Wet orgasms only...what am I doing wrong?

I can now enjoy some great pleasure sensations from my sessions. I'm not able to enduce leaking, just long p waves, however I can't seem to move past this point without triggering a hands free traditional (and quite unsatisfying) "wet" orgasm. I ensure my penis is out of the way so there is no friction but for some reason my sessions end in a penile orgasm. My arousal is very high. I use tantric music and do breathing exercises but I just can't connect to the pleasure without activating my core muscles, which lead to the ejaculatory orgasms. Frustration is high now obviously and after taking a week break, my session today ended the traditional way.

Frustration is usually an arousal killer but in your case it may be driving you to achieve orgasm through traditional neural pathways instead of you directing yourself to explore and develop new pathways to orgasmic release. The solution may involve taking a more radical approach to your sessions as your current regime seems to have hit a wall. I suspect part of the problem is an insufficient level of relaxation, can you relax your way into orgasm? Please see @darwin 's post relax, relax, RELAX for some tips about this.

Additionally, here are a couple of threads which also might offer some help for your dilemma ->How to avoid ejaculation? & Avoiding ejaculation during orgasm?.
Good Vibes to You !

Thanks @rumel, appreciate your time.

@aneros_user107963 In the beginning I used to get HF TO’s.. And was in the same boat as you are.I figured out I was contracting too hard,forcing things.. But your only 6 mths in,let the rewiring thing go,don’t think about it,your likely thinking about too much stuff,and that’s tripping you up,not lack. of wiring,the brain is fast,it’s already set up for your prostate.. Bin the frustration off,frustration is an orgasm eater,and he’s hungry! Ok,so you say you get pleasure going,just kick back and enjoy it moment by moment,don’t look ahead to orgasm,or think you will,just be present,the orgasm will come.
For me,rewiring isn’t about getting used to something in your ass,or building a neural pathway in the brain,it’s learning to relax properly and enjoying things at your prostates pace,in the moment,feeling and listening for things we never really noticed before. You may not be a leaker,some leak a puddle,some,only a spot I’m told,just get focused on the pleasure and let the rest go,you’ll get there.

I’m not that experienced either but one thing you could try is to replace your negative thoughts with positive ones for example instead of saying to your self, uh oh I keep ejaculating this is a big problem. You could say this only a temporary problem and will find a way around it. Eventually that kind of thinking will be second nature to you and you don’t have to think about it anymore.