The Key to sexual stimulation freedom (ie. no risk of ejaculation and still get the cookie)

I think it's important point this out. Apart from focusing on pleasure, also be receptive to any kind of sudden discomfort in your body. When you work with energy it's common for it to get stuck somewhere in your body, which may have been nice at first, but then it creates a sudden burning sensation, or cramp like reaction, pay attention to that part and heal it, do whatever to aleviate the sensation and get comfortable once again

Jmay said : "The difference I feel is that when I know I haven't made the energy go up the spine for a while, when I pull the tailbone towards the front, it feels very different, like when you vibrate a part of your body with a massager (minus the vibration, though sometimes it can vibrate a little on its own), it could be your feet for example, it tickles, it feels a little uncomfortable. That's similar to the sensation it creates."

I think I stumbled upon this state this weekend. After a long build up of sexual energy, I decided to just stay there and see what happened without any expectations. I found my whole body vibrating with electrical energy after a while like I get usually in the peritoneal-nipples complex. I remember thinking about the tail bone move and how that reminded me of tantric breathing with its movement of the tail bone along with inhalation and exhalation: out with inhalation and in with exhalation. Anyway I don't know if I was doing tantric breathing without awareness but I was thinking of it and then the vibration started. It continued for a long time and, not knowing what to do with it, I practiced letting go, as in orgasm or in BM. They both feel similar to me. Anyway, I noticed that it seems to get easier to do each time I do it as if my body-mind has mastered it. Unless I rush things or am too goal-orientented. It just seems to be where I wind up if I'm relaxed and patient. That last thing is the most important for me. I was alone on an island with no responsibilities and with a relaxed weekend with my family planned. I don't always have that scenario!

The other thing is the reference to the moon in connection with the most auspicious times to have successful sessions. I don't know if there was a full moon, but I was reading a book called The Neanderthal Legacy by Stan Gooch this weekend on the island, and it links Neanderthal culture and religion to moon worship and sex worship. He's a research psychologist and linguist who's studied Neanderthals for decades, and has created a pretty good picture of their culture. They did have their religious ceremonies during the full moon and they were orgiastic free-for-alls with everyone mating with everyone else, men, women and children. After several hundreds of thousands of years they interbred with cro-magnon humans , and we have inherited some of their genes. I'm just learning about this so I don't know if other people already know this but I found it fascinating.

Then at my family event this weekend my niece announces that she's tested her DNA and she has 3percent Neanderthal DNA. What a coincidence! So now I'm getting my DNA tested to see if it's in the male genes too. Maybe that's why I took to aneros play and exploration so readily.

I looked the moon phases up and it was a crescent moon this weekend so I'll be waiting for the next full moon to explore my Neanderthal blood.

That's very interesting, I had heard about Moon cults before, the "lunatics"... Also, Moon and Mood are very similar. It may sound stupid but sometimes you find interesting connections.It's as though we really are bound to the Moon and her cycles. The 19 is the next full Moon. We'll see how it goes. If that was it... talk about in your face the whole time hahaha.

Ok, new discovery... or maybe it's the mood I'm in.I know that when one starts climaxing a little, the body tenses. So next time, keep doing whatever you want, whatever you want, as long as you don't tense your body, let it build up, but never tense your body, just feel it. Once the super o starts, you can let go, but the build up is with a completely relaxed body.
Lie down on a pillow, with your belly towads it, and rock your pelvis, lift it, or push it, but your limbs, and the rest of your body must remain relaxed, no tension. Once you recognise the sensation it creates on your body and can handle it, you'll find ways in which you can move (mostly like a snake) without creating tension.
In men creating tension activates the parasympathetic system, which is linked to ejaculation. As long as you are relaxed it won't activate.

Very interesting technique. I've tried it a bit, but no "uncomfortable" pleasure as of yet. I've had a bit of pleasurable feelings around the anus, though not really "uncomfortable". 🙂

Anyway, this technique seems to have a lot of similarities with a technique called "anal breathing" (which also is quite similar to Mantak Chia's techniques from "The Multi-orgasmic man").

Anal breathing helps a lot! I didn't know about it.

this has a name... hes explaining edging, and edging is awesome.. but its dangerous, always make sure to clean the pipes after your done. IE ejaculate after your done playing with your orgasm

Wow, that's a thought-provoking post. Thanks! I just got my Progasm and am wanting to try it tonight, but your post has me experimenting with different PC muscles as I sit at my desk. 🙂

Just want to add that I tried to isolate those muscles that help lead to erection and ejaculation, and standing at the urinal I was able to determine which muscles I could tighten without impeding flow. I THINK that will help me copy what you're doing...

@Domo_robot_O,Can you provide us with a citation for this assertion?
I would dearly like to follow this up as I do edging regularly and had not heard before this, that the practice was dangerous. To me, the whole idea is to avoid ejaculation.
Please provide more information.

yeah i've never heard edging is dangerous either, even if you go for weeks with no release though you may end up with blue balls, but thats not dangerous, just uncomfortable as your body is in semen production mode and it has nowhere to go.