Canacan: That's not an entirely inaccurate description of me. I'm already pretty sure my most significant block is mental... I'm entirely too goal oriented which is something I can't seem to escape. I'm entirely goal oriented in my real life as well so the transition is incredibly challenging for me, and a lot of times I doubt that I'll ever get that right. But at the same time, I'm hoping that maybe I already have it mostly down and just need a kick by something new or maybe a different toy will facilitate the process somehow. Anything that will make the journey at all easier would be worth it, which is why I'm thinking about getting something else.

@Ihido --- As you said, it's a total mindset thing...Your new goal is to relax and focus on every little sensation coming from your prostate! The littlest sensations can turn into great big ones! Having had a calm seas orgasm is excellent!!! Total relaxation, clear your mind of any goal seeking...and let the sensations come to you!

TG

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I've seen it mentioned elsewhere, to lube up, insert and take a nap. I can see how this might help, because when you are asleep, you are not mentally blocking and you'll relax. You just might wake up in a better place than when you went to sleep..

I have awoke in the morning with my helix syn stroking my prostate to life. A great feeling. Let us know what you end up buying

Thanks for the advice guys. I have tried sleeping with the MGX in, but all that came out of it was waking up in the middle of the night feeling very uncomfortable, unfortunately. Maybe I'll try it again someday.

@Ihido,Sleeping with an Aneros massager inside you is not recommended and I recall reading from the top guru on Aneros subjects, @BMayfield, giving advice to that effect.

FWIW, I did find that probably the greatest progress I made was in the days (nights) when I began using the HIH Peristal, aka Peridise models. (These I used for the relief of haemorrhoids and for that purpose, the HIH company does recommend that they be left in overnight).

At first, I found that I could sleep for upwards of nine hours with one of this little babes inside me. Now that I have (I believe), become rewired to some extent, I can't sleep for more than a couple of hours with any Aneros tool inside me.

I guess what I am saying is that if you plan to use any tool overnight, let it be a Peridise and good luck. May you haemorrhoids be small!

You have all the tools except patience. You are so young and so close...remember this is a journey, sit back and enjoy the trip. If something feels good slow down and get to know it, caress it and coax it along gently. It will all fall into place and you will sit back one day and say holy fuck what was that.

They call riding because when you get on a wave you have all the tools to stay on top of the wave and you never care how long it lasts because there is another wave coming along right behind.

Yeah, I know I lack patience... I just don't know how to develop that. Thanks.

Society today is not geared for delayed gratification and breeds short attention spans. Everything is now, and how fast can I get it NOW. Just look at any modern movie, the scenes are not longer than 2-3 minutes and your cut to another scene, and flipped back and forth scene to scene to scene. Compare that to a classic like Casablanca, were scenes can run 15-20 minutes.

This is not an indictment of you in particular, it is just the way it is.

I'm actually looking at some njoy products (on order, hurry up USPS, I want them NOW!) that are ok for longer term usage. Will let you know how those go....

I'm so completely rewired, I can lie here anerosless with waves of
pleasure sweeping my whole body, and tingles of spasm twitching down my
thigh and up my back. Is this the official "super o"?

Alternatively,
I can take in a helix, and after hours of pleasure, let myself go into
anal spasms which draw the helix in and out spontaneously, ending nearly
always, in an intense prolonged HFO. Fucking fantastic. But I'm told a
super o doesn't end in the cum thing. Sure feels super to me.

Which is it?

What is HFO?

Huge fucking orgasm?

@Mattp Thanks !

@awired50 --- Hands free wet orgasm! Ejaculation without touching your penis!

@WallyBanger --- I wouldn't get hung up AT ALL on whether you should or shouldn't! Fact of the matter is...you're have the orgasms and pleasure of your life...enjoy!

Orgasm On!

TG

I agree wholeheartedly with @MostInteresting!

Pity us old codgers. We slow down with age so that we can go with the ride for two hours or more, just taking in the pleasure for minute after minute for what seems like forever. We simply loose track of time. What bliss! I guess we do have the odd orgasm on the way, but who cares?

@Theme_Gasm Thank you !