Very active physical reactions/movements

I understand that videos of men using the aneros are scarce and those that exist are less than informative. In spite of this there are some videos I have seen that I find strange and wonder how varied this aneros experience seems to be.

One video has a guy lying on his front, something I used to consider counter intuitive because it involves the penis in some way touching the bed etc. (I've recently had success observing this technique) but then it goes on and as orgasms happen his movement becomes almost violent. Thrusting, 'crawling' and lots of movement which gave me the realisation of how calm my sessions are by comparison, as I thought was the norm for others.

It can create feelings of jealousy, thinking that these erratic, uncontrollable, violent reactions are meaning they are experiencing something we ourselves are not. I also realise that expectation also extends to this as well, we expect the same, we align our desires with what we see and expect that we should get the same happen to us and anything less is unsuccessful, By visual comparison. Dangerous.

However I often muse that perhaps what I have experienced is not the end of the journey, the super o is still out there, waiting for me....

-Sorena