What are the similarities between the male prostate orgasm vs the female orgasm

@Orgasmic19, as I learned from my journey both genders are more similar than I ever thought.

Barbara Carrellas, author of "Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex For The 21st Century", is on the same page having ...

"... done years of work with men, women, and those who are something else entirely, ..."

... making her ...

"... more and more convinced that "male" and "female" genitals and sexuality are a lot more alike than they are different."

She further explains:

"We are all earthlings whose penises and vaginas came from exactly the same type of fetal tissue. This is why, in addition to penises and vaginas, we also have a wide spectrum of intersex genitals, which medical science is only now slowly coming to accept as 'normal'."

I can only recommend this book to everyone regardless of gender, btw thanks a lot, @Unfug, for your hint. Even the first chapters achieved to arouse me and, all the same, made me shed some tears. The most I feel deeply grateful to Barbara Carrellas for widening my horizons. After all her vivid writing is easy to read as she is revealing her deep knowledge in a coherent and authentic way. On the first pages you join her lap dance performance and get to know that nothing sexual is alien to her. Go and get your own copy! I can't imagine you will regret it, I already love it.

Best vibes!

Hey @Orgasmic19,

I'm on the same page with@SOwithoutAneros. The sexual way you are about to explore is not just similar, it is female sexuality in all it's glory. Bear in mind, that female orgasms cover a wide range, from pretty underwhelming up to "omg-I'm-in-space" and even further to "am-I-still-alive-or-dead-and-in-heaven?". If you ever peeked into a sex-guidbook or even a womans magazine, you might have a feeling for all the pitfalls and frustration modern woman encounter when they try to reach orgasmic heights. So jeah, all these perks and problems apply to you now as well.

Also: you may read this article about how women and men share the same sexual qualities.

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@SOwithoutAneros

I am very happy you got yourself a copy without hesitation. I don't know how to put it (it sounds silly to me), but sometimes I think I can actually feel all your enthusiasm and curiosity right in my heart. There is so much to learn that it can feel back-breaking at times. But everytime I read your posts it seems, that you are making giant leaps with ease. 🙂 You may keep us posted, when you reach the good stuff (like breathing orgasms and the clench-and-hold).

Cheers, Unfug

That is very interesting because I read some where the male glans is made up of the same tissue as the female clitoris, but I could be wrong

@Unfug, I enjoyed every word of your comment, cause there is such a pleasant feeling of warmth and understanding they give me. What you wrote about your feelings does not at all sound silly to me.

As a Trekkie and an avid fan of these science fiction series reading your comment reminded me of an episode of "Deep Space Nine", don't laugh! I'm not kidding, there often is much wisdom in those scientific tales. In that episode, I refer to, the shapeshifter/"changeling" "Odo", as an orphant not knowing his home planet, gets in first contact with his own species. By literally melting into "The Great Link", one big fluent mass of souls, he is unified with the collectivity of his species in thoughts, feelings and body.

"When you return to The Link, what will become of the entity I'm talking to right now?
The drop becomes the ocean.
And if you choose to take solid form again?
The ocean becomes a drop."

Sometimes I already feel to come near to the edge of something similar. And just when searching for the right words, believe it or not, for some seconds I just felt like melting into such a fluidness. Typing this it happened again some seconds longer and a little more intense, like touching a kind of liquid bliss surrounding me. At the same time my feelings were resembling crying like a child embraced in the arms of its mom. Getting teary-eyed I began to breathe jerkingly and sensed vibes from my gland up my spine to my skullbase. Revising my just typed words a childhood memory came to my mind of feeling lost in crying not willing to give up sobbing while detecting something desirable in it. The idiom "to sob oneself into sleep" may perhaps give an idea of what I try do describe.

Perhaps picturing myself as a child is nourished by the feeling of stumbling into something totally new, like watching a baby trying its first wary steps. I as well appreciate every little help to get on my feet and find my way, thanks again!

Sorry if it shortly seemed to become too off-topic, but doesn't this all only emphasize how petty the different transformations of our fetal tissues are? No matter whether vagina or penis, the drop becomes the ocean!

Good vibes! Have fun and take care!

I can't believe the male and female are so similar in a sexual way. It makes perfect sense and thanks for the article @Unfug and @SOwithoutAneros for your wisdom.

Zone 1: both the penis and clitoris are highly excitable organs that stimulate quickly, become engorged when aroused, and rapidly lead to frantic release.

Zone 2: both the male & female G-Spots are slow to arouse, giving deeper, longer-lasting pleasure.

Second is genital orgasm vs. full-body orgasm.

This is also typically a male vs. female phenomenon. All sensation focuses on the highly excitable penis for him, leading to orgasmic pleasure concentrated in that region. In contrast, her G-Spot stimulation sends deep waves of pleasure throughout her body, which, when they build to climax, she experiences as full-body orgasm. This distinction entirely disappears by stimulating organs of the same zone. She, like him, will have a more localized 'Zone 1' orgasm if her clit alone is stimulated. And he, like her, can enjoy full-body orgasm through Zone 2 G-Spot massage.

This answers all my questions.

I feel both male and female are orgasmic equals... the only limiting factor for either is their minds

Hey @SOwithoutAneros,

thank you for your kind words.

'm not kidding, there often is much wisdom in those scientific tales.

I know right? I once binge-watched all seasons of TNG in 3 weeks - good times. 🙂

By literally melting into "The Great Link", one big fluent mass of souls, he is unified with the collectivity of his species in thoughts, feelings and body.

Sometimes I already feel to come near to the edge of something similar. And just when searching for the right words, believe it or not, for some seconds I just felt like melting into such a fluidness.

I really like that image. You'll come accross a similar concept in the book - déjà-vu awaits you. 😎

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This answers all my questions.

Great! I'm glad I could help a bit.

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@brucemarkland

I feel both male and female are orgasmic equals... the only limiting factor for either is their minds

Very well put!

Cheers, Unfug
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