Things are changing in our bed

Posted by: @leatherman

Now to the bedroom, my wife always plays with my nipples during sex, well one night we are having sex and I started feeling like I was going to have a nipple orgasm, and shortly after that I did, and I stopped for a few seconds to have it, and then started back up, and it happened again a minute later.   It was the first time I had ever had multiple orgasms.   When I shot my load a few minutes later, It was not as nice as usual.  

I sometimes experience less exciting ejaculatory orgasms after many dry orgasms, and sometimes ejaculate with no orgasm. Also it is sometimes the opposite, and I have what they call a "super-T", a sort of extra-long, extra-big ejaculatory orgasm.

Posted by: @leatherman

Question, can I have a super O if I have to wiggle and play with my nipples in a recliner to have small orgasms?  My wiggling , I don’t think you could tell I was moving, if you were watching me.  

Of course. You can do whatever you need to have a super-orgasm. There are no rules. Follow your pleasure, wherever it is.  If for now it is in one specific position while diddling your nipples, so be it. As you re-wire you will expand your palette and discover new erogenous zones and positions that work.

As for the imperceptible wiggles, that is what I personally am all about. For me they are so imperceptible that I don't think I am actually moving, rather I am just tricking my consciousness.  I often feel a plane cutting my consciousness in a left and right half, and as I wiggle those two halves, the imbalance brings me to orgasm. Sounds far out, right? It is.

Hey Leatherman,

how often do you ride your Aneros? Maybe too often? I went to a gym for two years with very weak results. Then I read some articles about refractory periods and adapted my schedule. The success was stunning. After all chasing the SuperO is no good idea. Someone wrote the SuperO shall find you, meaning don't push things, instead let them happen. My 40-days-challenge of semen retention has been my milestone with that. Only my two cents here.

Best vibes!

Mart

@sowithoutaneros

I am using it almost every day, for a few hours.   

@LEATHERMAN , too much of a good thing is not necessarily good. Been there, done that; I'm now down to twice to three times per week.

Posted by: @ggringo

@LEATHERMAN , too much of a good thing is not necessarily good. Been there, done that; I'm now down to twice to three times per week.

I agree, too much can have diminishing returns. 

I was doing five plus sessions a week and some of those a couple hours each. I'd get frustrated when I couldn't hit the SO and just try harder which resulted in me hitting plateaus. I'd finally give up for a week and things would return, and better too.

I'm down to two sessions a week now. One about an hour long and the other maybe two hours. 

@leatherman

Then I'd recommend to try using your Aneros only every other day or wait for two days if you can. Instead try Aless. Meaning having a session without your toy. You may learn that a toy isn't necessary all the time.

To give up control I often talk to my gland. I tell my gland to take over control and beg for some stunning experiences. Then I say, you have me, take me, I'm yours. It's like a response when a first frisson of energy is sent out through my body. That was fine, I'd say, you can do it better, don't you? And first involuntaries are saying YES! And more and more my gland takes over control and I follow. I try to do nothing voluntarily but wait for sudden spasms and shivers and welcome them, bearing my gland out in doing right. If you get a little frightened of what happens to you, tell yourself, my gland won't do me any harm, wow, just writing this my gland sent a warm energy wave throughout my body. I love you, my gland!

Mart

I can take more days off.   I don’t know if I can do it without my toy.  I will give it a try.  Thanks 

@leatherman

To get your Aless session going, try to remember and visualize what you did and felt during your last Aneros session. Visualize any stimulation of your most sensual spots, you would love to do now, but don't, only perhaps do a little nipple play or tickle another sensitive spot of yours, but not for long, only to get starting something. That's how it works for me. If nothing happens call it a session and give it a try another day, perhaps it's a bit too early on your personal journey.

Best wishes, Mart