Tantric massage

Over the years, I’'ve had many “tantric” massages. Far too many have been a rub and a tug by a poorly trained masseur. On the other hand, I have had some excellent ones that were both therapeutic and extremely erotic. Prostate massage, however, is only part of the experience and often not the main focus. Generally, they resemble a regular massage with increasing attention to the nipples, butt, and then the genitals. The last part of the session zeros in on the last two. I think they always finish with a “happy ending.” It can be amazing, Nevertheless, it is totally different from an Aneros ride, i.e. apples and oranges. If you do it, book at least 90 minutes and be prepared for some disappointments. And don’'t expect it to be anything riding your helix for two hours.

The one drawback I found with the trained tantric masseurs: they are often steeped in Eastern Philosophy, and I had to endure some psycho-babel during the sessions. And I was too polite to ask them to desist. Never did quite figure out what exactly a chakra is.

Hey @simeonh ,

thx for sharing your insight!

Never did quite figure out what exactly a chakra is.

Hehe, that made me chuckle. Never bothered to search the internet? Or this forum?

Chakras are an esoteric concept indeed, but: it's totally ok to only buy the practice and leave the philosophy-packaging at the store. I see chi and chakras as visualizations and a tool for biofeedback. I wouldn't go so far to say they are important to know, but keep in mind that with the aneros you are basically learning and practicing tantra with extra steps. And chi & chakra are basic concepts of tantra.

Flies away...

@Unfug I will dutifully check out the links. I guess I actually don't care some much about the tantra concepts about my helix. All I know is that it feels amazing, and actually more amazing than the tantric massages I've experienced.

All I know is that it feels amazing.

In the end, that's all that matters. 🙂

I see chi and chakras as visualizations and a tool for biofeedback. I wouldn't go so far to say they are important to know, ...

To me they are very important, if not substantial to know. And especially visualizing chi and chakras helps me a lot to know what's going on with me, to identify obstacles and hurdles, if not even lead my vibes where I want them.

@Rommel Osage, as everybody can call himself a tantra masseur, many people will try to offer this service, from masseurs with professional background and ambition to amateurs to even prostitutes. I'm afraid you will have to check your local offers. Perhaps an openminded urologist might be willing to give you recommendations. To get an idea hegre.com provides some (NSFW) video examples how sensitive such a massage should be done. Some time ago I received something similar called "thai massage" from a good friend and found wonderful relaxation of mind and body. "Living is about letting go" was a quote on the wall of his massage room.
I wish you good luck and that you'll find what you search for. Hope you keep us posted. I too would like find some talented masseur nearby.

Hi @Tarzanhenkie, if you like to try something else than weed, I would recommend hypnosis audio files, I found very helpful for focus and relaxation and especially to learn letting go.
Being a bit kinky as dealing with femdom, cum denial and jack-off instructions my choose might not meet everybody's taste, but keep in mind that there is a wide range of different files to find.
After all it's too suitable for non-smokers. 😉

To get an idea hegre.com provides some (NSFW) video examples how sensitive such a massage should be done.

Dude, I love these! Like to watch them at the beginning of a session, because they set exactly the right mood and are reasonably slow paced. You can find full lenght versions at PornHub and the like.

Also: female masturbation videos by Hegre. This mans work is really one of a kind.

Dude, I love these! ... This mans work is really one of a kind.

Affirmative! As a subscriber I love to watch them even in 4K. Awesome! 😎

@Rommel Osage and @ All you other responders, too.

I have had my first (I think of many) Tantric massages this past week. I have been anerosing for over 5 years and have also been seeking physical contact. I had looked for a more sensual sort of massage than standard "Swedish" (which I do use for my "aches and pains"). I was fortunate in that on my second attempt to find someone, since my first contact was exactly what @simeonh described: "A rub and a tug"...and all this while the bloke was getting phone calls....Sheesh!
But this past week was an eyeopener. I found this fellow with a well done web site and I spoke with him beforehand. He was able to give me an appointment 2 days after I first contacted him. He had a "beginner's" sensual massage and a "full tantric" one. At first, I thought I should ease into it with the beginners, but I opted for the "full monty". And I am glad that I did. The 75 min (after a 15 min chat about who I am and what made me seek him out), was an experience that up till now I had only imagined was possible for me. And I was entirely comfortable with the experience. As in @simeonh story, this man has East Asian motif to his room and the chants, but he did not speak except to have me stand or sit or lie down. There was no mumbo-jumbo and I appreciated that. On his website, he poses the FAQ: What is the difference between sensual massage and Tantric, and he points out that in Tantric massage, you, as the massagee take an active role. I did--somewhat to my surprise, but it felt so natural and comfortable. I did ask permission at each stage (because that's me). Touching and feeling and closeness such as I had never experienced with a man.

And it made the entire time just spectacular.

Though I fully expected to have a wet O, I didn't, and didn't feel the urge or need to during or after. In that sense (and maybe in that sense only), the session was like a ride, because I didn't feel the drive/need/urge to "finish off". And I was left with the most wonderful, and satisfied sense of pleasure and warmth and connection.
Am I going back..Oh, yes. Of course, it is an expense...So I am trying to see whether I can handle a monthly session (I have a feeling that I am going to want more, but I don't want to be a glutton).

Interestingly, I had ridden the night before this session, an amazing Helix ride overnight. An hour of exquisite pleasure on a plateau of bliss ( 🙂 ). So, it would be interesting to see which influenced what? I guess I will just have to try it before, after, and maybe even during. In fact, I told the 'guide" that I used an Aneros device (that is the extent of my anal experience) and he suggested that I bring it the next time...So, I will be sure to let you all know...
Cheers and wishing wonderful rides to all.

@Armon-neat, I'm jealous, don't dare to not keep us posted! :p

@SOwithoutAneros : no need [ever] to be jealous of me 🙂