The Prostate/Testicle connection

Well, gang, it’s been a year and a half since I started my Aneros journey. No super O’s yet, but it has been a great ride. If I had time I could fill a small book with all I have learned, thanks in large part to this forum, and the generous contributions of members.

And thank you, Aneros folk, for maintaining this forum. Obviously a primary motive is to help sell your products, but it is also a priceless public service. All men should know what we lucky few have discovered.

And yet I still feel like a beginner. I now know what my last words will be on my deathbed: “I’m getting closer. I’m almost there…” One of these days I must explain it to my wife, so she won’t have to spend years wondering what I meant.

I have gone through many phases since beginning, and I want to talk about the latest, in case it might ring a bell with someone. Several months ago I began to realize that my testicles were beginning to awaken in much the same way my prostate did a year ago. Of course we have all enjoyed playing with our balls since we first discovered them back in the crib, but mine have now reached a sublime new level of sensitivity. In some ways it’s even better than the prostate, because they are so much more accessible. Just the act of walking across the room sometimes sends little electric shocks through my pelvis. It’s easy to imagine this someday leading to some kind of orgasm.

The best stimulation now is extremely light tension and/or pressure, combined with slowly moving them, like a joystick, around in an arc, sometimes holding a position for several minutes. This tension travels up the spermatic cords, shooting signals right up to the pudendal nerves and into the prostate. It is super when I do it, but when my wife does it, it drives me nearly wild. And there seems to be no end. I sometimes think I could go on all day without any diminution of pleasure (I haven’t talked to her about this idea yet.)

The sensation is very similar to that which developed in my prostate a year ago, except with it’s own unique flavor. And there is a connection. I can often lie on my back and will it to move along the sensory channel between the balls and the prostate, and back again. Sometimes it merges into a single fuzzy ball of pleasure extending from front to back.

One way it differs from traditional testicle pleasure is that once it gets going it seems to be sustainable by the mind alone, requiring no physical contact at all. I envision a partially-filled helium balloon, which I keep in the air by giving it little mental “taps.” If conditions are just right I can sometimes go into a kind of mild trance, which I’m sure you old timers will understand. As with prostate stimulation, words are insufficient to describe the feelings. I remember a while back someone used the word “ghostly,” which I liked. One could also describe them as “ethereal.” They seem so far removed from all of our regular physical sensations.

A possible downside is that this could be one reason I’m having trouble reaching a super O. The sensitivity of the balls may be interfering with my ability to focus on the prostate. But I hate to let it go.

One reason I never felt these sensations with such intensity in my earlier life could be because I was in the habit of ejaculating every two or three days. Now I am holding it to once every ten days or more, resulting in nearly constant sensitivity. The important factor here is how I have changed my perceptions. Like many of us, for most of my life I perceived the buildup of semen with a growing urgency to release it, remotely similar to one’s perception of the need to urinate when the bladder fills. But now with practice I have learned to perceive it primarily as pleasure. The desire for release is still there, but it is now much easier to control, and is far outweighed by the ongoing sensitivity.

I have noticed that when my aneros is inserted and I am focusing on the prostate, it is not helpful either to think about my balls or to touch them. It is distracting in much the same way as touching the penis. Yet the close relationship is there, and I hope I can learn to make the best use of it. I’m wondering if others have thoughts about this.