Hi all! This is my first post here. I've been enjoying my Helix Syn for a little over a month now, and I've been loving it. Each time is better than the one before, and though I've yet to reach the Super-O, I'm not worried about it, as every session is wonderful, the feelings have been sensational, and I've learned more about myself and my body in this short time than ever before in my life. I do have one issue with which I'm having some difficulty. About 45 minutes into a session, I become so overwhelmingly horny, I end up masturbating to what I can only describe as an earth-shaking orgasm. I enter each session determined not to touch my penis, but I seem to be able to only get so far before I can't help myself. I'm not sure what to do about it. Have others had this issue? Can you share with me any methods to help me avoid this? Any information, suggestions, etc., would be helpful. Thanks!
Isn't it really peculiar how every one is totally different. I am a 'newbie' been using my epho classic for about 3 weeks now and am having some amazing experiences. I tend not to get hard at all during a session which typically lasts 2-3 hours but i do have a lot of leakage.
@jb1057 Hello and welcome! Although I didn't have your exact issue, when I started with Aneros Helix Classic about a year ago, I noticed that within about an hour after I finished a session, I would get extremely hard and excited and just had to ejaculate. All I can suggest is just to follow your body's lead for now. I believe in time as you continue your sessions, your body will settle-down to a more "normal" prostate function. Good luck!
About 45 minutes into a session, I become so overwhelmingly horny, I end up masturbating to what I can only describe as an earth-shaking orgasm. Can you share with me any methods to help me avoid this? Any information, suggestions, etc., would be helpful. Thanks!
@jb1057, welcome to the forum. Though I agree to @goldenboy, that it can be a short phase, it leads the wrong way. You're in danger to learn to love these wet orgasms so much, that you might not find back. And the better that earth-shaking orgasm from masturbation feels, the more you are leaving your new path to endless bliss for hours without ejaculation. What do you prefer?
As I lately answered another's Newbie's question," I'm sorry, but I only can promise you an impasse, if you go on enjoying your ejaculation.
I could call it okay, if you already were satisfied, but as I've read from your post you eagerly want to go further.
If so, like every Jedi must, you first have to let go. If you can't withstand the urge of ejaculation your mind is not open for new experiences and your re-wiring process will be blocked by your old behavior patterns as well as by your current reward system.
As every man can learn from femdom sites, "Allowing a Male to Cum, Is Like Purposefully Letting the Air Out of Your Cars Tire !!!" And that's no joke! Instead it's empirical knowledge tested by dominas all over the world, enslaving males by denying or ruining their ejaculations and concurrently making them addictives to pleasures they never knew before, cause multiple orgasms seemed to be reserved to women so far. Now we could talk about how science prooved this finding hormones like dopamin an so on and their effects on the male, but all this stuff leads nowhere else than to the simple conclusion:
+++ YOU MUST LET GO THE PLEASURE YOU FOUND IN EJACULATION! +++ It's not part of this game level!+++
If you still want it, you may get it back later. For now you have to unlearn old pathways. That's as simple as challenging.
Like a drug addict you first must get sober and abstinent to learn new pleasures. Your whole body is orgasmic and belongs to a microcosmic orbit. Your palate, your throat, your nipples, your spine, your heart, your navel, your perineum, your penis and your gland, everything is connected. And your gland can send waves of pleasure up your spine along all chakras up to your highest chakra and back down your front back to your root chakra, your gland again. This all even while your penis is flaccid and while you are not touching your member at all."
About 45 minutes into a session, I become so overwhelmingly horny, I end up masturbating [...]Can you share with me any methods to help me avoid this? Any information, suggestions, etc., would be helpful. Thanks!
Your question already gives the answer! Take a timer, do only 30 minutes of overwhelming prostate stimulation, take your toy out and stop any sexual activity for at least one hour. If until now you have been ejaculating several times a day or several times a week, simply begin to reduce the frequency. Promise yourself the next ejaculation will be tomorrow or at the end of the week until you cope with that challenge.
I dare say it only takes two weeks until you will get an idea of what is yet to come. It's called A-less around here when the memory of your gland simulates your toy and acts as if you had inserted it. To me it was most helpful to enjoy the involuntary spasms sent out by my gland alone, using my toys only every other day, because it seemed to solidify the re-wiring.
If you only want to develop your edging technique to be able to avoid the PONR, I recommend masturbation workout to the commands of edgemeplease.com or looking for cock hero frenzy and obeying those orders on p*rnhub.com.
My last challenge was 40 days and because I afterwards refused counting I still don't know about the days of semen retention up to my ejaculation on sunday morning. But because I only wanted the ultimate edging in the extreme but no voluntary ejaculation I ruined my orgasm, stopping anything but holding back my foreskin when the squirts came out. The benefit was, my refractory period lasted half a minute and I just - only writing about that memory I experienced the most overwhelming full body chairgasm along with a diamond hard precum pumping and aching boner raging in seconds.
Now decide, take door 1 or take door 2. :rolleyes:;):D:cool:
I wish you all the luck being and please take my post as one single opinion of one unique man, still only a newbie, too!
There are so many guys around here who may have experienced everything fully different.
Have fun, take care, and be patient!
Good vibes and good luck!
Wow what a problem to have!
do you have any idea what some of us would give to be in your position, or even to experience 50% of what you do?
My advice would be to enjoy where you are because where you are is exactly where many of us are wanting to be.
Enjoy it.
I do have one issue with which I'm having some difficulty. ... I become so overwhelmingly horny, I end up masturbating to what I can only describe as an earth-shaking orgasm.
Yeah, Super-T's are pretty wonderful but I'd recommend you avoid them until after you've become sufficiently rewired to have Super-O's on a consistent basis. I have long maintained that reinforcing the penile based ejaculatory orgasm via Super-T's is an impediment to progress toward Super-O's. Years ago, @Cockadoodle started an excellent thread titled Penis, NOT which I strongly encourage you to read. The Aneros journey toward the Super-O is more than 90% a mental journey and exercising mental discipline is part of this practice. If you haven't already, I'd recommend you also read @rook 's thread Whole Body/Whole Mind - the mental side & "zoneros" for a little insight.
I enter each session determined not to touch my penis, but I seem to be able to only get so far before I can't help myself. I'm not sure what to do about it.
Yes you can help yourself! You're the Captain of the ship! It is your intent that directs the actions of the body.
Have others had this issue? Can you share with me any methods to help me avoid this? Any information, suggestions, etc., would be helpful.
Yes, others have encountered similar obstacles but have overcome them just as you will too. If your mental discipline is temporarily weak, here's a simple, short term solution, buy yourself an inexpensive chastity cage for use during your Anerosession. Just make sure you put the key far enough away that it becomes inconvenient to try and unlock yourself during your session and thus masturbate. This should provide sufficient deterrence to break your masturbatory habit and establish a better new practice paradigm where your penis is not the focus of pleasure during prostate massage with your Aneros. Breaking the focus of penile stimulation to orgasm is key to progressing toward the Super-O. Good Vibes to You !
i started exactly the same you will eventually see the big pic and not masterbate, its (HARD) we know but try save the ejac for a few days it will make aneros session more intense after 3-5days have monster wank it will be epic lol
Years ago, @Cockadoodle started an excellent thread titled Penis, NOT which I strongly encourage you to read.
Hey, @rumel, might that link be broken? May you have a look? Best regards!
Hey, @rumel, might that link be broken?
Thanks for catching that, I corrected that link as well as two others that were wrong as well. Good Vibes to You !
@rumel, you are the best, thanks a lot! 🙂
To catch you other guys for @rumel 's link, the essence of this must read in a nut shell:
As men, we have been inundated, ruined if you will, by a focus on our "package". Pornography, video, porn sites, discussions of "does size matter", masturbation, intercourse, traditional orgasm, etc., all focused on one thing: Your Dick! [...] The Aneros experience seeks to get men where women have been able to go for centuries. Women have always known that orgasm is not an event. It's a state of being! And for us, the Aneros experience offers us the same thing...but you have to remember that it's NOT about your Penis. In fact, leave the damn thing alone when you're working on your Aneros experience. It'll still be there the next time you want to use it for other stuff!
If this post is not pinned at the top. I will be bumping it every so often. This is like GOLD to any beginners guide to using the aneros. Great job and way of writing it so we can all understand.
ATTENTION: ALL NEW USERS (Beginner's Guide) ^^SEE ABOVE^^
As much as we say it though cockadoodle, some people still have to be constantly reminded.
@Cockadoodle's magnificent and wonderfully worded post should come along with every shipment! Best vibes!
P.S. Reading over @Cockadoodle's thread and internalizing his thesis just sent me into half an hour of Aless bliss and I just give in to new involuntaries, OMG!
Thanks, guys, for the insight, and especially for the useful links. This is a wonderful journey, full of fits and starts, but I'm progressing!