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Hey Gents.

It would be interesting to hear how all of you got started on your journey? 
How did you come to find out about prostate massage? What made you start? How long have you been at it? Etc.


   
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I suppose fundamentally it was sexual boredom combined with browsing the internet for new techniques. In the beginning, I had some fun trying out new techniques from JackinWorld. Some of those techniques worked so well, that I became really interested in what else was possible if you thought outside of the box and added some patience.

At some point I realized I could raise pleasure by thought alone, and explored that for a few years... trying to catch insights from the KSMO forum (I never bought the key-sound package, but they seemed to be the only people on the planet who were even remotely discussing what I had accidentally discovered).

I don't remember where I heard about prostate stimulation, but by the time I did, the reported experiences didn't seem that impossible. I had already experienced full-body sensations, and stepped outside of how men normally understand orgasm. So I was definitely curious enough to stick a finger up my butt and see what was going on up there.

The first time I did it felt weird, disgusting, and forbidden... also alien, like sticking a finger into my eye-socket and pushing past my eye to touch my brain. It was that level of weird boundary, but I was soon rewarded with enough pleasure that getting poop on my finger was a small price to pay (poop washes off, and the dirty feeling goes away).

The number one reason I bought an aneros was because my wrist was getting sore and tired from reaching down between my legs when I'd finger myself. Even if it didn't work as promised, it'd at least work well enough to avoid a tired, achy wrist. Plus I was already comfortable with the hands-free idea, so I didn't need to be sold on that.
I took to it quickly, and hugely appreciated how much cleaner it was than using my fingers.
From then (about 2009) it was a slow and steady journey of discovery, I lurked here on the forum trying to find ideas to take into my sessions. Some small detail of something someone had posted would form the basis of "tonight's experiment".


   
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I enjoy sounding my penis.  Which is a form of prostate stimulation.  While watching some sounding porn I saw an ad for one of the massagers from bad boy.  I had a weekend to myself and figured why not go the the local sec shop with same cash and buy one, when I got to the shop it turns out it was only available on like, however the very open and sex positive woman that worked there showed me an Helix Sun V and explained that it was popular.  Determined to walk out with a massager I bought it.  And the rest is history.  Aneros sessions have been life changing.  I don’t look at porn at all, hardly sound anymore.  The meditative effects of a session give me focus and clarity that positively effects every aspect of my life. Is is a great journey.


   
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I have always heard stories about prostate pleasure but didn't know what to do.  I believe after reading a few things online, I tried sticking a finger up there a few times, looking to see what would happen.  Nothing...

After going out and getting two small dildos of sorts and realizing they were doing absolutely nothing, I came to a conclusion that I wasn't able to get anything off of the prostate.  It kind of really bummed me out.

I'd say it was about a year later that I came across Aneros and gave it a try.  For years, I had very little progress.  In the last 2 or 3 years I have had a lot more but nothing consistent.

Close to 15 years later...  Still looking for that breakout moment.

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Posted by: @nat

Close to 15 years later...  Still looking for that breakout moment.

Have you experienced some pleasure waves along the way or nothing at all?

I'm over 7 years into my journey without ever experiencing a Super-O but I'm enjoying pleasures like I never did before discovering prostate play.  I'm certainly grateful for my discovery.

 

I hope you find what you're seeking soon!


   
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I believe I took my inspiration to look into prostate play from the movie Road Trip where the sexy nurse milks the guys prostate. Not sure how I heard about Aneros but the first one I bought was the old MXG classic with the curly tail. Got my first Super-O after a couple of sessions and it was totally unexpected and overwhelming. Then.....nothing for years, and years, and years. I can now successfully get good results in every session and I look forward to my weekly session.


   
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I first experienced it (before I even heard!) when I was 22 years old (am 73 now). I had just moved from Ohio to Tempe, AZ, home of Arizona State University. I started a job in neighboring Mesa, AZ at Motorola as an entry level engineer, single, etc. I started dating a nursing student, going out on weekends and partying. One thing led to another, and sometimes we would shower together.

Then one morning when waking up in her bed, we were riding each other and there it was -- she was penetrating me with her finger in my anus and going deeper. Needless to say, because I was penetrating her and holding off for as long as I could. I ejaculated like a rocket. Those nursing students know what they are doing!

A couple of years later, I met my wife and have lived happily ever after. My wife would not perform the finger in the anus like the nursing student, but satisfied my sexual appetite in other ways.

As prostate size had become an issue for me a couple of years ago, we discussed this again. She informed me that her finger would likely not find its way to my anus, but she is completely understanding and encouraging me to use my Aneros device anytime I need it. I honestly think that she enjoys the side effect of the improvement in penetrative orgasms.

 


   
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Hi I’m 55 years old. I recently had a Seadoo accident @70mph it split my legs apart farther then you can spread them. It smashed my penis and my pelvic floor muscles. It caused me to have Peyronie’s disease that left me with a bent penis at 67’ .  Have. Pelvic floor physical therapy. 12 penis injections to try to dissolve the scare tissue. A year later I had to have surgery. After surgery I’m straight as an arrow. I get erection with no problem but it hard to stay hard long enough to have intercourse. Yay viagra !  My urologist said look up Aneros try one to see if it will strengthen your pelvic floor muscles.  I had it two months now I think it’s helping. My wife likes it when we’re having intercourse she says she can feel the vice2 vibes.  It made her cum hard a couple of times. 


   
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As long as I can remember I've loved pressure in the perineum.  In my first days of masturbation I had worn a jock strap with the back straps between my ass cheeks, pulled tight for the pressure.  I found other ways to pressure that spot too.  And what I've always considered a bit odd, if I was visually stimulated by an image of a woman wearing a tight swimsuit that appeared to be pressuring her crotch, I would always respond with arousal, and imagined the same pressure.  My wife learned that at a certain point in sex, with me in her, if she pressured the area it did some pretty amazing things for me.  She also would do a little penetration, but not enough to reach the prostate directly. 

I then learned about prostate massage on line, in response to a doctor letting me know my prostate was slightly enlarged.  I found out that some massage could help that, and discovered that the pressure I loved was really being applied to my prostate.  The first time I tried my first Aneros I thought my head would blow off.  I'm very regular with it now, regardless of what kind of sex I'm having, and even at it's worst the pressure from it is fantastic.  I own 3 of them now, and am considering the vibrating kind.  I'm afraid I'm addicted.


   
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@clenchmaster

Another perineum lover!  I love that spot being touched as I do the underside of my penis head when erect and drooling with precum.  Sometimes if I have not started to ooze precum yet, I add some saliva to my fingers and rub it in there a bit.  With the Aneros Helix Syn V in my rectum, the tab in front gently touches the perineum as well, adding to the sensations hands free.  

I noticed in the video here posted by Soul Pleasure, in the thread "Great Channel About Prostate Stimulation."  (link =  https://www.pornhub.com/model/precumtherapy), he spends time pressuring himself in the perineum as well.  Go to this video entitled "Hands-free Prostate Orgasms and Precum with Aneros Helix Syn (toy showcase", link = https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5f0c8799dc730

Enjoy!


   
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A few months ago I saw a porn video of a good looking guy go from soft, to hard to ejaculation in 2 minutes 100% hands free.  I read up on hands free orgasms and managed to get nowhere so I found out about aneros's in my reading.  As many of yoU know I've been on it since October.   Only 1 HFWO so far. 🙂

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Fifteen years ago, I was suffering from BPH. I was researching it and read about using an Aneros to help with the symptoms. The concept seemed kind of weird, but I was ready to try anything. It did not occur to me that there could be more to it than reducing BPH discomfort.

The Helix arrived and sat in a drawer, waiting for some alone time. An afternoon arrived with a quiet house. I got set and laid in bed wondering, “ok, now what?”

My mind must have drifted off and I wasn’t paying attention. All at once I felt intense tingling and waves of sensation moving up my legs. I was starting to get concerned when the sensation started to radiate from deep within the core of my body. Flat out, I was now getting scared. I decided it was time to end this experiment when my body tensed up and just exploded. It lasted a long time. As I was coming down and attempting to reach for the handle of the Helix, I exploded again. And again. And again.

I finally got control back. I was actually quite shaken. I had after-shocks for a week.

I did more research this time and found this forum. Which, explained everything.


   
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Posted by: @ggringo

Have you experienced some pleasure waves along the way or nothing at all?

Everything I do is so inconsistent.  There are times that I get a few sets of mild waves or even jolts, but they never seem to last or go anywhere.  I will get them and settle in for the all of 20 seconds of on and off pleasure.  That is about it.  Sometimes I will get a heavy tightening throughout my body (makes me want to sit up), but it never comes with any pleasure - no pain or discomfort either.  A bit of leg shaking every once in awhile.  That also gives no pleasure.

A weird occurrence though..  If I insert a model nothing happens, but immediately after I lay on my back, I start getting tingling in my spine.  This happens every session.  I try to fight the urge, but it makes me want to scratch my back.  It doesn't feel like pleasure and usually goes away after a minute. 

While I have a bunch of models, I mostly use a modified Progasm.

I've read up a lot over the years about prostate sensitivity, and how a lot of guys will go wild at just the slightest touch.  I would assume I have little to no prostate sensitivity.  No idea if that is just a genetic thing or if there are ways I can change it.


   
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I was watching "Talk Sex With Sue" years ago on Oxygen with my old girlfriend as we used to do on sunday nights. She produced an old MGX or something and talked about it. I was curious, but forgot the name. When it came to me I looked up Aneros and it looked even more intriguing. So in a whirlwind 4 years later, I ordered my first one...original MGX. Felt good. Didn't blow my mind. Bought a Helix. Same deal. Bought a progasm. Same only big. The device wasn't going to do it for me. I had no discipline or understanding, but fast forward 12 years and I was at work, thinking about the material I read way back when, and I started practicing kegels and breathing.  Felt really good for some reason. then I started practicing in the car, at work, any time I had a spare minute. I could tell there was something happening. I soon experienced a mind blowing, life changing super-o that was so far beyond the scope of my experience for the first 42 years of my life, I realized this was what everyone had been talking about...it was very real. Took me six months to get anything remotely like that again.  

So, all from a little elderly nurse woman talking about prostate massagers on TV in 2004.


   
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@clenchmaster your not addicted your just enjoying what god gave us y to enjoy.


   
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Not the first time I tell that tale, but my introduction to prostate stimulation came from women's fashion magazines like Elle, Cosmopolitaine, Châtelaine, that I would read in waiting rooms. They always had sex positive articles and "99 things to drive your man wild". I clearly remember reading that the prostate could be stimulated by a partner, but that "real Supermen could do it themselves by inserting their thumb", or that you could sit in lotus position with your heel pressed against your perineum, things like that. It did not take much for me to explore further.    


   
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@clenchmaster

Another perineum lover!  I love that spot being touched as I do the underside of my penis head when erect and drooling with precum.  Sometimes if I have not started to ooze precum yet, I add some saliva to my fingers and rub it in there a bit.  With the Aneros Helix Syn V in my rectum, the tab in front gently touches the perineum as well, adding to the sensations hands free.  

 

 

I've increasingly come to love my perineum. I love to finger my hole right after using a dildo and then move onto the perineum while visualizing that it is a vulva. My fingers probe deep into the tissue as I think of penetrating "my vagina." Just today I  did that and also played with my cock head thinking of it as a clit (a cock head is, after all, a clit on a stick.) This all gets me in touch with the feminine energy that I believe is at the heart of our prostate orgasms. Sorry, got hot and bothered and off track, haha. 

 


   
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I think it must have been advancedmasturbation.com, or some similar website, advertising a competitor's product that doesn't even exist anymore, and this was about 15 years ago?  So I had that on my radar and sometime not long after that started experimenting with anal penetration while masturbating.  Then about 2015 I got my first actual anal toy, a prostate vibrator from Rocks-off which was not the best designed toy in the world but did actually give me a few prostate orgasms early on, the problem being that it might take an hour and a half to get there and usually the battery died right when things were starting to finally feel pleasurable.  And looking at other anal and prostate toys through all that I had heard about Aneros (probably from mrracy.com?) but the lack of battery dependence is what finally sold me on it.  I'd say I don't know what took me so long but the thing is that I bought my first Aneros in 2018 and it's taken me nearly 5 years to reach anything approaching a prostate orgasm.  I think just in the last week or so I'm finally experiencing what I've been hoping for, getting to the calm seas state and I'm sure it will only get better from here! 


   
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My journey most likely began over seven years ago. Have always enjoyed the pleasure experienced when putting things inside my ass starting when I was 12. Over the years discovered dildoes and vibrators which led me to the Aneros site where I discovered and learned about prostate massage. In the process I discovered I also liked deep anal insertions of around 20” and the joy of using enemas to clean out first. Have settled on Progasm Jr as well as Vice2 and HSV. I try new models as they become available if they look promising!


   
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@fred27, been looking into deeper insertion. What would you recommend for a beginner to depth play?


   
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I think it must have been advancedmasturbation.com, or some similar website, advertising a competitor's product that doesn't even exist anymore, and this was about 15 years ago?  So I had that on my radar and sometime not long after that started experimenting with anal penetration while masturbating.  Then about 2015 I got my first actual anal toy, a prostate vibrator from Rocks-off which was not the best designed toy in the world but did actually give me a few prostate orgasms early on, the problem being that it might take an hour and a half to get there and usually the battery died right when things were starting to finally feel pleasurable.  And looking at other anal and prostate toys through all that I had heard about Aneros (probably from mrracy.com?) but the lack of battery dependence is what finally sold me on it.  I'd say I don't know what took me so long but the thing is that I bought my first Aneros in 2018 and it's taken me nearly 5 years to reach anything approaching a prostate orgasm.  I think just in the last week or so I'm finally experiencing what I've been hoping for, getting to the calm seas state and I'm sure it will only get better from here! 

 

Love calm seas! It's so special when it makes a visit. 

 


   
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@reddog152  Go buy one of the cheap 18"snake like  things with the head at both ends, it is like training wheels. Not so much to sink it but to get used to what it feels like up there. Will slip into the sigmoid quite easily. Once you get used to it, you can decide and know how much wider you want to stretch yourself. Me I just want to get well into that sigmoid sphincter. I had a an orgasm up there that had littlte to do with my prostate, dick  or anus. Littlie pleasure factory up there. Smooth dildos go in easier, but for me veiny texture is more intense. Though it can become hyper sensitive with texture. Hope this helps


   
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@fred27, been looking into deeper insertion. What would you recommend for a beginner to depth play?

for depth play would recommend a colon snake or slink that is tapered. Peep show toys makes some quality ones - pricey but worth every penny! You will obviously need a good cleanout first and use lots of lube!

 


   
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@fred27 thanks!


   
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Mine started as a late teen. I was intending one night about to wank when I felt the urge to experiment with something different. I noticed when you wank you clench something inside and then massage with hands. So, what would happen if you only clenched? Do nothing else. I did it. It took ages. About one hour. But I had a real blissful different kind of orgasm. It went on and on. 
for forty years I could not replicate it! I’d make love to wife or course or wank but not that special feeling until one day was feeling sexually frustrated. I laid down on my side with legs pulled up. And I felt that same tingle. I relaxed and continued. And it happened again! I was over 60!

I experimented more and more and found out about Aneros. Thank you Aneros!

so actually i was having Aless before Aneros! Ha. Ironic. 

I now at age 70+ use Aneros and Aless and get handjobs from wife. I’m very thankful. 


   
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I'm 68. A dozen years ago, I first read about prostate (device) driven orgasms, but didn't understand it or pursue further then. Three and a half years ago, I got a bad case of prostatitis. I found online High Island Health's treatment method. I didn't want to wait for shipping so I went to a sex shop and bought a Helix right away. Just after starting the HIH regime, my naturopath suggested the very same protocol, plus he added some herbs. Prostatitis resolved, though I continued my practice to pursue Super-Os. In 11 months, I had my first 'automatic' multiple (up to a couple dozen in an hour) prostate-O sessions. I had a lot of disruptions in my adventure afterwards, and haven't had automatics since. Though I've had one off prostate Os here and there. 


   
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I always had a vague knowledge about prostate orgasms, but just assumed they were ejaculatory orgasms enhanced by stimulation of the prostate, which seems to be a widely held view. Other possibilities just didnt occur to me.

Then I started reading about Aneros massagers, began some timid exploration, before taking the plunge and moving on to the Helix Syn, since when I’ve never looked back!


   
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