Stimulating lubes

Hi. So I'm an experienced user of Aneros and prostate massage.

When first discovering Aneros many years ago and experimeting with different techniques, I tried my girlfriends "Pasante female stimulating gel" and the results were the best I've ever had. Reaching full body numbness and tingling like nothing else.

Unfortunately, since this product has been discontinued I have tried several other lubes like liquid silk and KY, still great but i just don't seem to get the same sensations.

I need to try and find a replacement so before I start buying and trying different (female) gels I'm wondering if any of you have had success with a stimulating gel at all and could possibly recommend?

Thank you all