Started Some Solo Dildo Experimenting

*Edited* [Earlier I wrote on my new dildo and how I didn't much care for it - but after a 2nd session i've changed my mind and decided to amend my post]

Finally tried my Real Feel Deluxe 6.5" X 2" this afternoon. At first I didn't think I was going to be able to fit it in. I've never tried a 2" before. But after a few minutes of relaxing and breathing it actually went it. I couldn't believe it. But, my verdict is - its a little too big. While I was able to stretch enough to actually fit it in, it was just too overly girthy for any nice sensations. It wasn't painful, but I think stretching out to max capacity took a little of the pleasure out of it. I might try it again when I have enough time to devote a good amount of time to a session. This was kind of a quick trial run I Got to try it again a few hours later and that session was much better. I was able to take my time, relax and really get my arousal up. It didn't take long before it was sliding in and out with no effort at all. The bigger girth was actually kinda nice. The larger bulbous head was nice for stimulating the sphincters. I was surprised how quickly I adapted to the larger size.

In light of this new discovery, I'm pretty much sold on the Vixksin Mustang. My first dildo (the 6" X 1.5" Whopper) was nice, but I wondered what a little bit bigger one would feel like. After trying the 2" I think the Mustang, which weighs in at 1 5/8", would be ideal! Plus the Mustang has a curve to it, which i'm eager to try out.


But now I'm finding myself in a bit of a dilemma. Earlier when I tried this new dildo and found that the size (2") was a little too much, I was sure that i'd go with the Vixskin Mustang. But now after this most recent session I'm wondering if I should opt for a larger model like the Maverick. I'm still sort of leaning towards the Mustang 1) because of the rave reviews I've read about it and how it seems to be the most popular 2) because it seems to be a nice middle ground between this new large dildo and my old (soon to be discarded) 1.5" dildo. I suppose it wouldn't be ridiculous to own two Vixen models; my issue is that I don't want to end up favouring one over the other and wind up owning an expensive dildo that I rarely use.

Any recommendations?

Also, a few new Question for you solo dildo users:

Do you find that during sessions you have a sensation like you're going to void yourself?
I don't mean from the dildo itself - its more like a certain pressure on your inner sphincter.

Is this part of relaxing your entire anal/rectal region for such practices as solo dildoing?
I'm always afraid of making a mess during a session, even though I will have just recently had a BM.

Do you get that sensation even when you know you're completely cleaned out (after BM or douche)?
Its sort of like when you first encounter prostate stimulation and it feels like you're going to pee, but really you're not. In this case, is it the dildo stimulating your inner sphincters - and eventually this sensation, once you learn to relax, can lead to better sessions and pleasurable stimulation?

musicmaker86, you asked the question about the feeling that you are going to void yourself when using your dildo. I have felt this in the past when using dildo. Tonight I am sitting here in my easy chair replying you your post with my new Tantus Neo butt plug that arrived today chock-a-block up my anus. It feels very nice. What I wanted to say is that earlier, while walking around and also standing still, it sometimes felt as if I was going to, or had indeed started to have a bowel movement. Clenching down onto the butt plug arrested the feeling. The feeling was sort of pleasant but as I was well lubed up, I didn't want to lose everything as I would have surely left a mess in my underwear.

@musicmaker86

You never can know with sex toys which ones you will like and use until after you buy them. That is the nature of them, because you can't try it before you buy it. I have a Fun Factory Share that I paid a good amount of money years ago that hardly gets used because I don't like the feel of it. Disappointing for sure, but that's just the way it rolls. I can say this, usage of the smaller Aneros prostate massagers and the Peridise really keep your anal sphincters strong and tight such that when I do use them it makes it difficult to get my Feeldoe More inserted. It takes more gentle repeated tries and patience. I think that you will adapt to either the Mustang or the Maverick. I doubt either one would be a poor choice.

In terms of the feeling like you have to move your bowels while using the dildo...
Either this is the anal play newbie experience of not having re-wired your body/mind yet to feel pleasurable sensations from a dildo, or you are using a water based lube that has glycerin in it that is actually making you need to void your bowels. In western medicine, glycerin suppositories are used to relieve occasional constipation. That's why in these forums we typically steer people clear of water based lubes with glycerin in them. Check the ingredients in your lube.

http://wiki.malegspot.com/index.php?title=Getting_Started#Types_of_Lubricants

I don't get any of those sensations. Even when I first started using the dildo because I was sufficiently re-wired from my Aneros journey.

You never can know with sex toys which ones you will like and use until after you buy them. That is the nature of them, because you can't try it before you buy it. I have a Fun Factory Share that I paid a good amount of money years ago that hardly gets used because I don't like the feel of it. Disappointing for sure, but that's just the way it rolls. I can say this, usage of the smaller Aneros prostate massagers and the Peridise really keep your anal sphincters strong and tight such that when I do use them it makes it difficult to get my Feeldoe More inserted. It takes more gentle repeated tries and patience. I think that you will adapt to either the Mustang or the Maverick. I doubt either one would be a poor choice.

You're right, I guess its buyer beware. I think i'd rather go with the Mustang and enjoy it as it is than go with the Maverick and wind up feeling like its too big, which I believe is a possibility. And I also think you're right when you say either one wouldn't be a poor choice.
At the time of using the device I wasn't using a water based lube. Coconut oil I believe. I have used water based lube as well but it was also glycerin free.

Looks like I'll be reviving this old thread for an update.

I ended up getting the Mustang Vixskin. Its a great dildo, although I found it a little difficult to use for mounting and hands free use. No suction cup base so I had to use some tape. Plus since its so flexible and slightly curved it was hard to accommodate any real repetitive penetration. Once inside it felt nice though. I haven't used it very much since I've gotten it - I sort of had my fill of anal play for a while and just got tired of it.

But just this last while I'm starting to feel a bit of a revival coming on. Got out the Mustang tonight for a session and it felt great but I found myself feeling like I wanted something bigger still. Did some thinking on it and decided I'm going to order a Vixskin Maverick for myself. I'm looking forward to seeing how the additional girth feels.

Any other users of the Maverick or something similar in size care to comment or share experience?