This sucks.

I e read that it helps to take a temporary break once in a while, you might try that.

I was on a 4 day break

Man! ive had this issue for years, i just fall asleep and dont recall how and even when i dont, i find that the wave are all i get!

Ive foudn not lying on my back the key though, change position and your body wont think youre falling asleep cus it thinks youre lying down to go to sleep, a chemical release occurs i beleive for some of us and it makes us drowsy and flal asleep

I know what your talking about, just getting to the edge and not pushing through. I have had the same experience, lots of pleasure over and over again, but not getting to the point of that elusive massive organism. I read the forums on here a lot, and discovered something that worked for me yesterday. I will smoke some weed and watch porn for about 45 minutes before a session, doing gentle kegels, and having good sensations in my computer chair. Yesterday that went on as usual, I was concentrating on the feelings and waves in the chair, the weed helps to relax and slow me down to realize the sensations. I read that one key is to let go, ride each sensation out to the next, and work to forget everything to experience the sensations. I felt I was warmed up, I lubed up, headed to bed with a Peridise and a Progasm. I rode the Peridise for what seemed like 10 minutes, just slid it in slowly to feel the sensations, working to get lost, once inserted I did nothing but feel what was happening, that seemed to work as the sensations got stronger, and the throbbing more intense... after a while I slid in the Prograsm, doing nothing, it sucked up and locked tight (that has happened before but not like yesterday), each small move gave me more throbbing... I really got lost in the sensations, soon I felt like the sensations were amping up and more was throbbing... then all of a sudden, I am feeling intense pleasure, down my legs and up my spine... way different than anything I have felt before, the combination of the pleasure and the feeling of just being in a good place, lots of dry orgasms and continued throbbing, lots of feeling totally relaxed and satisfied. At the end I decided to jack off, and the orgasm was body shaking. I must have been on the bed for almost an hour. The thing I am learning is the enjoyment of the sensations and letting them work brings more intense pleasure. Now 20 hours later, I seemingly feel content, where normally I am a bit wound up at this time of the day. Looking for another ride this afternoon, wondering where it might take me in Aneros land.