Stuck - please advice

resu_sorena,

First, I'd ask what has changed in your life situation/environment? Are you encountering new stresses? In a new relationship? In a new locale? There are any number of external factors which could be occupying your mind to the detriment of your Anerosessions. If this is true, then resolving/accommodating these issues will need to occur before you feel comfortable enough to relax and enjoy your Aneros usage again.

Until some time ago, in aneros sessions I used to feel p-waves. After about an hour in, I'd start getting intense urge to cum. Half the time, I'd just end the session after this.

I'm curious, why were you ending your Anerosessions just as you were entering the Super-O zone? This seems to me counterproductive and counterintuitive in a journey towards Super-O's. You are, in effect, programming yourself (rewiring) for orgasmic denial and subsequent loss of pleasure.

The other half of the time I'd cum after very minimal penile stimulation.

If this occurred while you were still riding your Aneros, then you are rewiring yourself to experience Super-T's instead of Super-O's.

IMHO, the admonition to avoid touching your penis in Anerosessions (at least untill after a few Super-O's) is a very important facet of the rewiring process. It is a core concept of the thought paradigm shift toward prostate based orgasms and the pleasure waves associated therewith. The temporary abstinence you have been practicing is good for building arousal leading into an Anerosession. My advice here is, when you reach that point in your Anerosession when you

...start getting intense urge to cum.

don't end the session there and don't touch your penis either, give yourself permission to cum via the Aneros alone, just relax everything and ride that urgent feeling to see how far it takes you. You just may fall into a fantastic Super-O.

Welcome resu_sorena to your aneros journey and this great community!! 😀 😀

I agree with rumel's excellent detailed analysis and suggestions to you. 😀

I would just add that deep relaxation and setting aside any anxiety or "mind noise" about "[losing] even the p-waves" is also important in your regaining equilibrium and moving forward. P-waves are, in my experience, key early body talk to you as they are the conscious manifestation by your body to your conscious mind of the general spectrum of energies that are always in and flowing through our bodies/brains.

That spectrum of energies include the orgasmic energies that dry prostate-centred orgasms awaken, trigger and amplify, that all our orgasmic ecstatics depend upon, and that may take you anywhere along its full spectrum of energies eventually: http://www.aneros.com/forum/f5/super-o-spectrum-whats-your-point-view-15328/

deeply relaxed, no expectations or anxieties, openly await reception of p-waves and all other whispered initial gifts all

artform

First, I'd ask what has changed in your life situation/environment?

Not much really, except the frequency of use. I don't use aneros as often because I didn't think it was getting anywhere.

I'm curious, why were you ending your Anerosessions just as you were entering the Super-O zone?

I mean ejaculate when I meant cum. Slightest touch of penis will make me ejaculate after a point.