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07/03/2018 6:00 pm
My question, in a nutshell - does anybody ever begin a session with a traditional wank?
The reason that I ask this is linked my own experiences so far. In the past, before discovering anal play, I would start my masturbation sessions with a quick jerk off. As quickly as I could, racing towards a rushed ejaculation. I found this helped to relax me and put me in the right frame of mind for prolonged play. The initial tension released, I’d sit and browse on my phone for ten minutes or so before, invariably, I’d wander to browsing Tumblr for arousing pictures and GIFs. Before long, I’d have an erection again but always found the second round far more exciting. It required less mental work as I’d be able to feel much greater pleasure with only the mildest hints of sexual imagery. I’d often edge for a couple of hours before cumming again, just because I wanted to stay and enjoy the sexual pleasure.
Since starting experimenting with the Aneros, I’ve had mixed results. I had two dry O’s in my first session, then haven’t really had any major success since. However, twice now I’ve had fantastic a-less experiences immediately following a quick wank. Within a few minutes of reaching a conventional orgasm I’ve wandered back to sexual thoughts and, both times, reached a very high level of sexual arousal (vibrations all through my body, ringing in the ears, a very localised tightness around my prostate). The first time I had to stop because it got so intense that I lost all feeling in my arms and legs which alarmed me. The second time, I went with it but when it reached the same level of intensity, I think I began over thinking it and trying to force a climax. Both times I reached this level of pleasure simply by focusing on the sensations and both times I was easily able to manipulate the sensations to become stronger by controlling my breathing. I didn’t even have to think about it, it just came naturally.
For control purposes, I’ve tried to achieve the same results from a cold start of moderate arousal - the level that would usually be enough to spur the urge to slip away somewhere quiet and jerk off. Both times, I was able to identify sexual excitement and sensations in my groin, spreading into my arms and legs. But they never grew or developed because I found, like my Aneros sessions, I began over complicating it and trying to force myself to a higher state of arousal.
So, this is leading me to think that, if feeling of such intensity can be achieved a-less and shortly after ejaculating, what would be possible doing the same but with the Aneros in? I’m wonder if my previous routine of starting off by ejaculating as quickly as possible is now hard wired into me, causing my body to almost need it in order to relax enough for full arousal.
All of the advice here suggests not touching the penis during a session. Maybe that’s what my body is craving? The initial release of tension and sexual frustration, so that it can relax and enjoy the ride.
Anybody else ever tried this? Or think it would be a good idea to try when I have the alone time?
07/03/2018 6:13 pm
In my experience, Aneros works best for me when I am as arroused as possible, this precludes having a traditional penile orgasm just prior to an Aneros session, no matter how quick your refractory period. Of course we're all different, but still!
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07/03/2018 6:17 pm
Exactly why I’ve only tried Aneros sessions thus far after a period of abstinence. It’s only when I’ve really reflected that I’ve realised that I’m only ever highly aroused after a penile orgasm.
07/03/2018 6:43 pm
Exactly why I’ve only tried Aneros sessions thus far after a period of abstinence. It’s only when I’ve really reflected that I’ve realised that I’m only ever highly aroused after a penile orgasm.
How is this even possible? most guys would love to know the answer to this!
07/03/2018 7:50 pm
I totally agree with@birdives. If I’ve cum less than two days before a ride, I find the result very disappointing. The hornier I am the better the results. Full balls make for a happy prostate.
07/04/2018 5:02 am
My very best sessions lately occur when I am greatly aroused and start with a very firm erection. My sessions when I start out flaccid can be hit-or-miss! So my sessions almost always occur in the middle of the night, when I have NPTs.
07/04/2018 12:39 pm
I agree with @simeonh that full balls make for a happy prostate, but for me riding aneros with full balls will lead to a handsfree wet orgasm. The topic starters' technique might be useful, especially for those who experience the same 'problem' as me (being able to have handsfree wet orgasms with the aneros but no dry o's).
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07/04/2018 2:39 pm
@The_Fury maybe I should have emphasised that in my old wanking routine, the initial rushed ‘ejaculate as quickly as possible’ jerk was usually very underwhelming and unsatisfactory. It felt like the orgasm from this was almost whetting my appetite so that after a short break I’d be craving more. Not doing this first would lead to a session where horny thoughts would be competing in my mind with the frustrations, annoyances and irritations of the day - unless it was first thing in the morning, I’d never really feel properly into it and I’d usually get to a point of “just get this over with”. Having that initial release stops focus and concentration from even being an issue. I’m just into it and want it to last as long as I can stand.
07/05/2018 12:00 pm
There's a great place for @craiglo's approach. When I'm on travel, tired from the PSA/luggage/rental-car/room reservation hassle, it's good to produce a good hard-on and get the essential body parts settled in to God's (or Dame nature's) design. Once I've checked that out it's, "pleasure time." Slow, deliberate, gradual and I avoid Premature Ejac.
07/06/2018 1:40 pm
In my experience penile arousal is not necessarily the best warm up technique for an aneros session. The traditional wank may be useful for "clearing the tubes" after a session, but never before. I find that I am usually sufficiently aroused by simply inserting the aneros, but if I think I need more, then a bit of nip stim does the job by activating the prostate rather than the penis . I believe that too many aneros users tend to focus too much on penile sensations, whereas aneros orgasms are on a different plane and need not involve the penis at all, or at least only to a minor degree.
07/06/2018 1:59 pm
Hmmm... This topic interests me from a standpoint that, my first real big mmo+super-o with aneros happened one morning after my gf and I had sex. I was of the mindset going in that it'd be a bust ride because I drained myself the night before but to my surprise, it was the most intense experience with aneros I've still had to date.
Hmmm... I still think that if I whacked it right before it'd be a waste of time but you *might* be on to something.
Hmmm... Now how do I get out of work to go home and test the theory...?
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07/06/2018 6:03 pm
@ELS78 be sure to share the result.
I’m in two minds now. I’ve gone five days without masturbating - probably the longest I’ve ever gone - and i’m noticing some very interesting things. Previously, I’ve never really understood the fascination with balls and nipples. But suddenly, i’m getting new sensations.
Today, my shirt brushed across my nipples and I felt an immediate involuntary contraction in my anus with a subtle tingling that lasted for at least a minute. I’m also getting feelings in my balls that I’ve never noticed before. Almost like gentle electric shocks.
I’m worried that if I try to test my theory of having a quick wank before my next Aneros session that i’ll kill this new level of tension I’m feeling.
At the same time, i’m conscious that if I don’t, i’ll go in with high hopes and too many expectations that will get in the way of relaxing.
07/09/2018 2:17 pm
I tried it and it was a dud ride for me. Had a few nice feelings and felt a possible mini-o but nothing else. Bummer. Was worth the try though...
I had dud rides all weekend so maybe it was just something up with my body... Hormone levels might have been off or something. I typically have really successful trips with my aneros. Unfortunately, this weekend was not one of them. There was a lot of drinking involved so that may have hindered things a bit too...
Will try again sometime soon!
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