So far my Tempo has done nothing for me and I can't see things improving.
It doesn't move! If I stand up it will fall out to the last bulb and just hang there. If I lie down it will draw in to the last bulb and just sit there. And thats it. Despite my squeezing contractions, bearing down contractions, or just being completely relaxing doing nothing.
I'm ready to give up on it. Whats going wrong?
Has anyone else had the Tempo and got no joy?
Only works for me lying down on my front, i focus on the heat it generates when the body warms it and the weight of it, it makes some feelings and i treat it like a warm up for other devices in generating feelings again when things stop happening.
However of late, this whole method for me has stopped working, no idea why or how. But yeah.
Hi @Tempo, I have a suggestion for you that may enable use Aneros Tempo for sure. Aneros Tempo is designed that you can insert easily and use it while seated. Tempo will work naturally while you are seated without having doing nothing. Then I can use Tempo while lying down.
Thanks pals. To me it just seems too heavy to allow any movement or auto fuck to happen, or maybe my muscles are too weak?
@Tempo, I used my Aneros Tempo for the first time in about two years this afternoon. Yes, Tempo has a heavy stainless steel design. It does not actually massage the prostate, but it was designed to tone your anal canal and musculature.
The Aneros Help Center and Aneros Wiki strongly recommends that you do the Kegel Exercises daily so that you can use Aneros devices such as Tempo with confidence.
Once you cleansed Tempo and allow it to dry, lubricate your anal canal with your favorite lubricant. The pour some lubricant on Tempo before inserting it. This afternoon I inserted my Tempo before sitting down in my chair. It is the chair which I use while working on my PC. This afternoon I observed Tempo very closely to notice how it worked on me. I was impressed. It appeared that Tempo opened me up. It certainly toned my anal musculature. I did not have to do anything. I just let Tempo tone my anal canal. It was very pleasurable. Duration of Tempo use was a mere fifteen minutes. You may discover that your back may become sore while using Tempo. For your safety, bring your session with Tempo to an end. Also you may experience strong Aless following, as I did today. Good luck!
When the tempo works...good lord its amazing. At first I too thought it was a dud toy but I normally start out seated and then I move it to lying down...its also the only toy that does anything for me when I am on my stomach. Well that and the Progasm.
Thanks everyone. Has anyone used thr Tempo during everyday wear? Or when going for a walk?
I'm thinking of wearing it on a walk, but will it just hang out on the last bulb like it always does when I stand, or eventually draw in?
Yes I wear mine regularly and enjoy the all day sensations. The secret for me is because it is made of stainless steel it does not need so much lub. I apply just enough to aid insertion and that is all.
Thanks everyone. Has anyone used thr Tempo during everyday wear? Or when going for a walk?
I'm thinking of wearing it on a walk, but will it just hang out on the last bulb like it always does when I stand, or eventually draw in?
I've worn mine and gone and picked up dinner from a BBQ place. I was in public having really good prostate orgasms.
Important to remember - the Tempo is a very different device than the other prostate stimulators and, as a result, works a bit differently and produces different sensations. I would suggest having success with the Eupho before even considering the Tempo because the sensations these two devices produce are more like something lightly licking the prostate than the heavier, more direct and aggressive massage with the bigger units. Also, even the Tempo is much different than the sensations produced by the Eupho. As your sphincter and PC muscles contract and release on the shaft of the Tempo, the big bulb lying on the prostate will start to quiver, sometimes at a fairly rapid rate depending on your ability to generate fairly light and repetitive sphincter and PC contractions. If your body is attuned to the quivering of the big bulb, the feeling you get from it is nothing short of exquisite. To me it is more like an edging experience (which is what I enjoy anyhow) with an occasional and somewhat accidental and surprising fall over into orgasm.
Have fun and enjoy the different sensations, and don't worry about whether or not you are having an O. That will come in time.
Thanks everyone. I'll be sure to report back. I know that walking with it is against everything Aneros say, as in your supposed to be aroused when you use it and super relaxed, but I'm at the point of thinking what do I have to lose.
Aneros said that this device is for anal stimulation only, and doesn't touch the prostate, but judging by some of your replies its hitting the prostate too.