Thoughts on edging?

hodgepodge,
I don't think it is coincidence at all. High arousal levels have frequently been cited as essential keys to successful Anerosessions. Avoiding ejaculation and employing edging techniques to build arousal has proven to be beneficial for many men. The thread Are you "aroused"? discussed the basic premise here and was further expanded in the thread Aneros, Arousal & Abstinence. The 21 day challenge post further documented the arousal benefits of reduced ejaculatory occurrences. Keep at it and discover the depths of your sensual well.
Good Vibes to You !

Thanks Rumel.

I am experiencing some dry orgasms thru edging, nipple play, and progressive relaxation of the mind and pelvic floor muscles. In a recent session, I had the best advances ever with the aneros as I was aroused like you say and my prostate was swollen and sensitive.

As a plodder, I am learning there is more than one way to skin a cat in the dry orgasm, MMO business.

Appreciation

hodgepodge,

If you find edging effective for amping up arousal and you've observed better results in your Aneros sessions...go with it! As Turnrow said, there are many paths to the same place. Multi-orgasmic Man author Mantak Chia has long recommended this technique for initiating full blown Super O's. Although it never worked that way for me, it constituted an important step in my own journey. With regard to abstinence, it is without question one of the principle methods for setting the stage for a successful session.

Cheers,

BF Mayfield

Edging makes my sessions that much better. I gets me to new heights. I love getting a orgasm all the way to the top of my dick head and knocking it back down to my ballsack. Its the best feeling ever.

i found masturbating or at least touching th the head of my dick helped me achieve the super o. to each his own.

Recently I have been experimenting with edging, trying to reach a dry-o. I haven't succeeded in achieving such an orgasm, but along the way i have discovered something else: ejaculating without having an orgasm. (is there a name for this?) This is how i do it:I jerk off for a prolonged period (an hour or so) to build up the tension in my balls properly. Then i jerk right to the point of no return and stop, but NOT to the point where you'll need to squeeze hard (contract the sphincter muscle) to avoid ejaculation. (when i go as far as that, i often end up having a normal orgasm). If i time this right, my cock will throb/jerk once or twice as it would normally when having an orgasm. At this point, i can feel the sperm moving from my balls to my dick. I can then push this out by contracting the sphincter muscle (obviously, i don't use my hands at this point as this will incur orgasm immediately). If i squeeze really hard, it shoots out almost as far and fast as during a normal orgasm.You might think that what comes out is just precum, but it's not: by the colour, smell and thickness i can definitely tell it's sperm. Also, i can feel the tension in my dick/ balls declines, just like after a normal orgasm (usually my balls get very hard when edging). This also means that after this mini-ejaculation, i can continue masturbating (the refractory period doesn't set in as i don't orgasm) but I'll last a bit longer before reaching the point of no return again. I can then repeat this process almost indefinitely (in my longest sessions, i repeated it six or seven times), thus ejaculating (at least) as much as i normally would during a regular orgasm. When i finally choose to orgasm, i may produce a little less than normal but the feeling is as good as during a normal orgasm.

This technique also comes in handy when using the Aneros: i have had a few occasions where i inserted the Aneros while being very horny. Upon insertion i orgasmed immediately (without any stimulation!), thereby ruining my session. If i empty my balls first using the described technique, i will still be horny (and eager to use the Aneros), but i won't have this 'problem'.
The technique is also useful when watching CEI videos. Usually after orgasm i'll loose interest very quickly but with this technique i'll be able to enjoy my cum and continue masturbating.

I've had the same experiences, using the penis as a conduit to help get stronger anal sensations. It worked for me!