I thank our good buddy, @Armon-neat, for starting this thread. I am a retired man who happens to live in a large city which is the seat of the national government along with a high concentration of federal agencies and military service headquarters with their attendant federal employees and military men and women. At this time in my retired life, I have few male friends with whom I can share intimate matters of sexuality and morality.
There are many security agencies located here.
Also I go to a large church attended by some of the national authorities, feds, and military men. This parish church belongs to a denomination which is liberalizing a great deal on sexual issues and morality. However this great church which dominates the neighborhood where it is located. Most people at church, I believe are stuck in 1950's mentality on these issues. But prostate health among the men I see there is an issue. Would that the Aneros enter in for their well-being.
I had a long agonizing comment written here but the site swallowed it up and didn't even save a draft! But you can just imagine what I said 🙂