What is your feeling?

Posted by: @alanross

I've never heard of a prostate orgasm before.

If you Google the term you'll get about 48,900,000 results but what is strange is that most men will never get to experience the exquisite pleasure of this type of orgasm. Welcome to your learning center and I ask you to read through and follow the links in the Introductory Message to New Members.

Posted by: @alanross

I probably spent an hour last night using my device. I never felt it make a difference.

Initial sessions with a prostate massager for newbies are often felt to be uneventful because your prostate is not yet awakened. This awakening takes time to occur so you will need to be patient.

Posted by: @alanross

Do you constantly contract and release?

As @clenchy noted that is one of numerous approaches and a good place to start developing your own technique. Please read through @b-mayfield 's thread B's Keys and B's Best for suggested introductory techniques and information.

Posted by: @alanross

There might have been a cramp where my bladder is. My prostate, however, was never touched by it. How can you tell if your prostate is touched?

What you felt may have been a cramp was more likely an initial indication that your Aneros was in fact contacting your prostate. A more frequently reported signal is a feeling like an urge to urinate which will soon pass as you become more accustomed to the massage action. You've just begun a unique journey of learning and it will behoove you to do the reading I've pointed you towards.

Good Vibes to You!

Posted by: @alanross

Do you constantly contract and release?

No,you do not. Any contractions should be delicate. Holding tension in your pelvic floor is much more important.