Super o and sex

Hey man, I'm with you, my wife needs my cock all the time! Although we don't do it everyday like we used to, it's still extremely frequent. However, it was her involvement with me and Aneros/prostate play that got me to have my first Super O after almost 10 years of trying!!!

I had a plan: abstain from ejaculation/orgasm for 15 days. It was just a number I picked, no real reason. But, my wife teased me everyday with BJs, handjobs, light petting, etc. On day 5 I had an Aneros session. It was good and I milked some prostate fluid out with a g-spot dildo I have (it's my go-to dildo) and it was very nice. It was hard to not grab my joystick and go for the big win during that session let me tell you! But I refrained from touching myself. In fact the only touching of my cock was by my wife.

Then, on day 8, we decided to have a sexy evening together that involved only prostate stimulation. We got naked, got really high, and she started to caress me all over and really, I mean REALLY, got my body moving all over. I had the MGX in and it was giving me, what I did not know at the time, but can identify now, prostate orgasms that were strong enough to be recognizable but not over the top to be what I "thought" was a Super O. After a few minutes of this I switched toys to the Eupho. A little deeper reaching, it started to get my prostate and especially seminal vesicles ready for "something" I could feel building but again, I didn't have a frame of reference for what a hands-free p-spot orgasm was supposed to feel like. I think I had a few more prostate centered Os with the Eupho. I had begun to play with my nipples just a week before trying this 15-day abstaining thing and it was ramping up my autocontractions really good (had I just kept with nipple play during my Aneros sessions, I prob would've had bonafide prostate Os...). So as I played with my nipples my wife was caressing my legs from knees down to my groin. It started to get me hard.

That was when everything changed. By everything I mean my life and my understanding of it!!! She said "Do you want to try your dildo??" I needed it in me really bad. It was an urge I had never felt, a hunger in my ass that needed to be fed like my life depended on it. I lubed it up and worked it in, it was divine. Then she took over its movements and she kept the head/turn of it up towards my prostate but wouldn't let it pass fully over/across it. Just kept it like at the front and midway points. Then she started rotating it side to side so the g-spot head slid across my prostate back and forth, over and over, and she slowly moved it in and out like maybe a half inch to inch. It had me on the "edge" like I had no idea what was going to happen next. If it was penile stimulation I'd say she had me at 99.9999999999999999% on the edge of the point of no return for traditional O/ejaculation. After at least a few minutes of this delicate teasing play I couldn't stand it anymore, told her I needed to take over, grabbed the toy and pushed it way deep into me and moved it in and out only a few times.

That's when it happened: I had my first recognizable prostate O but it was a Super O of the most epic proportions!!!! All I needed was that one pass across my prostate and it triggered the most massive muscle spasms deep in me I had ever felt. Nothing felt like this before, nothing. As the orgasm began I kicked and my body jerked a bit, my head whipped side to side and what I saw was still only what can be described as a hallucination. It was like I was at a rave in the '90s, and the lights in the room (dim lights of mild colors) strobed and got brighter. It looked like my wife's hair was whipping around and she was dancing or something like that but she was just sitting there in awe at what I was doing. This whole "trip" lasted maybe 5 seconds and then it was just a beautiful washing over me feeling for about 30 more seconds. After that I was completely "done" and spent. I felt like I ejaculated a load I had saved up for weeks and weeks, but after having sex for like 2 hours non stop. We called it a night after that I cleaned up and we went to sleep. Talk about deep sleep on my end, holy crap!

Two take aways from this: 1) I know for a fact it was the abstaining from cumming that got me to have a Super O, which was my first recognizable prostate O. It also allowed me to learn what a prostate orgasm felt like, even smaller less powerful ones, so in my very next session, I had a prostate O within a few minutes of insertion of an Aneros and after that I have had numerous Os during every session, and that first time with my wife was in spring of 2013.
2) There are so many fun benefits to exploring Aneros with your loved one!! Especially if it's your wife and y'all have lots of sex and a healthy sex life! I'm not saying to replicate my adventure. But, from my experience, you should see that the road to a Super O can come about from various angles and situations. I do not believe in a "this way only" path to Aneros-driven Super Os. However, no penis stimulation is always the first rule to follow.

Question for you @Tommygunn: Have you had the Aneros in you while having sex with your wife? Do you know what it feels like to have a traditional orgasm/ejaculation with a toy in you? You might want to try. That way you know what it feels like when your standard orgasm is firing off and the toy is in you reacting to those natural spasms. Once you feel that you might know what an orgasm feels like in just your ass because you know what the toy does when it's moving/reacting during orgasmic spasms. Just a thought!

Whatever you do have fun and if your wife is along for the ride, enjoy!

@techpump i have had quite a few prostate o’s including multiple o’s,no super o yet,and super t,but no I haven’t had sex with it in yet,I was hoping to master the whole Aneros prostate game so I could hopefully use it to enhance pleasure during sex and cum multiple times before ejaculating..I know..I’m ambitious lol..

3 weeks not banging her is out of the question, so is 5 days ... so is 3 days, lol, get my drift? [...] what are people'’s thoughts on these points?

@Tommygunn, as @techpump already described, semen retention isn't sexual abstinence, it's only denial of ejaculations. Although not blessed with a dick hungry wife or at all partaking in any active partner sex life, my two cents here are: the only thing she wouldn't get for 21 days were your ejaculations. Even having sex several times every day would be okay and only would test your willpower to the very limit. There are a lot of couples playing this tease and denial game for months or even more than a year.

Like you can read from my experiences during my 40-days-semen-retention-challenge I have been teasing myself a lot. Afterwards I must say, especially this teasing and withstanding the urge to ejaculate has made my days and finally has been extremely supportive for my journey.

Of course it would be difficult, perhaps even impossible, to try this without letting your wife in on your challenge, but I see no reasons why you shouldn't successfully cope with some semen retention weeks and nevertheless fulfill your wife's needs.

Lately @wetdream63 blogged about introducing semen retention to his wife:

I decided to forego my climax. This bothered her at first, until I reassured her that it was more fun for me that way. And it is. I enjoy it, give her how many orgasms she wants, then we call an end to the lovemaking session. I am filled to the brim with bonding hormones.

The only warning I'd like to add is that women rapidly take a fancy to denial games as soon as they learn to know the benefits*. :p

Good vibes, Mart

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@SOwithoutAneros lol you don’t know my wife,she just wouldn’t be able to do that,she gets carried away during sex,in fact,she goes to the place where we need to go to get to the super-o..she wouldn’t stop ha ha..just hope I’m not banging my head off a brick wall..coz I do like my helix..

@Tommygunn, as my wife is the opposite of yours, to me you already seem to live in heaven. But what if you could reach her places of super Os with a little help from her working on your stamina by learning to separate your orgasms from your ejaculation? Admittedly you afterwards should take care that the fireworks you both ignite won't burn down your home, 😉
Good vibes to you, hopefully this your heaven lasts for long and even longer! 🙂