I've had my aneros for a year and after 3 unsuccessful attempts, i finally got it going and now its incredible.
the key for me was getting high first. that relaxed me enough to find my way to hours of orgasms.
Now i can do it without weed, but whatever you need to do to relax will help you get there!
Thanks for the tip! 8)
yes, this always works for me, providing very intense sexual sessions. it is my secret elixir, that i use sparingly (a few times a year).
my posts over the years have described some of them. the latest example is my post of yesterday http://www.aneros.com/forum/my-intense-fantasy-t4996.html .
darwin