The Key to anal orgasm

Hey @DarkOrb,

long time no see. 🙂

You can do it by fingering yourself or by using a dildo, but it's important that you provoke that i-have-to-poop feeling (thats our new pleasureable feeling).

That's an interesting approach, but unfortuantely I can't relate. When I do my preparations for butt-play my body/brain switches mode and I won't perceive anything in my bum as poop-related. You could compare that do BDSM: when you start with only slight pain and slowly raise the intensity, your body will eventually switch mode and the input is not perceived as pain anymore but as arousing touch. That's the whole point of pain-related BDSM-practices that outsiders seem to miss all the time.

Massaging the outer anal area won't work, you have to touch the 2nd (inner) sphincter, to have that feeling we want. It's also important to use some sort of lubricant.

Can't relate here as well, but since your point is to trigger this certain (poop-related) feeling I understand the motivation. When I had my most strongest orgasm of all time, I was just lightly touching the outer sphincter.

I think I also found the key for having an anal orgasm: Accept the feeling! You will have the feeling that you will have to go to the toilet. You will have to accept and perceive that feeling as an arousing feeling.

I always struggle with statements like: the key™. The only thing you can say for sure it, that it's your key. Unfortunately it seems, that we can't derive universal validity from our personal findings. Otherwise, the wiki would be enough and the forum wouldn't be needed at all. IMHO this is the most important part: accepting and surrendering to the feeling. It does work with the front-side too! A lot of guys in the forums described (while having the aneros in) the feeling of needing to pee and figured, that by letting go they would not pee but approach orgasm.

Cheers, Unfug

Hey,

Yeah, I was very busy lately. But it's good to be back. 🙂

I think especially beginners will feel the poop-related feeling. But once they approach the orgasm, this feeling converts into a strong arousing feeling. I can imagine, once you're accustomed to butt play, that this poop-related feeling turns into a pure arousing feeling. I never lost that i-have-to-poop feeling, but I can imagine, I'm not really accustomed to it - I've only inserted the Aneros and that was all of butt play to this day (insert and forget you could say).

You say, that you've touched the outer sphincter lightly. I've touched it somewhat firmer. But if I think about it, I can have an orgasm if I massage my perineum very lightly; it won't work if I massage it firmer. Maybe that's the reason why it didn't work with the outer sphincter.

You are absolutely right. That's just my key which might work for others. I will try to change the title. 🙂 (Edit: Not possible anymore :/ )

Kind regards

Do you need to be rewired in the prostate in order to get an anal orgasm? Ive tried fingering myself but I find it difficult to reach my arm all the way down there. So lately, after a session mostly, I start pushing on my helix while it's inserted to try to replicate a finger. Have you has any success with this method at all?

I found the description difficult to understand sadly however ive felt something and been woindering if this is what youre referring to. For me though the description is somewhat different but ive always been curious as to what the heck it is and if anyone else has experinced this. One thing is certain though: this feeling is totally localised in the anal cnal region so i know its diferent to the feelings experienced in the prostate.

Ive found that when i removed a device, usually one thats a solid straight shape, notably the peridise and the tempo (the latter maybe a good deal moreso... will explain shortly) that around 1 inch or so right before it pops out there is a section in my ass that it passess through that feels like extreme warmth and amazing pleasure. I can easily get the device and move it up and down past this area (it is NOT the prostate, its far too close to the exit of the anus for it to be that!) and receive jolts of wonderful, warm orgasmic pleasure!

I found that using a long metal, thin dildo like device can hit it even more easily, sometimes when i masturbate i place this device on that area, which is sometimes tricky as its only seemingly a small area which can be missed if the movement is too large or quick. When i last came form doing this the orgasm was crazy intense and i shot a lot more semen than normal.

This area is always pleasurable, no matter the level of arousal i feel it seems perhaps to be very close to the anus exit, i just wish i knew what it was? is this the second sphincter youre referring to? ive got close but ive never been able to induce it into orgasm despite my efforts but i know, i can 'feel' somewhow, that it is certaintly possible.

Hey @The_Fury :),

Could you please explain, which part is hard to understand?

I think I know what section you are refering to. It's right between the first and the second sphincter. And yes, that's the section I get a the pleasurable feelings and the anal orgasm from. If you get a little bit deeper, you should feel some sort of resistance, that's your second sphincter.

Hey @The_Fury :),

Could you please explain, which part is hard to understand?

I think I know what section you are refering to. It's right between the first and the second sphincter. And yes, that's the section I get a the pleasurable feelings and the anal orgasm from. If you get a little bit deeper, you should feel some sort of resistance, that's your second sphincter.

Just in a general sense, i feel that the location is different if inded it is the same thing were talking about and also the sensation is different as well.

I also find that metal devices are required to make this work, plastic ones or just fingers are very poor by comparison....

I'm new, but starting to get a good feeling playing with my anal region, but nowhere near any orgasm. I still have to whack the pud to achieve orgasm even with any device on the prostate. And that's hard to do since I don't get an erection. But I'm getting closer, I can tell.

Yes have experienced this several times - early in the morning. See my post on Aless Anal Orgasm. Start by gently massaging the anus for awhile until I feel the anal canal start to open up. Then I proceed to go in a little further to the edge of the second sphincter and do circular massage until the waves begin - then enjoy the spasms and intense feelings from there! It is totally different then a P orgasm and actually more enjoyable. Definitely be sure you don't have to poop before trying this or you will have a mess!

I think especially beginners will feel the poop-related feeling.

That sounds plausible.

But if I think about it, I can have an orgasm if I massage my perineum very lightly; it won't work if I massage it firmer. Maybe that's the reason why it didn't work with the outer sphincter.

I guess, the more confident (≈re-wired) you get, the harder the touch can be. The less re-wired you are, the softer and lighter the touch should be. Adding more stimulation tends to distract the brain from building arousal.

Do you need to be rewired in the prostate in order to get an anal orgasm?

No, you need a re-wired anal-sphincter.

See my post on Aless Anal Orgasm.

Yeah, that thread was hot. You may link the mentioned threads in the future, for more convenience.

Cheers, Unfug

@Unfug can you explain how to rewire your anal-sphincter.

Hey @AlessLover,

@Unfug can you explain how to rewire your anal-sphincter

Hm, it's more or less the same as re-wiring the prostate: time, practice and patience. You touch the sphincter softly and slowly and concentrate on what you are feeling. Try to interpret those sensations as the sensations you would get from your penis. Try to imagine how it would feel if sensations would build into something. Relax and surrender. Try to combine this with meditation/mindfulness/trance. I actually don't do this on a regular basis, but I described what I did back then here.

Cheers, Unfug

It's so hard to do this softly and calmly because reaching round it's a strain using fingers. How can one be relaxed when there this strain going on.

i would love to hear your thoughts on this...

To the Fury -
if it's a strain you are definitely not relaxed! Being totally relaxed makes all the difference! Practice breathing in and out slowly as well as contracting and relaxing your sphincter. You should start to feel action in the anal area eventually as it begins to respond - then start to gently caress the area and soon you will begin to feel feelings of pleasure! You must stay totally relaxed and your body will do the rest! Do not rush or you will tense up!
Enjoy the moment!

To the Fury -
if it's a strain you are definitely not relaxed! Being totally relaxed makes all the difference! Practice breathing in and out slowly as well as contracting and relaxing your sphincter. You should start to feel action in the anal area eventually as it begins to respond - then start to gently caress the area and soon you will begin to feel feelings of pleasure! You must stay totally relaxed and your body will do the rest! Do not rush or you will tense up!
Enjoy the moment!

No youre misunderstanding, or perhaps i didnt elaborate enough. Its a strain to REACH my anus with my arms and fingers. Perhaps i have short arms or perhaps you have long ones, i dont know, but its a strain for me to keep subtle movements going because i have to stretch to reach the area in question. Understand me?

To the Fury
Sorry misunderstood what you were referring to. If you can't comfortably reach the area with a finger, you will have to use other means!

"You won't poop yourself"

Speak for yourself...

"You won't poop yourself"

Speak for yourself...

Yeah, there was maybe one or two times where I REALLY pushed down on the abdomen, which in turn caused the Aneros to blast out like a rubber bullet.
I'd actually prefer more prostate oriented orgasms since that's suppose to be what the Aneros is designed around compared to traditional dildos.

Also, one might have to be careful with these kinds of orgasms — particularly on didlos, since that kind of reflex and straining is what encourages haemorrhoids to form.

I like to cultivate Anal O's which radiate outward into my glutes and hamstrings. The involuntary shaking can be overwhelming. I use a well lubed Aneros Vice with the Muze vibe removed (which makes it seem more soft and flexible laterally). Position is relaxed 'spread-eagle' with my toes pointed inward to open (spread) my glutes and free-up the Vice. That position makes it easier for the Vice to be powered from very subtle involuntary contractions of the inner sphincter. One or two pillows for your chest and knees may be helpful if you tend to sink into your mattress or prefer to experience these orgasms on the floor.

I usually wear a soft jockstrap to minimize my penis rubbing against bedding. Putting a Depends Guard (don't remove the adhesive strip) into the jock further softens penis/glans stimulation and may improve your mental focus on your anus and anal canal. (the lower end of the Guard may also tickle your inner glutes to help get some auto-f u c k started. For variety, shave the most coarse hair on the inner surface of your glutes.

I've been considering adding some lube and loose buckshot to the cavity in the Vice to increase the mass. No clue how that might play though.